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Was It Something We Said?

December 01 2021

Hi RHP forums, just looking for some advice. We've been around for a while after a long time off, and we keep stumbling across the same problem. We'll be chatting to someone or to a couple, things will be great, the chemistry's wonderful, everything's clicking, and then we go to make plans and suddenly the other party stop responding, or block us out of nowhere without a word. And this keeps happening. This isn't a place to bitch and moan about it, because we're grown-ass adults who can accept rejection like grown-ass adults, but is there any advice that people can provide to us that could help turn this around (aside from 'just keep trying', that's not helpful)? We fully appreciate fake accounts are out there, so we typically avoid non-verified accounts, and we also appreciate that meeting people suddenly becoming a possibility or a reality may seem daunting to people, but if there's something we're saying or doing, or not saying and not doing, then we're not really sure what we're to do if we're not told why people seemingly aren't interested anymore. We used to have a really detailed bio and what we're looking for, but it got us nowhere, so we stripped it back and we're having better luck with conversations getting started now, but that only does so much. Any advice would be appreciated. :) - biandbackagain

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RHP User

4 years ago

Hi For what its worth - your profile looks nice. I’ve tried a few dating sites and have mostly encountered bots. The few women who did reply, also just went quiet or I just couldnt get anywhere. My sympathies. I dont know what happened in the case you mentioned. Maybe they had a change of mind. But the least they could do, is just say so.

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MarioKartNChill

one year ago

Thanks for posting this. We feel the same and feel like is this something wrong with us? We also get chatting and etc but when it comes to meeting up, it never happens. Sometimes we think people want to write they are into couples or Bi just to sound more hot. Lol

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