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August 23 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
Had similar happened to me (on this site though)..... Can't help you there ...... Sometimes at a loss to understand the male mind. Cissy
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RHP User
14 years ago
to be respected (no matter the "genre" of the site you are on). I am on a vanilla site too Mumma (in the hope of meeting a wonderful man) and I have experienced similar scenarios. If only those men would realise that a healthy dose of honey delivered with a spoonful of respect will get them so much further. Above all be true to yourself Kisses KK
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'd give you an answer, but you're grammar is so bad I just don't know what you're trying to say. Its a very confusing post. The way I read it, you're complaining about a guy wanting to get in your pants... hey its why most of us are here right? And statistically speaking, at least you're getting attention right? And yeah, hookers do get paid, but in my experience its a shit job and I've stood up a lot by clients who were barely able to leave a deposit. I would say that compromise is the cornerstone of any happy relationship, otherwise you'll juist end up single and bitter. Oh wait...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Ok.. first...what's with all the game playing? It's like a dude has to be Dartanignon from the three muskateers one minute and Tom Hanks from that horrible chick flik (you name it) the next?Like I have always said.... shag first... then get to know a person if the shagging is worthwhile. You will invest so much emotional energy in this guy and then what? He's a dud root? Oh My Goodness.. what a disappointment that is going to be. Can you imagine it? He's there lighting cigars and you're laying there thinking "Is that it?... is that all you've got for me?"No.... I say get the crazy arse sex out of the way... he he can't get you humming when you dont know him... he ain't going to be able to do it when you've falling in love with his quirky little ways either.Take notes if you like..... I won't say this again! Jeese. Women, I will never understand the illogical way they go about their business! :pHugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
I've read this a time or three...men run hot and cold and you are most likely right with regards to this site. The men here are so out-gunned it's ridiculous and at least from my own experience...getting across the line is like dancing without the music. This is essentially a "sex site" and maybe more...but as we approach the runway we are flying blind most of the time. I've made a couple of good friends that I haven't bedded which is all good...but not exactly the desired outcome in several cases. I played the wrong card early on in the game...although it's nice having friends too. I have also just done the deed and pulled up fast...I have enjoyed that albeit may not have made a friend when perhaps I would have liked that too. | It's up to you how you play the game from here on out...you'll most likely get out of it exactly what you want and maybe even what you need. How hot or how cold...your hand is still on the tap. Have to say I am inclined to agree with Stalky on this one...stick to what we are here for and if it turns out to be more, enjoy the ride and take a few chances.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Unfortunately Stalkers I don't think alot of women think that way. Was having this conversation recently with some girlfriends & they all say that they NEvER sleep with a guy on the first date and they would like to get to know the guy first. Heymumma, you cant always go backwards, I think alot of men make certain assumptions about the women on here and if he is one of those dudes being on a vanilla site is not going to change that. :(
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RHP User
14 years ago
Chasing it worked!! Now how are you at fixing coffee machines. xx Meeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
Happy to lend a hand...wherever it's needed. Kind of like the threads here....you break 'em, I fix 'em. | Quoting 'Meeka100'Chasing it worked!! Now how are you at fixing coffee machines. | Is this a house call or do I meet you at the office? Either way, this counts as a first date...right? | Price is negotiable and subject to change without notice.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Thank you all for your input..Well stalky i hear and get what your saying..No probs falling love.or getting emotionally caught up..and drained...I can separate the two ...and the other thing is i don't believe in romanticlove more, so after 30 yrs of combined married life twice...Oh i've also had randoms..in my younger days in some.unexpected ways and places..lol..and man oh man..talk about mind blowing..T and meeka..you girls know.it..i totally agree.Midnight..Thank you for reminding..that's ok for me to handle the controls..as such and if a guy can't handlea woman who knows her own mind and knows what she wants.and how she wants it.tough boobies..lolPlus with some of the stories on the news..concering sites..we woman have to play it a bit on the safe side.I've also met and played with 2 awesome guys after chatting to them..till the time was right..for boththey could only do nights..which i can't anymore..;(..had a pool house).day time is my only time mumma...xoxo
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sorry to hear about that Mumma...You know the old fool me once shame on you, fool me twice ,shame on me.. I am with stalky..have great sex and work the rest out later..but you know what would happen ..the sex would be bad , and the guy wont stop ringing !!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'stalky'Like I have always said.... shag first... then get to know a person if the shagging is worthwhile. You will invest so much emotional energy in this guy and then what? He's a dud root? Oh My Goodness.. what a disappointment that is going to be. Can you imagine it? He's there lighting cigars and you're laying there thinking "Is that it?... is that all you've got for me?"Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' It's up to you how you play the game from here on out...you'll most likely get out of it exactly what you want and maybe even what you need. How hot or how cold...your hand is still on the tap. Have to say I am inclined to agree with Stalky on this one...stick to what we are here for and if it turns out to be more, enjoy the ride and take a few chances. Why wait for this guy to come up to your speed? Sounds like you are both communicating on different levels anyway. If you just want some fun then hook up. Is this guy worth all the fuss?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Thanx everyone...As for you Nick..who the hell are YOU!!! you don't know me!!!.YOU sound like the bitter one..I didn't ask YOU for an English lesson either..Your just an ANGRY smart ass.as far as im concerned.any one can see that by your profile..Thus if my post didn't make sense to you...wtf bother saying anything at all..your nasty view wasn't called for..if you can't be respectfulkeep your mouth shut....and if you took the time you would have read further comments..further more you assumed wrong..im not bitter..least i still get on with my estranged husbandso grow the hell up
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
It sounds to me like that guy is probably playing the numbers game, he may be getting a bit confuzzled, about what he is saying to who and when, about whatever..........you know what they say......If it doesn't seem right it probably isn't..... And the other thing you mentioned about the blaa blaa, Peeps saying they want someone that knows their own mind etc.......meanwhile they probably don't know their own.......and maybee just saying what they think that someone wants to hear, or making them sound more sophisticated or some shit ! Anyway......i suppose we all may be guilty of running hot and cold.......I had quite a few experiences, where people say i realy want to meet you blaaa , or you think everyting is going good.....and then Nothing, no contact.....like you never existed........now i just think .....yeah ok , if it happens...Good !!!! if it doesn't, I'm not going to loose any sleep !!! xo Tam
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sorry but Nick is not alone in having problems readying this post .. it took me a read or four (bit more than CM) to get thru what was being conveyed .. Finally worked it out .. as have read the others .. But for the record .. NICK did not say you were bitter ... he said ..compromise ..... other wise you will end up being bitter .. there is a difference between being something... and becoming something .. the first is as the situation right now .. "THE I AM "the other might become something if things don't change .. the " I MAY BECOME ".. .Personally i don't see why you felt there was a need to be aggressive towards him, in both text and tone, because he expressed an opinion .. after all he was not the one to be calling a person names .. .. ...personally i don't think the perception of people from different sites will ever change ... it wouldn't matter how many different sites people are in .. its the flavor of the sites which give people their impression of the type of people they might meet .. not the people them selves
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sounds as if on the regular dating site he was just turning it on to impress you, but once he figured you weren't just sex on tap he let his true colours show. I figure he was after a straight hook up and you wanted a connection. Still he should have been up front and saved you both the time and effort! I say move on, he isn't worth the energy :-)
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RHP User
14 years ago
The thing is beachbody..I'd expected.that he (the guy) would have had a different attitude( respectful) towards women when conversing more so,at his age and after being married.Despite being on.a sex site or non dating site..i wrongly assumed he would have distinguished the difference in his approach accordingly to the two different situations...also he was aware that i had left this site when he had contacted me some months after he's no show for a met and why i left..Also this same guy knew what i was seeking..and he had stated the same thing in his profile...Yep i haven't wasted my energies..this time on him..Hey mikle1 Long time..no see..lol..I agree with you on it's a situational thing.. I do get where stalky and miss T are coming from..But i've still got 2 kids at home.that iam responsible for.Also when i was younger pre-kids..i had a carefree attitude..which was taken away from me..in a moment that i though being consensual i'd be safe...mumma xox
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quite simply put, its a proto language used by stupid people, to communicate with other stupid people in a psuedo-language to make them feel special and superior to those they can't understand or otherwise communicate with. I'm sorry sweetie... the truth hurts, and while we're on the subject of personall attacks, I think you are bitter, I never said you were but you damn sure look the fool now... there is absolutely no need for you to project your own insecurities and burgeoning inferiority complex on me... I see you are completely unfamiliar with satire, and furthermore, emotionally unstable. What kind of a person sends you a flirt and the blocks you? Oh wait... you did that to me already. I believe that is check and mate my dear... your move.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I was wanting to discuss this in private..not in the open forum...I think it had slipped both our minds..that we have spoken via messages...on a few occasions..in the past...i was last on here over a yr agoHence the message( flirt....)
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