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June 04 2013

Ok guys and gals I am new here and just fussing things out I am 37 my wife is 35 , I want to spice things up a little and I figure a good way to start is with some good porn . We have watched porn together in the past so I know she enjoys it or is atheist receptive to it , Unfortunately I find most porn disappointing, fake tits , too much make up , non of what I have seen is very erotic , just dudes with big dicks pulling the same facial expressions and the chick just doing the same thing , oh oh oh oh yeah fuck me , it's all too corney as well , I would like to perhaps get involved with partner swapping or same room sex but want to introduce that idea very slowly and wouldn't want to do anything my wife is not comfortable with , So I want porn film recommendations , based on several criteria , Something she will like as much as me or more ( I understand we all have different taste but any suggestions welcome ) 1 female fri3idly 2 , half decent believable plot 3 not too much cliche stuff 4 not too many fake boobs and make etc , good looking natural people and average people too 5 not into anal , spouse can fast fwd those bits 6 not into degradation or pain , a playful smack on the bum is ok So I guess I want porn that will let me know if she may be open to the idea of partner swapping or similar or aleast let us fantasize together about it , But the gentle approach is the go here , I don't want to Ssuddenly spring a hard core swinger porn on her , it doesn't have to be about that sort of stuff at all but obviously if we start enjoying a bit of porn together then I can try and direct a theme ,and see where it leads , I will hunt around here and see if there is any info that might inter3st me , in the mean time I would appreciate any responses , suggestions , commnets , any feed back will be welcome

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RHP User

13 years ago

Try searching through Red Tube online. It's free online porn. They aren't the whole movie but there is enough in there to find what you like and then google and buy the whole thing. Get your wife to choose the ones she wants to watch and go from there. It doesnt matter what you look at as they are all models and they all go "OOOO Ahhhhh Fuck me babe and Gee that's a huge cock" etc etc and you will get those facial expressions you hate in most porno movies. Red Tube is pretty good and caters to all tastes and needs from vanilla to hard core B&D and swinging. Put what you like in the search field and you will get it. Handy hint - It's Mrs here. I came from a very conservative background and wasn't in the lifestyle really till I met Mr Wefuk a little over a year ago. It took me 44 years to discover I was even bi and love the touch and feel of another woman. Thankfully i have my man as he introduced me to it all in the right manner and took my feelings into account at all times. You have to remember that most conservative non playing women would look at swinging as a mans excuse to cheat but in a imaginative manner under the guise of swinging and inclusion of the Mrs. Not the way I think today but would have been the way I thought two years ago if god forbid my partner at the time even suggested swinging. Tread carefully as you say you want to. I would have been pissed off and it would be rather off putting if when committed to me he opened a single male profile on here instead of a couples one. If you truly want to include your wife then you should be on this site as a couple. For a woman that is exploring her sexuality in a different manner there are heaps of insecurities that come into play until you finally work it all out after taking that leap of faith. If you do it together then she will feel more comfortable about it all. Work out both of your boundaries before doing anything and never ever break the rules and all should be good. Some say have no rules and good for them but there should be. Mr is a veteran swinger of over 20 years now and personal rules and boundaries are a must as it prevents people from being hurt and keeps everyone happy. Happy Viewing.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Thanks for your response , some good tips there , I will suss out red tube some more , I am really only on here to find out info and get advice from people such as yourself , Totally agree about doing as a couple as I sure as he'll don't plan on doing anything underhanded as far as my wife is concerned , And yeah I can see that if I go about it wrong it may seem like I am just making excuses to fucking other women , it's not really about that for me . I just get turned on by the thought of her having sex with another guy and me another chick . If she was open to the idea then I would definitely be on here with her but at this stage I think she would just be upset , It may end up that we don't do anything like swinging but that's cool too , Again thanks for your response

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RHP User

13 years ago

Once I saw a porn movie that was really funny with good looking guys in it. One scene was something like two guys trying to book an appointment and they said to the assistant "can you fit both of us in this afternoon" - you can guess where that led to.My girlfriend at the time loved it (and I loved that). It seems movies now are about the act of sex, not about setting the scene and are not so "couple friendly". I can see a Movie that broaches a subject in a funny or romantic way would help a couple explore that fantasy too.Anyway, to your original question, a lot of people think the Movie Pirates is ok as it has a bit of a plot. There is a site called videobox I once subscribed to that has a huge database of good quality movies. anyway, good luck, if you find any great ones, post the names ! As for free online sites, sunporno is not too bad as you can download the clips, but they are all scenes, not movies.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Hey, I've said this before on other threads but I'll say it again just for you :d If you want porn that's not over the top and less fake, try some of the older stuff from the mid 80s or even before. It's generally more ahem, 'realistic' (aside from the fact it's scripted of course). The people have regular bodies and regular cocks - there's less of the 'body beautiful'. It can be intimidating for women to watch porn if all the actresses are damned 'perfect' and can be a turn off. I can't offer advice on how to introduce the concept - clearly for every swinging couple, someone has to raise it. For us, I know it was me, but I don't remember sitting Mr down and saying 'hey, you wanna fuck other people?'. I really can't remember how we got here (but happy we are). Good luck and go slow. - Posted from rhpmobile

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custardapples

13 years ago

OK.. these are really good for couples ..we love themX ArtNubile filmsShould be able to find them on Redtube or one of the others like Porn Hub.Very good quality - really nice. Would be our suggestion.G & J

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RHP User

12 years ago

Ok so I haven't been on this site for a while But thank you for those suggestions , I just had a quick look at x art and nubile , Both look like the sort of stuff I am after , I am at work so couldn't play any movies but the stills look classy and don't look like there is too " ah yeh ah yeh fuck my arse baby ah yeh ah yeh " I think my wife will enjoy them with me , Thanks everyone for responding

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RHP User

12 years ago

We like the Porn director Erika Lust look her up and have fun!!

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RHP User

12 years ago

Is awesome, most of the time they look like they' really into one another.....kissing etc

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RHP User

12 years ago

With the OP, most of it is just off putting. X Art is pretty good and a friend of mine raves about Abby Winters saying it seems pretty natural.

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RHP User

12 years ago

another vote here for abbywinters..........the focus is on girls masturbating and lesbian sex with some guy-girl shots but its all very natural and well done

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RHP User

12 years ago

"Screw my wife " are a great selection of DVD's for couples

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RHP User

12 years ago

guys its been awhile since I have been on here , thanks for the responses , I now have a good selection to choose from , your ideas have been very helpful , got a good list of stuff to work through , thanks again guys

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RHP User

12 years ago

You can't go past those made by Andrew Blake.Google him.He's got a web site, and his DVDs are reasonably available via the larger importers / distributors in Australia via the web.Beautiful sensual women. The occasional handsome fellow. Sometimes a little soft fetish. Elegant locations and outfits. Very moody and sensual.Andrew Blake is my hero. He practically fills every technical role in the production of these movies himself, except for the music, and he's done it for maybe a couple of decades. I want his job !

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