RHP

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Getting balance

August 24 2011

sex

So much emphasis is put on sex (I know, I know...it's a sex site) but not just here, everything in modern life seems imbued with sex as a liberal seasoning. I function best in my life when I have a balance across all the spheres, emotionally, socially, spiritually, physically and sexually (and possible some area's which I can't think of right now). Is it the same for you? When I focus overly on one thing over another, I'm like one of those spinning tops..the balance goes out and I end up falling on my ass. Doh...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Balance is the key to everything..i need to have the excitement of sex ..the anticipation and buildup..it can be just as exciting just having chill out fun with someone i like too..but i need to be with someone who wants to talk sex or play sexually/ flirt together..otherwise i know for me it wouldnt work..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ...body, mind and spirit can be either complimentary or combatants. Our own sensuality and sexuality can be found in all three...how you nurture and nourish them is individually unique. I think that's why I look to celebrate and delight in the differences between men and woman...rather than simply say we are from opposite ends of the universe. Opposites do not always attract and perhaps is has something to do with our polarity as people. Two individuals with an equally high sex drive and who share a wicked sense of humour invariably create a balance...that's something I enjoy. The offsets of friendship, laughter, satiation and perhaps exhaustion...will lead you to seek out the others to replenish the reserves. | I need what I want...and want what I need.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Sometimes the balance comes from enjoying the moment/s ... a giggle/laugh....a sensual dance or mind tingling passion. Each encounter can be as different as an exhilarating flight or a comfortable togetherness. Hugs xo

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    It is true Midnight - when those elements are in combat..it is not a pleasant place to be. I suppose that's what I meant by balance..and of course, like everything else, each person has their own 'blend' which = balance in their life. You went on to mention the balance between two people, that synchronicity of energy between two individuals who are either similar..or total opposites. I too enjoy that...the unbelievable 'excitement' of the senses when the chi flows right.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I totally agree with you midnight...ah the Yin & yangif all else fails have acupuncture...lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ,...even when its bad its still pretty good So balance is ...optional?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I agree with the yin and yang... | Quoting 'heymumma'In all things ballance and moderation...if all else fails have acupuncture...lol | I've always thought that balance meant that if your cup was overflowing ... I would make sure nothing spilled? | There is on hell of a one-liner that about accurately puncturing someone...but being a gentleman I will avoid it. | ...can we talk about acupressure?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    midnight...Hahaha....Hmm..Why not..could be very interesting... could learn something new..hehehe

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    TWO WOLVES One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people. He said, "My son, the battle is between two wolves inside us all. "One is Evil - It is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego."The other is Good - It is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith."The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather: "Which wolf wins?"The old Cherokee simply replied, "The one you feed."

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Feed the one you want to grow....make sure the Armani Anaconda gets his licks in first.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ....yours must be rather lean if it can survive on licks alone.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    It just swallows her whole. Go on...pick up the one-liner about licks and swallowing? | You only have to get a few good licks in....before you feed it and make it grow.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Poor little lamb.....Swallowing the lamb whole....Now where is the balance in that?Isnt the fun in the licking.....a bit of give and take?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Ruby_blossum: Your fable of the two wolves is beautiful, thank you for sharing.I believe when CrackUp mentioned "when the chi flows right" you fable explain how it can

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ...and let it slide right in. | Mint sauce should be made from scratch...whole cranberries, rendered down and mixed with mint fresh from the garden. Bring to a a slowly boil just below caramelizing and just a few drops of Balsamic vinegar. | Looks like you already know how to roast the legs.....of the lamb.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    thanks for the mint sauce tip midnight boy.....have never tried it with cranberries .....and ofcourse, basting is very important to the success of a good roast

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Happy to hear you enjoy it.I thought it was rather wonderful as well and deserved to be shared.