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Sex before marriage
May 13 2019
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RHP User
7 years ago
Well, If I had waited, I'd still be a virgin today. Sex? Yes. Marriage? Not my thing, I'm afraid.
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BombTom
7 years ago
Hmm, I did marriage for many years, but sex & marriage are 2 separate things. For me...Sex....YES.....✔️..... Marriage....No..❌
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RHP User
7 years ago
Is this even still a thing? I'm sure there are pockets among the (young) religious community that still try to adhere to this code, but I know from friends in my teenage years that came from religious families that oral sex was deemed not actually having sex, so they would just bring their boyfriend/girlfriend off with their mouths and hands (and receive likewise) and still think they had not crossed the line. It was funny, you would tell these people that God probably considers any time clothes are off, bits are exposed and fondled as being sex - but they would be adamant that it was penetration only. That was over thirty years ago, and I'm sure that that invisible ''line'' has stretched out way over the horizon since. It's now probably ''once you are taking it/giving it up the butt, with a Hitachi Magic Wand servicing the other bits, nipple clamps tightly affixed'' that constitutes doing things to which the almighty would disapprove. Still, it'd be interesting to hear from those that tried it (the chastity thing, that is) - although I suspect here is not the place you'll find them. Or too many of them at least.
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RHP User
7 years ago
My advice: Always try before you buy when making a major investment.
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
Sex... Yes...... Marriage..... BIG YES!!!!! Sex before marriage, that's up to the individusls and I don't think its a "thing" anymore. My hubby and I didn't live with each other before we narried. We putchased a house together a few months before our wedding... he moved in and we set it up together and I moved in after our honeymoon. I could live without sex but I'm nothing without my Husband/Best Mate/Business Partner and I'm proud of our relationship and marriage which now spans over 25 years whilst so many dont make it.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Marraige and sex go hand in hand;when you find the right person life is a bliss. Sad that alot of people will never experience this or even find the love of their life.
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MissRedFox
7 years ago
Believe it or not I was a virgin bride Based on personal experience Take the car for a test drive first XX
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RHP User
7 years ago
Do you get unlimited sex warranty with that?????
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RHP User
7 years ago
Is important whether you are married or not.I had sex with my ou friend before we were married,I was 18 he was 21. I was a virgin he had only had sex once before. It was an unmitigated disaster,Two very ignorant and scared young people. It was the late sixties just on the cusp of the sexual revolution. Sexual compatibility is not just about the mechanics,it's about the connection you have with the other person Interesting topic Tom.Ignore the nay sayers and keep on posting. Hugs Q
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RHP User
7 years ago
Q So you 100 years old now Wow hey😂
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RHP User
7 years ago
Sex after marriage?Sex after child birth?
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rick181au
7 years ago
Sex before marraige. A brave move I think, but it worked for you, are you going to remain a one man woman for the rest of your life? PS what brings you into chat rooms like this?
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SSExplorer
7 years ago
Okey....one of us here was a virgin and saved it for the one they married...didn’t quite make it till after marriage though lol
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SSExplorer
7 years ago
Qef nearly all of my past relationships have had a high sexual component right from the start and sex was amazing from the get go. As eluded to Mrs S was a virgin and usboth navigating that initially was a bit awkward but our connection was so great that it didn’t matter and our sex life just keeps getting better and better. Sex with connection - YES!!! Sex without connection - No! doesn’t matter about marital status
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SSExplorer
7 years ago
Mojo... Sex after marriage - beautiful...the familiarity opens our minds further to each other and our fantasies and desires. Sex after child birth - they say you should wait a few weeks, especially after our wild trip...we couldn’t resist each other lol. It’s also a miracle how well things heal. Also Mrs S seems to be more sensitive and easily aroused post-birth so that’s a bonus. Trying to find a spare moment from the kids is trickier and you become well versed in the art of the quickie!
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Jay696969
7 years ago
Oh yes!! Nothing wrong in that. Marriage is not based on sex it’s about relationship.
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
The do honour absolutely no sex before marriage. I believe as long as people are honest and genuine with their intentions and respect each others religious reasons and choices, I really don't have an issue. Each to their own. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
7 years ago
Sex before marriage has nothing to do with any form of religious. Sex is a freedom of a female and a male to explore their needs So please all off you stop talking nonsense
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EarthQueen
7 years ago
In a long term relationship sex might change a lot anyway as the relationship evolves. So you can't always judge the sex you have before or at the start of the marriage as how it will remain. My ex partner and I were both young and inexperienced when we got together so the sex got better and better over the years as we worked out what each other liked. What was there at the start was chemistry and that didn't wane for a long time. So I think thats the main thing as well as a willingness to grown and evolve together. I won't get married again so I'll just have to stick with the sex.
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countrytouch82
7 years ago
There are couples that have waited for sex and lasted, and I'm sure there are plenty of couples that have lasted after having sex on the first date. Conventional wisdom does seem to err on waiting at least a little while and building up other chemistry and communication. It can also be an indicator of whether someone really wants to get to know you properly or just wants to get laid. Of course sometimes either can be quite mutual at the time. I've had sex on the first in person meeting more than once (after previous communication), and on another occasion I've met/dated someone on four occasions - 3 at their own house - before sex (this for a FWB relationship and they would have moved faster than I did if I wished). The reason I spent this extra time deliberately trying to get to know them more was because I felt that our mutual circumstances had the potential for something much longer lasting to come out of it. FBs or FWBs can even fall for each other, over time. There can be many paths to the same outcome. The wisdom about waiting for sex is more about establishing the connection on other levels, marriage choice or not. I have spent many adult years growing up with friends that are Christians (and still do) and exercise the same choice of waiting. As an atheist I have to take an objective approach and certainly I don't know too much about their sex lives, but like all approaches it seems to work for some of them and perhaps not for others.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I've been married 2x and had sex prior to that. Would make no difference at all. Sex after marriage is a cultural belief and has 0 effect to the outcome.
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RHP User
7 years ago
A very odd question for a site where marriage isn't the most common goal.
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RHP User
7 years ago
More than 23yrs ago when we married, we were virgins for religious reasons. Unfortunately sex didn't come naturally to us, so many years passed before it became good... then amazing. Our main issue was sexual repression via the church and Margo's mum. Margo just couldn't change gears from sex is terrible, don't to it. To sex is amazing, enjoy it in all of its forms. Some pre-marital sex might have broken those chains, which hung heavily around her neck. Today we still think young people can benefit from restraint, but it's up to the individual/couple.
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JohnAnn2227
7 years ago
We defintely believe in sex before marriage. We had both had a few partners before we started dating and we even began swinging before we were engaged. Wasn't planned but we enjoyed it anyway and the only time we have stopped in the last 20 years was while having the kids. Both of us were glad we had experiences with others, whether good or bad, before we met. Just confirmed how right for each other we were.Ann & John
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