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Lets get Naked
February 28 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
never have,never will.
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RHP User
13 years ago
its what we share every day of our lives together.... soul mates in every sense..... if she hurts, i do too...
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
If someone can get into my soul, spirit, n capture the true me then I want to meet them!!! Great topic!
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RHP User
13 years ago
not for me
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RHP User
13 years ago
A long time ago, in a galaxy far far away......
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RHP User
13 years ago
wow this thread is deep, think I may need some combination chow mein and fried rice for this one. only Mrs G can go that deep into my psyche. even then she needs a major dear brief to get over it. god help...... hang on I am not religous...... batman help me.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Whether he wants to hear me or not
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RHP User
13 years ago
I live my life never trusting another soul, yet I am so open with my own.I've been hurt terribly, like most of us, but will always give freely of myself, remain open and share the squishy bits. It's beautiful connecting on a "real" level, where BS and walls are cast aside. Feeling vulnerable and handing over a piece of yourself.....what they do with it is up to them. I feel so honoured and it's such a privilege when another person feels comfortable enough and safe enough to share with me.
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RHP User
13 years ago
WOW.....well said.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Give a little, get a little..- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Im kinda doing that with someone at the mo........ ....its liberating and intimate and so much trust... Im fortunate that this person is in my life ...at this precise time and place.
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RHP User
13 years ago
My cloths , my walls... Without fail , every time I have let someone inside my walls / my heart to see my soul , they trash it with relentless vindictiveness and spite .... As much as I want to love again , to trust someone behind my walls I can't ! Not for a while at least ... lonely place where I'm at now :-(
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RHP User
13 years ago
Not happened yet..
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's not often i meet someone who i can trust on this side of that wall. But there are a select few people....only one lover has ever been there......i'd love to invite someone back here to take a look around, but he'd have to be a rare and special person indeed. When the time is right i guess that man will present himself.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am an open person ,don't really see it as being hurt or getting hurt in showing someone who i am ,its just me.Take it or leave it ,dose not bother me ,i am getting to an age where i can be honest with my self for the better of me.
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RHP User
13 years ago
All my experiences meeting people online, I have met woman who stressed the point of getting down and dirty, but often I see there is a reason for that and I offer my friendship or someone to talk to it about.....after some slight resistance and some long D & Ms we both get "naked".....however in some circumstances, the resistances is major, they will sleep with me, but petrified about facing something hard they have experienced, but the sleeping around doesn't help them eithe so they are stuck between choosing to be "naked" for sex or "naked" for themselves
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's been said before that only when you take the greatest risk and you make the greatest gains. I have been there. Yes I have lost. It hurt so much, I wanted to die. I didn't. I healed and grew. I love who I am today and still believe in love. As a result I am a better man. Because of this, if the right woman came along, I would " get naked" again without hesitation. You can only grow, you may hurt, but you will not die. There is so much to gain. Naked all the way.
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RHP User
13 years ago
How am I ever going to win someone’s trust if I'm not prepared to "bear" (growl) all?Usually being generous with your soul freaks people out though. I've no idea why??
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RHP User
13 years ago
It certainly is an awesome feeling!I believe the most intimate thing to do with a partner (when I say partner I mean PARTNER) is to lay naked, look into each others eyes as they are windows to soul and just "talk"....nothing more but just talk...not crappy talk, but real deep soul talk - and touch each otherOnly had it the once....was freaking AMAZING! just happened...I've never really put myself in that position since..Fingers crossed for Foxy, it will happen again...*HECK now I've gone all soppy*THAT IS ALL! FOXY
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'LittleRedEngine'Usually being generous with your soul freaks people out though. I've no idea why?? Why is that - I wonder?? I've never really got why it does Freaks out people...
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RHP User
13 years ago
You go girl!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Im a really open person, to me a normal level of nakedness & honesty of feeling etc is probably more open than most people are and it does tend to freak people out at times. This is where I want to connect with people tho, not just people I sleep with but every person in my life. I like real and raw and honest and naked, I think it adds to every experience. I feel we can be real and naked and have a great time together & still leave it as a good friendship - with or without benefits. These are the kind of friendships I want to form, trusting, open, honest, real and taking the time to let this develop. When I come across someone who is really open to something similar, its awesome! Im not saying this happens all the time in this sort of situation, but to me, this is what life is about. We are all different, but this is what I want.And I agree with how far - hurting and feeling all that pain brings me to a new level inside...its like after all that is out, there is then room for more yummy stuff...so Im also naked all the way! I believe life's a ride to be enjoyed...maybe even on a little red engine LOL
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RHP User
13 years ago
In words of wisdom from an old fox Baring our soul is good soul food. Openess is a wonderful trait to have. In answer to your question though. I have not had a "partner" in some time. However, only weeks ago I did and in doing so formed a close friendship. Like Ms Poppins who I adore... I am of a similar nature and I would say Ms Poppins has many many dear friends.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Shinas' Im kinda doing that with someone at the mo........ ....its liberating and intimate and so much trust... Im fortunate that this person is in my life ...at this precise time and place. I love what I have just read here. You're healing
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have a lot of trouble opening up to people. And it's been a long time since anyone was interested enough in me to want to know anything about me other than what I look like naked (the no clothes on version). And I know that's a function of the choices I've been making and the type of people I've been attracting. And it does leave you feeling pretty empty and used. But as I said even if someone was interested enough, I don't know if I could share with them, given that past experiences have left me extremely wary of getting close to anyone (same old story hey). So, guess I'm pretty fucked either way. Ugh this is too deep for this time of morning when I haven't even finished my coffee.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Being "naked" with someone and being love naked with them.. To me being "naked" as in my original Forum post is in that moment of time. Its europhic! Just like different forms of sex... Just vanilla sex and then there's Naked sex bearing all. Like friendships...there's friendships then there's those soul connected Naked Friendships... Its connection to souls..Naked me thinking. I think its healthy to have Naked.. I've never been asked by anyone to get NAKED just vanilla naked.. LOL Foxy..- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have been openly naked to but a couple of wonderful ladies and they have told me the same thing ,,,,,, when I am truly naked I am the same person just a little hard to get to know sometimes does this make me wrong ? or just normal AE xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
If someone opens their "Naked" to me...that's kinda REAL special and meaningful... I believe it takes courage and bravery for some people. It's very effin sexy...especially in that moment of Naked. Foxy- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's my experience, from the women I've spoken to, that they don't open up at times, because, the men they have opened up to, have tried to fix the issue, instead of just listening.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm an onion, there are layers and layers. I'm not sure I've ever got truly to the centre. But since I've started to be naked with myself, things have changed...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Quoting 'Shinas' Im kinda doing that with someone at the mo........ ....its liberating and intimate and so much trust... Im fortunate that this person is in my life ...at this precise time and place. I love what I have just read here. You're healing I am...thankyou for noticing...but yes I am - it was time to let go....
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RHP User
13 years ago
You are so lovely and I appreciate your kind words immensely! Quoting 'inspirit' In words of wisdom from an old fox Baring our soul is good soul food. Openess is a wonderful trait to have. In answer to your question though. I have not had a "partner" in some time. However, only weeks ago I did and in doing so formed a close friendship. Like Ms Poppins who I adore... I am of a similar nature and I would say Ms Poppins has many many dear friends.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Messolonghi came very close to what this means to me.The many layers that require introspection and knowledge of the self,hard enough,confronting enough, to peel away and gaze at just for me. To share that with others is possible, but only one layer at a time.Damage runs deep,wounds leave scars all part of the healing process,to open up the wounds is a difficult thing to do,and sometimes quite frankly sharing is not necessarily caring about the other or yourself.To do that is sometimes to dwell in unimaginable pain.This is why I write.
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RHP User
13 years ago
If past that healing and have gotten into those layers...and meet someone on that same level of say, peel... Then be naked with them would be being "naked" with them....yeah?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't believe that we need to share every experience that makes us who we are.Our experiences are what constitutes us now,our pasts inform our present,and will impact on our future. For me some things are best left alone,to revisit pain is to to relive that pain.Not something I either need or want to do. I fail to see the need to do this,all experience in the retelling is subjective.I value my private thoughts,my private hopes,my private dreams,some I may share with others,some will remain private,just for me.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' I don't believe that we need to share every experience that makes us who we are.Our experiences are what constitutes us now,our pasts inform our present,and will impact on our future. For me some things are best left alone,to revisit pain is to to relive that pain.Not something I either need or want to do. I fail to see the need to do this,all experience in the retelling is subjective.I value my private thoughts,my private hopes,my private dreams,some I may share with others,some will remain private,just for me.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Oh I so get that....somethings I just will not share with anyone!!!!! Trust certainly has a biggy to do with getting down right naked.. Its special to find that in people. Foxy. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm "naked" every day with my partner. Wouldn't ever change that. No matter what topic...
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RHP User
13 years ago
... what you say is very true :-) And LRE don't ever lose your "growl" ... And me, well I only get "naked" with those I trust. People often tell me "I could tell you anything" and they often do. Oh the stories locked in my vault ...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Bare, stripped or destitute. All of the above at some point int time in my life through my own doing. Sometimes when you are on your own non religious sabbatical to find whatever is missing in your life through travel, which is sometimes a euphemism for escaping your current world of shit, you find yourself so very naked.It's ironic that we find ourselves peeling our own onions.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I live by the belief that if you want something a lot, not having it is going to hurt whether you're open and sharing of yourself or not, so why not get the maximum possible enjoyment out of it while they're around. I honestly don't believe that you actually have anything to 'lose'. In reality it's your hopes that are dashed in most cases, not genuinely your heart.xx Sarah
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RHP User
13 years ago
After two failed relationships I am still waiting for one of those moments that you describe Foxy I am very willing to open my heart & soul to someone so I can feel that connection.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Shinas - I am happy to hear. :-) To all wishing this will happen...I have faith it will. Foxy xx- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I agree, this is a great thread. I also agree with MissPoppins that, when someone truly gets to know you and sees the real you, your faults and your good parts, it feels so special and humble. Actually, I met someone very special, about the middle of last year,and it is this person who managed to break down my walls and see the real me, the 'naked' me. I have opened up and bared my soul to her...........and she didn't run away! In fact, she embraced it (and me) and we have shared so much love since then. She has also told me many things about her life so, really, we have seen each other 'naked' too and it is this, among other things, that has brought us so close together.
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RHP User
13 years ago
... sounds like love :-) *thumbs up*
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