The approach

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  Cucknshells

  9 months ago

  Wouldn't it be great is one size fit all. If there was some magic word/ sentence like open sesame. Lucky though we are all different and all like different things.
  
  For me I like a message that indicates they have read my profile. A message that indicates that they believe we have common ground. Thats not all about them. That shows an interest in me. Thats just the first step.
  
  Then I will look at their profile. See if it is complete. Read it and then determine for myself if I think we might be compatible. Thats my take on it.
  
  Shells xx

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  Flirty2020

  9 months ago

  We like the opening message to be along the lines of “how r youse?” Hot pix. wanna fuk?
  
  And then to receive a barrage of unsolicited dick pics

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  Hotwife71

  9 months ago

  Depends on what the Lady is looking for.
  Relationship or NSA.

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  Felicitous

  9 months ago

  For me the first message isn't a big deal.
  
  If I don't think I'm aligned with the person's profile and like what I see, both visually and in content, I won't engage - other than a no thanks... no matter how wonderfully composed that first message is or not.
  
  If I do like their profile...
  Much more important are the subsequent messages. Can we converse, is there chemistry?! 🤷🏻‍♀️

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  Ssdw94

  9 months ago

  Ill give you a solid tip, women will only respond if theyre interested in you - doesnt matter what you say or how dumb it comes across

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  RHP User

  9 months ago

  First of all really read the profile. Is who you are what she wants? Is there anything that might say you might not match?
  
  If you know that you fit her criteria then take something she has told about herself, and tell her how that is relevant for you. Talk about yourself. You are selling yourself.
  
  No "hi". No "great profile". No "sexy pics".

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