M40

Taking things further!

May 05 2015

Hey all, I have probably raised a similar question in the past, but this is an expansion on the theme, so please bear with me! I have been in the scene for a while now, had immense fun, and met some fantastic people. Of the people I have met, many have been couples who play together, but include others as they see fit. My question is...WHERE do you find these people, and is there a way of searching on RHP for people who are interested in eventually developing a relationship? Is there some subcategory or whatnot that is aimed toward this? I have tried the traditional method of dating, but when my predilections have come to light, they have generally been dismissed, refused, or the partner has intimated that they are open to the idea, only to change their mind at a later date, or having expected for it to be a passing fancy of mine. I have checked out other dating sites, but they don't really give an option for your expectations in respect to monogamy, polygamy, and everything in between; RHP caters for sexual desires to be openly discussed, but does not really provide a means of specifically finding those who are interested in things developing organically, rather than just 'FWB'. Obviously things are made more difficult due to the stigma which surrounds males on...well, pretty much every dating site, but HOW/WHERE have you made these connections? If there is no subforum for people looking for relationships, maybe this is something that could be considered? Any help, advice, or whatnot would be appreciated. Happy Hunting, Worst

Comments

RHP User

11 years ago

It's when you don't put so much pressure on yourself to find a relationship that's when one finds you. Many people are on here for NSA or FWB ... but many relationships have also been formed from just starting out meeting and things just develop if the chemistry is there along with things in common and open mind set. When it comes down to it RHPers are no different to anyone else. Just be patient and if you find the right connection you will know. By the way many profiles, both male and female say they are open to a relationship if it feels right. Best of luck LG ps. I met my partner through here and we are very happy. It's the most completely open and honest relationship I've ever had.

reply

like
RHP User

11 years ago

Will find people wherever it is you have found them before.Go to meet and greets,I believe at the last one in Perth only four men turned up and there were thirty women..look at profiles that meet your seeking criteria.. Make an effort but it's not easy...but in the words f Malcolm..Life wasn't meant to be easy xxFreya

reply

like
RHP User

11 years ago

People are wary of saying that they are open for a relationship. And FWBs CAN turn into something more serious. Youre young, and should have no problems finding what you are looking for, just go into things with no expectations. Yes. everyone harps on about RHP being a sex site, but its an adult dating site, where people who love sex and have kinks can find people who are compatible. And there seem to be quite a few success stories on here so dont give up hope!

reply

like
RHP User

11 years ago

Move in to my house with me, hubby a woman of rhp and a sweet gay guy That should cover all basses for ya Now its your turn to vacuum the house , naked of course. Honestly, you find what your looking for out there>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> exit stage right Just look around you, in all the activities you do, your young good looking and articulate. Just use those transferable things out of an internet environment.

reply

like
RHP User

11 years ago

You live in W.A. I seem to have the same issue. Cant understand it though. I'm bi-sexual, and all i ask of my partners is that they either play with me and another girl (3some) or let me play alone with another girl if they arent comfortable..Not sure why its so hard to find someone open to that one.. Hope you find what your searching for. I think you will find alot of women are open to relationships with the right guy. Just relax and have fun, let a relationship come to you :) xx

reply

like
AnnieWhichway

11 years ago

What have we developed here? OP and others his age and younger. Expecting a web page or forum to cater and supply everything they may think off. OP. Some things can't be handed on a plate. It takes work. And it may never happen. If it does happen, appreciate, if it doesn't, that's life.... It not like "The Jetsons". A machine to cater for everything. What? Never heard of the Jetsons? Oh dear.......

reply

like
RHP User

11 years ago

I believe the main drive of what I was looking for was advice in general, though where people have their things they are looking for, participation level etc, it wouldn't seem an overexpectation to ask how far they are open to things going i.e FWB, casual meets, complicated, could develop, seeking relationship...whatever...and make that a means of refining your searches. What, we can search for people to fulfill our specific sexual fetishes, but not other such progress? If it's generation z one way, why not the other?

reply

like
RHP User

11 years ago

Feel free to let me know! Though most people head east FROM Perth, rather than heading this way...we have killer beaches and wineries though!

reply

like
AnnieWhichway

11 years ago

Quoting 'WorstofPerth' I believe the main drive of what I was looking for was advice in general, though where people have their things they are looking for, participation level etc, it wouldn't seem an overexpectation to ask how far they are open to things going i.e FWB, casual meets, complicated, could develop, seeking relationship...whatever...and make that a means of refining your searches. What, we can search for people to fulfill our specific sexual fetishes, but not other such progress? If it's generation z one way, why not the other? Fetishes and sexual preferences are things are already defined in peoples minds and therefore easily listed etc.But future relationships options can be a little more tricky and can lead expectations up the creek a bit.People have the option and often do, write it in the written section of the profile. Because its not there, doesn't mean that they are against it developing. And vice versa, if they had it listed doesn't mean it will happen with you but you may expect it if it was listed.I just think it would overcomplicate the process.Perhaps they have that sort of thing on vanilla relationship type sites. I don't know, never been on one. But i get what you are saying

reply

like

Taking things further!

Comments

Tags

Boards

Forum help