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Pursue sex desires? Should I feel guilty?

June 17 2020

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Certainly not guilty yet as the title displays but not sure what I should do and might in the future depending on my choice. Backstory: 24 year old fairly attractive single male who has been interested in threesomes for a while. Not gay but for some reason love when I see a woman let herself go and feel completely comfortable with her surroundings and getting fucked by some other guy it intrigues me. Also love chats in general where she can be honest about her sex life that she would not tell her friends and family. Want to have a milf experience as well not a ONS but more of a long term thing where she can give advice to me and I can ask about her current and past love life and have great sex to with her. Not sure how many guys find this interesting but love the seduction and psychology of sexual attraction in general :) Also thought about being the older guy with the younger girl in a few decades from now to ! There is this other side of me though where I do want to have just a monogamous relationship. If the above sex dreams do get met would feel bad if I am not honest with my future partner. Should I be honest if these fantasies become a reality? Should I feel guilty if I pursue these sex goals and not tell her? (Think I would tell) How many males/females you reckon have had these crazy sex lives but don't tell their partner out of a fear of being judged? Anyone on this site who is a single male or female who does not tell there partner? if so why? Had a Bumble date a while back and told the girl I was dating that was still messaging other girls because thought it would be best to be honest and she got really upset despite us agreeing w are both not looking for a relationship. Just worried that if I did do what is written above and tell she would perceive me in a negative light. This might be a silly post because I am currently single but don't want to feel guilty and was just curious what everyone thinks. :)

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RHP User

5 years ago

You’re 24... there’s plenty of time for monogamy later.

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FeistyFatty

5 years ago

You're single so why Overthink something that may or may not be a future occurrence/situation.

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RHP User

5 years ago

I had my first experience in the swinger lifestyle and since then an ordinary vanilla relationship hasn't cut it for me. whenever I've dated new women I've always indirectly inquired as to how adventurous or open minded they are to such things and in some cases I've had to abandon and not progress relationships with perfectly good, attractive and date-able women.these types of women do definitely exist however if you're patient and this is actually my 3rd relationship in the swinger lifestyle. It is very important to mention though that these types of relationships cannot be forced. They take time and both partners have to have at the very least a curiosity about the lifestyle. Finally the golden rule is that the lifestyle is based primarily on trust and openness, be prepared to have no secrets and for that reason I wouldn't recommend perusing this if your primary impulse is deception.

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AnnieWhichway

5 years ago

You are young with so much to learn. Deception gets you no where. Bragging about deception even less so. Bragging to a fuck buddy or FWB about your activities is a no no. They dont want details unless specifically requested within the arrangement. If your arrangement excludes relationship status then just treat them special when you are with them and vice versa. Would you like to know she's doing half the suburb? Try and mature your testosterone/sperm filled mind and think of your casual partners instead of your cock

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