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What do you see?
January 20 2015
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RHP User
11 years ago
Lovely miss Burning_love. You see your partner in all her glory getting you exactly where you feel the best to her. You get to see how she is enjoying being in control and on top. Yes there is wiggling and jiggling going on.. That's why they are called jiggly bits. I love being ridden and i haven't had a partner that I haven't loved watching above me. You are free to use your hands and mouths to best advantage when the girls on top. Having looked at your profile we think you have nothing to be embarrassed about. It looks from your pictures that you have a truly lovely body. We hope this helps. Gabby_and_vixen - Posted from rhpmobile
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aussian43
11 years ago
With the cowgirl position, I am either looking in her eyes, or at her boobs. Watching her boobs jiggle and bounce and sway is the best part of that position!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Don't be so hard on yourself (as easy as that is for me to say). But I say it because I believe that if if someone decides to enter the sexual realm with you, and you allow them into your intimate space.... .... they've accepted you and you've accepted them. While Im being sexual with a woman, I'm not evaluating her on a physical level..... I've made those judgements on whether I've found her attractive enough to want to pursue a physical extension before I've taken it there. Im sexual with her, and she with me... so that we experience, share, and give pleasure. So what do I see? I see her...... entirety.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I also just had a look at your photos and I'm not sure what wobbly bits you could possibly be referring to, you look gorgeous. But I do know what you are saying, thoughts like that do go through my head at times in the cowgirl position, but from what I have learnt over the years guys don't tend to see what we class as our flaws. Although I am not a huge fan of this position I do like to lean back and touch myself while taking a ride, always get a positive response 😜
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RHP User
11 years ago
Never been fond of anything of the bovine persuasion,xxFreya
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Dryphuz
11 years ago
that just telling you not to be so concerned about it isn't gonna do much for your piece of mind, but really, don't be so concerned about it. In fact the more relaxed and enjoying it you seem to be (awkward sentence, but you get it) the better. A guy would have to be a pretty self centred prat to not enjoy himself more seeing you really enjoying yourself. Personally when I'm being ridden like that i can never resist sitting up and wrapping my arms around her. Its just too good a view and i cant resist wanting to touch all of her at once. Last Gf would push me back down and put here hands behind her head which only got me even more excited. Remember, your body has already passed the test by this point. Being concerned about it at this juncture is just removing you from enjoying yourself and each other which is all you should be focusing on. Nuf Sed.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I see sensuality, sexy, warm inviting, kissable, huggable unforgettable, beauty. Then after cant wait till you drift to sleep so I can admire the perfection that is a lover at leasure. OP dont think those thoughts as they are not what the guy is thinking. You can tell by the way he touches you. If its soft sensual explorative he is captivated by beauty, If it crass utilitarian and matter of fact, fuck him of he is not worth your time and effort, You really should not be having sex with people thinking like that, especially the good ones, we, men and women sense the unease and 8 out of ten times blame our selves for your discomfort. Let go, and have fun.
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6exxy
11 years ago
Is not all there is but obviously attracted to each other before. The connection, being in the moment, the ride, the expression of enjoyment sharing a beautiful experience 🎉
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67' You really should not be having sex with people thinking like that, especially the good ones, we, men and women sense the unease and 8 out of ten times blame our selves for your discomfort. Let go, and have fun. Interesting perspective Blindman. Thought-provoking. Thank you x
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madotara69
11 years ago
Stars. Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
One of the secrets to great sex and particularly great orgasms, is to learn to feel completely UN-selfconscious. You have to become free of not only the negative thoughts about your own body image, but free of all of the stresses from your daily life/work etc. While there are things you might be able to do to help yourself, that is where the attitude of your partner at the time also comes into play. I'm sure everyone has hangups about their own body image, even top models. It could be tiny things like the shape of their jaw, their ears, their breasts hanging wrong, and many women have mentioned not liking their feet. I for one have a bit of a gut, love-handles, rather featureless torso ( little muscle definition except for my arms, shoulders and calves), perhaps could have a better standing posture, butt that sticks out more than I'd like (perhaps due to posture), some (harmless) fatty lumps visible under the skin, the odd stretch marks, also I'm very fair/white but with tanned arms and legs, but I still have very few hang-ups about being naked around others, getting into any sex position, and prefer sex with the lights on. That is one of the reasons I like to treat partners to a massage. For one, the massage (and other touching/kissing of the rest of the body) shows that you are comfortable exploring ALL of their "supposedly" unattractive body, and it let's them relax enough to remove some of the other thoughts they have floating around, and start just enjoying the moment. Also, cowgirl position is SO DAMN HOT, something about the woman "riding" the man and being in control. Even better with an actual cowgirl hat on :)
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Hottie1
11 years ago
Riding cowgirl, I make sure I put on a show. I touch my breasts, pinch my nipples, stretch back and grab a pair of balls or finger a pussy if I'm riding a strap-on. I love the grind, I love rubbing all my jiggly bits up and down the torso of a lover. One way I distract myself from thinking 'what is my lover thinking'. I agree with blindman on this, an intuitive lover will pick up your concerns, we all have them honey, so jiggle and wiggle away. And by the way, is there any position where my jiggly bits wont move ????? Mary xx
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N4November
11 years ago
I've never liked being on top but mainly because I'm on the shorter side so depending on my partners physique, it's just doesn't feel sexy when it is so uncomfortable! But regardless of what your body looks like, I can only imagine that seeing a woman in that position being pleasured and getting off on it must be a physical and visual delight!! I must admit that I like reverse cowgirl to put on a show. It makes me feel fucking amazing and very very sexy......
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sensual.... Expressive....I love watching her as she reaches her level of excitement... Then as we have both climaxed..I pull her to my chest and feel her breath on my neck.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm not thinking about my jiggly bits - I'm thinking about how great it is to see a man watching me through half closed eyes, groaning every time I hit that spot. Those appreciative noises are the BEST! I love it when he directs my hips and thrusts upwards... Oh man I'm getting a bit carried away in my head!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ahhh BL, I can't speak on behalf of all men, but I'm a pretty bad multi-tasker at the best of times, let alone while I'm feeling a warm slippery pussy sliding up and down my cock. So rest assured that it is unlikely that any man is putting together a shopping list, assessing the location and uneveness of your moles and freckles, or trying to work out why that bit on you jiggles and the other bit wobbles and wondering what sex with someone skinnier might be like once this horror is over. Men (and I will go out on a limb and speak for them all) are going to thoroughly enjoy the way your body moves as you ride up and down them, especially if you are enjoying it. Throw away your inhibitions and pretend you're riding a bike down a cobblestone street, where everyone is going to jiggle a little bit ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm with Baygirl, reverse cowgirl is amazing even more so with some twerking lol, even more so again if it makes her feel very, very sexy. That's the key BL, if a position makes you feel sexy then that is what he will see, you feeling sexy. If a position makes you feel self conscious, then he'll see that instead. So maybe hold off on the cowgirl until you feel confident enough in his passion for you, that you no longer feel self conscious.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I see a beautiful sensual woman who knows what she wants and is not afraid to express her self. She is confident, she is in control, She knows exactly what she wants, and she is lost in the moment. I am part of her passion, her desires. I am at her mercy... and loving it !
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gazpacho
11 years ago
All the jiggling is one of the best bits about it. All the self consciousness during sex is detrimental to cutting loose and having a jolly good uninhibited fuck. HUgsGaz
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RHP User
11 years ago
especially when our cocks are plunging in and out of something wet, warm and delicious and there are boobies swinging in front of our faces!!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I won't spend any time addressing what you feel uncomfortable about as DG has certainly said it mostly... But what I see... Is a woman...in all her naked vulnerability.... What I feel overides everything....that is connection. Connection of the physical that reinforces the mental. And it's that connection that truly turns this little guy on.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
If you believe you are sexy, then beautiful lady - YOU ARE! Confidence and natural sexiness trump cellulite any day of the week. Don't worry about what you look like, it's irrelevant, if you are drowning in pleasure and confident in your sexuality, you will be turning on anyone nearby, underneath you or otherwise 😊 xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
At six feet tall and around 78kg, I'm not small…and I'm far from "Buff" too. When I've seen a 5 foot nothing Lovely, riding over me, I just want to squeeze and caress that soft flesh…no bones for me please….and bugger thinking aboutour jiggly bits…this is the fun part! When I see her lost in the moment, then we're doing it right. Seeing her up there, I feel……dominated. And I like.. .
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RHP User
11 years ago
Its just as much about you and your pleasure as the guy your riding. Take a leaf out of ' ag4mg92' book and make it entertaining for both you and your partner.. Lean back' twist your nipples, grab his balls, do a reverse cowgirl , do anything you want ' but stop thinking about what you cant change. Truth is ' if your'e already gone that far its about getting off on the moment.. So it's on with the spurs ' hop on , guide him in ' and enjoy the ride...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Miss burning love, just want to tackle the issue of not feeling much. I'm going to be a little forward and suggest that you are going up and down on his shaft. Can I Suggest a different move, try humping and grinding him. The aim is to tap your g spot and grind your clit at the same time. So rather than bounce grind that cock. If this doesn't amp things up use a wand on you clit while you ride him. The wand will stimulate your clit which immediately tightens your silk purse. As a man we truly love women with curves and jiggly bits. Most men are just thankful that you have given him the privilege of your privates😁 P and L
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adventure27
11 years ago
Most ladies seem to feel more comfortable on top by candlelight :) Looking up into a ladies eyes increases the connection of the moment, so much non-verbal communication....while hands explore curves, holding hips and encouraging her towards peaks of pleasure.As for reverse ... has to be one of the sexiest views in the bedroom in my opinion
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RHP User
11 years ago
Was my first & still love it now
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is a woman sharing herself with me, all the lumps, bumps, wobbly bits, maps, ( think about it) battle scars and think nothing of it. I enjoy the company of women my age and that's what life is. If your really concerned, at night use a soft light and there's nothing hotter than a female silhouette sitting on top :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Can't get enough of it. And yes I am very conscious of the fact I have saggy jowls in this position. I tend to throw my head back to compensate, but hell, it makes me buck even harder.
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RHP User
11 years ago
thanks x
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