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Sex secrets

March 27 2014

If you could tell all of your future sex partners just ONE SECRET to great sex with you, what would it be? For me, I'd ask men to strike a perfect balance between dominance and deep connection. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Lilmiss just what would that perfect balance look like?

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    For great sex: Ask me what I like, listen and remember...

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    let's take our time

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Remember that 99percent of the time , I will be in charge ;) GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Oh my god, or fuck yeah - DON'T STOP what you're doing

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    lilmiss,I think I shall die a born again virgin :-) :-) xxQ

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    You have learnt everything you THINK you know about pleasing a woman from watching porn......then you know nothing.There is a time for hard and fast and its not Every time!

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I don't think there is "one" secret. I think if every encounter, whether it be a new lover or a partner of decades, is approached with an open mind and no expectations and an inclination to tune in to you partner with an intention to have as much pleasure and fun as possible..........the result will be good sex!!!

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'looking4quality' Oh my god, or fuck yeah - DON'T STOP what you're doing Or decide that then would be a great time to change position or angle....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Tough question :) I can only say what it means for me. I like a man to be in charge, direct the play etc. Even when I take charge and have my way with him I like to know he's letting me, indulging me, and could take back over any minute. For me, dominance is a strength that shows through in the bedroom and in life. It's not about ruling me, but moreso being certain about himself. It's definitely not a D/s thing for me. Kind of hard to explain, as it happens :s Deep connection is about being able to slow down enough to really feel me, us, what we're sharing, and to be incredibly moved by it. In my experience few men can or allow themselves to go that deep. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Lifes_great

    Lifes_great

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'JayJay_66' You have learnt everything you THINK you know about pleasing a woman from watching porn......then you know nothing.There is a time for hard and fast and its not Every time! More Gilligans Island....less porn

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'MisterGreen' Remember that 99percent of the time , I will be in charge ;) GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile LadyT cracking the whip

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    great explanation lilmiss.im sure you would also take plenty of time to share your secret to the right person!

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Remember that my pleasure comes from your pleasure , the harder wetter shuddering you cum the happier I am - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Its what i enjoy the most and searching for in a regular lover. Quoting 'lilmiss_fussy'Tough question :) I can only say what it means for me. I like a man to be in charge, direct the play etc. Even when I take charge and have my way with him I like to know he's letting me, indulging me, and could take back over any minute. For me, dominance is a strength that shows through in the bedroom and in life. It's not about ruling me, but moreso being certain about himself. It's definitely not a D/s thing for me. Kind of hard to explain, as it happens :s Deep connection is about being able to slow down enough to really feel me, us, what we're sharing, and to be incredibly moved by it. In my experience few men can or allow themselves to go that deep. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • N4November

    N4November

    12 years ago

    .... ..... sploosh! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • N4November

    N4November

    12 years ago

    .... ..... sploosh! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I have a whole body to play with, not just a vagina. I want you to explore it all with all of your senses, sight, touch, smell, taste and hear it roar.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Hmm For me its more a few things that incorporate that one "SECRET" Let yourself go, explore and learn each other Like ralf74 says " theres more to her than her vagina" very true!!!! Theres more to me than a cock lock eyes when we cum...our eyes are our connection and bond....some say its the window to our sole..maybe,... maybe not...

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'lilmiss_fussy' Tough question :) I can only say what it means for me. I like a man to be in charge, direct the play etc. Even when I take charge and have my way with him I like to know he's letting me, indulging me, and could take back over any minute. For me, dominance is a strength that shows through in the bedroom and in life. It's not about ruling me, but moreso being certain about himself. It's definitely not a D/s thing for me. Kind of hard to explain, as it happens :s Deep connection is about being able to slow down enough to really feel me, us, what we're sharing, and to be incredibly moved by it. AMEN to this! Mrs_AJ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    12 years ago

    And If it feels good do it.....

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    12 years ago

    Ok you got me at "LOCK EYES WHEN WE CUM" 😍

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    She had a skit, a guide to men...started with DON'T touch the bits...the morphed to TOUCH THE BITS! *You had to be there**inspired by Ralf's comment about the whole body*

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    "then morphed"

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    To have the sensitivity to read the subtle (and sometimes not so subtle) shifts that each person exhibits during sex, and know how to focus and intensify these. Applies to both sexes.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    The rule is always ladies first. Mr FFO

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    ... IMHO. "Senno ecto gammat" - Leeloo (who is The 5th Element) It translates strictly as; "Never!, without my express permission" I see it like this - - Regardless of role - Sub / Dom, Alpha / Beta, whatever - The only thing that surpasses her right to withdraw her permit (ie say 'No!') is your obligation to act in immediate accord by stopping.** If you cede this - you permanently render 'control issues' impossible. The wise man will show this in his actions (Boy's - take heed!!) and, you might even discover some "Out of control" possibilities were enabled That said, I do follow with Mr FFO's rule Ladies first as a default mindset. (** time to rethink, a need to pause, discuss or express doubt etc etc ALSO mean = NO!)

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Relax and go with the flow. Sometimes fast sometimes slows and we'll make each other blow 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Communicate and connect