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Are we dysfunctional?
January 05 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
Who you calling dysfunctional? Who's been talking? There's drugs for that.. and .. errrr. mine works fine thankyou very much... :p The topics posed on the forums are pretty quirky at times.. but this site is probably not run by the Salvos or Fred Nile... as a swingers site... its likely to involve ... errr. swinging, rather than traditional Christian family values... just a hunch... so people looking to marry... well... maybe they could all log in on Sunday mornings. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
I may have missed some things in my time..but..this one is a doozie! T'ching! '5' watt globe above My head burns brightly. That would explain the lack of" D&M 'moments...oh...deep and meaningful...takes on a whole new meaning now... Eunuch, to what degree of dysfunction does one require to be officially labelled as 'dysfunctional'. AKA, what characteristics are we looking for here? And, what weighting do we allocate to multiple signatures? I happily offer myself to you as a way in which to establish a baseline....perhaps Stalky could be the other lab rat for this excercise?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Blind Freddy can see there's a lot of dysfunctional things going on. Firstly, there's the ongoing debate about good guys and bad guys, then moral dilemmas, pet peeves with blokes on a promise doing a runner, gripes about lack of courtesy answering messages, dumping women after one root, stalking members and identity security, a plethora of profile issues, chat room grievances, complaints about the male species in general, why is it so hard to get a root on RHP, etc. It's better than watching a soap opera, and it's closer to reality TV, though the script is sometimes as tedious as Days Of Our Lives and watching grass grow on the Big Brother house's astroturf, as they tanned by the pool. Obviously some are genuine people with issues seeking advise, many posts are very entertaining as are the diverse range of characters, though after a few years you see the same themes repeated in the topics ad nauseam. Surely I'm not the only one that has noticed that? Actually a debate with the Reverend Fred Nile would liven things up... if he could overcome his homophobia to join. If you had read my rant here on religion you may see that WE have more in common... no not with Fed Nile. Bug hugs :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Myname... so... I have this evil voice prodding me to ask a burning question... Wer Wer Wer Wer Would you like to perform some experiments on moire? :p You're the baseline?... So ummm... can I assume you will be lying down? Doesnt mattter... lol.. no expectations hehe ... Oh goody. My very first Dysfunction experiment.... will there be popcorn, electrodes and an assortment of performance enhancing chemicals?? HUgs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
The guys Vs gals matter that has been a recent theme, and is a perpetual issue, which has been answered in every conceivable way by numerous earlier posts. Mrs P. kindly dredged up a number of classic posts from years gone by. She is a dear wonderful lady to go to all that effort. I'm not expecting anyone to hunt further, though a topics search facility could locate a plethora of excellent, thoughtful advice that others have laboured over in moons gone by. Many of the topics here deal with things that deviate from the norms of social behaviour. People definitely aren't arguing the case for traditional Christian family values, as Stalky put it. So the term dysfunctional would be an accepted way of describing such deviations from normal social behaviour, which people consistently dwell on here. Maybe this is one of the reasons for there to be a turn over of people... I know I disappear for months at a time... then come back to find the same points being discussed. I'm not passing value judgements on what concerns people, other than those same concerns pop up time and time again. Matters that get resolved time and time again. Other than emphasise the point that people make an effort to get to know other people here and gain their trust or they ain't going to get to first base with them. I'm sure proclaiming that you're hot to trot and got a big dick is not going to charm every woman, no matter how desperate. Yet this issue has been a common thread.
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RHP User
16 years ago
received **** IN PERTH Jan 05 2010 Hi, **** in Perth here too and I loved your profile I am a single guy very broadminded and looking for friends as well as some hot sex.I do have some pics to send if interested,like to chat on MSN ? Cheers, ****PS I have a friend with a good 9 inches too *email here**mob no here*Not working for us... on sooo many levels... sorry :-)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Dearest Lab Rat, I humbly accept to play Dr Frankenstein/Jekyl & Hyde/ Ferdinand II of Aragon to your lab rat and conduct all manner of 15th century inquisition type experiements on the man claiming to be the third gender! I will search high and low for suitable catering for an event such as this.... Just let me know when you return from your sojourn to teepee country.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'll try that again...
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RHP User
16 years ago
As I have not been on the site all that long, and a reader/contributer to the forum for a shorter period, I can still see the commonality of issues raised via this medium. Regurgitated with subtle differences (if any) however despite the repetition, depending on how well these insights are composed, still manage to provide a hapless reader such as myself, with a laugh, education and pointers in whom I may enjoy seeking further contact. I am gearing up for the day when Forum becomes like re runs of The Simpsons, at which time, I will merely change chanels or switch off. As you state, the turnover of people on this and other sites allow for some extension of time prior to the big turn off, however I'm looking forward to the day when my entertainment is in glorious living colour! Just a thought, what can we do to keep the forums 'fresh'....an invitation to Rev Fred would be ideal....even better, westboro baptist church!! What a hoot that would be....lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
do follow trends at times... not too sure about the commonality of issues raised at this point considering the afore mentioned trends and the current atmosphere of the forums, revitalised after the new site upgrade.Cheers... Mrs P'
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RHP User
16 years ago
If we entertain inviting the Reverend Fred Nile, who is sure to go red in the face during his aneurism, then too the talking in tongues congregation, who also look like they're having a seizure. The Church of the Flagellation, with it's blood letting, will colour coordinate and so will the Church of Satan, with their ritual goat sacrifice. On the subject of regurgitated, I'm sure the ladies on the subies couch will throw up once they see all the gore. We can call on the scat lady to decorate the curtains, as only she can, whilst using the material as a wipe. I'm not sure what chemicals are in the enemas, but they certainly get her going. The TENS unit can be used to shock the congregation, should they get tongue tired, when it's not being applied to Stalky's testicles. The gag proved useful on him, otherwise he would have drowned out the Reverend Fred's fire and brimstone sermon about Sodom and Gomorrah. That should liven things up....
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ohhhh dear oh dear oh dear... There are those of us who enjoy our own kind of " literary masturbation" by writing in these posts. There is no harm caused to the individual writing the post, or to society at large. Now... lets compare that to the NUTTERS who DONT write ! Yes...the voyeurs who read all this dribble (yep... lots of my dribble...anyone want to wipe it up!) but don't contribute. Or to the NUTTERS who SAY they have a HAPPY marriage and such statements like, "I'd NEVER cheat" or "internet porn is disgusting" ! BUT just because they say they have a happy marriage does that MAKE it happy ? Just because it LOOKS happy, does it mean it's happy ??? I'd MUCH MUCH MUCH (is that enough emphasis?) live in a world of upfront honesty. Of no bullshit. Of playful flirtiness. Where we can say what we want and not be judged or taken too seriously. The dysfunctional ones are the ones who BELIEVE ALL THIS FORUM SHIT or what they perceive is happiness. Perception is often a DELUSION ! But fuck me... (or don't fuck me) because I am a DYSFUNCTIONAL FUCK AND PROUD OF IT !! Hugs with only bad promiscuous intentions. xx Ms Saturn
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think what you have to remember Eunuch is that we are all people here with real lives that exsist outside of this site. We could even be people you went to school with or knew from your workplace. This site and those like it simply add a different medium to check people out, get to know them, understand the opposite sex, learn lessons and ask questions that perhaps we'd always wanted to know the answer to, but didn't feel comfortable discussing with old mates from school or people in the work place. I would perhaps say that as opposed to being dysfuctional as people, it is more that we are learning how to correspond in a different way. I'm sure that most people would agree, body language and tone of voice go along way in understanding sentiments and picking up on mutual attraction....and that is sadly lost when just reading words.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hmmmbeing a so called 'sex site' doesn't help.There seems to be an expectation from our single members that as soon as you log on sex will be provided immediately and for free.In reality you have to work much harder here to get a root - quality photos, stimulating conversation, etc..competing for women with other men in a 1:10 ratioAt work you can just wait until a workmate falls in love with you, your body or your wallet.So much easierMe - I always prefer the challenge ....HahaMr. SR.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Geez all confused now over what is happiness.... Maybe witnessing your first born, a surprise party with dear friends, happy hour at the local, new years eve revelry, your first orgasm and every one thereafter, cuddles on a cold night with someone nice, the joy of being with your children, getting that special present, your first kiss with that important someone. This seems very normal to me, and they are real things not a fantasy. True not all couples are happy... for a multitude of reasons. I didn't try to hazard a guess or judge your situation in this post. I was just recalling a number of observations of various people with relationships under differing circumstances. The complexities of working for a big organisation, the pressures at work and at home, the bonding that takes place in the workplace were things I touched on. I probably failed to explain myself clearly. But when people can bond in person its different from communicating with often faceless and anonymous people via the internet. The advantage of a site like this is that open minded people can mingle in a virtual world and discuss things you might not elsewhere. Yet people are trying to couple up, even if it only be a one night stand. They try to do this against a number of obvious handicaps. There have been many forum topics of late that directly deal with this issue. Much of the criticism levelled at the males relates to failing to read profiles etc and writing inane messages. In return the males complain about getting no replies. This issue keeps popping up with regular monotony. The fact is the women here have the upper hand, and this has been debated ad nauseam too.
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RHP User
16 years ago
We women have the upper hand outside of cyberland too . We can generally hold out for longer than you guys *giggle*
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RHP User
16 years ago
It depends what you're holding out for? Are we talking sexual blackmail? No nooky unless? Then women wonder why their men wander... pay for a pro... or just have solitary sex. Karma usually bites you on the bum. Or is it sexual poker? Depends on who has the best hand on who can bluff most convincingly.... with a modicum of game skill and finesse.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Goodness... so much seriousness here... can we not all get back to the business of having fun????
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'sophie_74' Goodness... so much seriousness here... can we not all get back to the business of having fun???? I am with Sophie have a bit of fun! All workplaces are different but it does bring you in close proximity physically. RHP doesn't have that advantage so you have to be able to express yourself "using your words". Not everyone has that skill in the written form and when randy and horny ...... well words may fail ....lolDysfunctional it takes all types
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RHP User
16 years ago
mynameonurlips.... you mentioned westborough Baptist Church? Now... tell me.. have you been fooling around in the Religion and Spirituality section of Y!A stirring up the American fundamentalists? I had so many accounts suspended over there..... roughly one a day towards the end... then I switched to here. Leaving there I lost all my old cyber buddies... and now I just hang around here, lonely... dreaming of people yielding a mango in one hand and a double ended vibrating dildo in the other... with banners and plackards saying Fundies are Funny... .. jsut sitting here holding my willy like a new kid in school with no friends. :( So hey, do you wanna go a on a date with me? We could do a two person RHP forum raid on the Y!A R&S forum one day?.. just the two of us? Just for kicks.. for old time sake? :p Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Oh goodie. I'll pack the scrotum clamps and cock cuffs ready for my return, myname. :p. Damn.... now I suppose I'll have to pay for a membership. Oh wait! That's right... My new years resolution ~ I'm being a good boy! Gawwdammit all! Hehe I suppose it's ok in the interest of science. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
In my experience, both my parents and foster-parents broke up and reformed new relationships. Due to my circumstances I didn't have the opportunity to witness other relationships really. Whew, not a good example for a girl. Thankfully I am nothing like your average bear hehe and I've gone ahead and forged my own successful relationship with Mr P' that has lasted over 20 years and counting haha. And yeah it's work sometimes but well worth it overall!Hugs Mrs P'<<< up too early
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Sonsie'We women have the upper hand outside of cyberland too . We can generally hold out for longer than you guys *giggle* NEWSFLASH: Men never hold out... that whole concept is one formulated by women for the pruposes of control and empowerment.... i.e. the gripping power of the pussy has been used to manipulate men for eons. We could of course hold off... but that's really no way for a man to behave. :p Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
the majority of people seeking sex off a sex/swingers site are dysfunctional in my opinionyes, the themes in the forums are repetative, baseless, mindless, emotionless - hello, this is a sex sitethe place is full of opinionated people and randy assholes who can't get off the couch, venture into public and hold a decent conversation with someone face to face - they need to hide behind their computer and pretend they are brilliant/gorgeous/have a to die for body/unmarried/married/in a relationship/single............need i say morei've met some wonderful peeps face to face, who would never venture onto a site like this. yes, a lot of us cannot understand the "three in a marriage" attitude of couples seeking additional partners - each to their ownhow the heck did we populate the world prior to the internet???? hello, we got out in public, spent time with friends, lived lives in the open and met people face to face.dysfunctional??? how would we all cope without our computers
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hotblonde... . I have 4 brothers and sisters.... born at a time when there was no internet.. or computers. If it wasnt for computers and the internet to distract us... the world would by filled with little stalky's... they're such frisky little narccissits that they'd probably be interbreeding..... and I'm sure you wouldn't want that! Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
are YOU calling me ydfsnutcoilan..???cos i'm not...okay, okay...just a liddle bit nutty maybe...cheersojes...
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RHP User
16 years ago
You dislexic dysfunctional...lol Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
You're more than a pretty face, you also make a lot of sense... I can fully understand someone incarcerated, stuck in an iron lung, a quadriplegic, restricted by a straight jacket, sweats profusely and has uncontrollable body odour, anyone in bad need of a face, body or personality transplant, stuck on a heart lung machine, permanently on dialysis or mentally deranged... depending wholly on the internet to communicate. The point that they are like a broken record stuck in the groove dose not help. In fact the online dating sites are providing an important public service, otherwise there would be more wankers in the world. Out of pure necessity.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Do you have to be dysfunctional to be on rhp? I see it more as having the courage to admit to yourself you enjoy having sensual fun! Does that make me courageous or honest? intrigued & curious
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RHP User
16 years ago
......brain/hand dysfunction....lol meant to say.....Does that make me dysfunctional or honest? intrigued & curious
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RHP User
16 years ago
The open minded aspect of RHP, where likeminded people can discuss all sorts of naughty things, is obviously highly appealing to many. Every normal person has fantasies and naughty thoughts... wondering what if, or why not? Some here are just exchanging ideas, whilst the eager beavers and breaking their necks to put it into practice. In my humble opinion, a woman prepared to takes risks and has an insatiable appetite has it made here... as long as those on a promise keep their part of the bargain. Most guys will get what they can and often are less discriminating. There just seems to be an infinite number of permutation by which this comes unstuck, and then becomes forum fodder. Which is great when we're entertained by humorous, titillating or ingenious answers. But like watching the many TV repeats this time of the year, it can become tiresome when the same topic comes up and nothing new and riveting is revealed. I've had many dysfunctional occasions in bed... accidents falling out of the cot or getting kicked... nasty insect bites during the vinegar strokes... habitually getting sprung in public places... getting beard rash unexpectedly from a women... and many more. I would be the last person to declare my life has been free of these little dramas.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yes, I think it would be safe to say that everyone has experienced dysfunctional occasions and little dramas throughout our lives, they help make us who we are and life would be rather boring without them. I also have friends that have been married for long periods, as well as single friends stumbling around in the world.....when we get together, they love to hear about some of the topics in the forum. The most used comment is "I have always wanted to know about *insert topic* but never been game to ask! So I still feel that many rhpers are to be congratulated on their courage and honesty to be involved in a crazy site such as this. (Some of the honesty in their online actions is not to be so commended...lol ) Dysfunction is rampant in non rhpers.....we are just lucky to have a forum here to express ourselves.....maybe there appears to be more of it here because we talk about it, not stay silent. As far as topics being repeated......new people join this site everyday and have no idea that the subject may have been covered many times before, to them it is all new. (how many new members take the time to trawl through the archives?) I am looking forward to any experiments between Myname and G.Stalky........ **Hey Mooka and Nev, any popcorn left over from the prechrissie nudie run? intrigued & curious
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RHP User
16 years ago
I so wanna be 'one' with my 'multiple dysfunctional' side!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey....I've worked hard to establish a deep, meaningful and at all times respectful relationship with my West Bor Bro's & sisters...as I have also done with the church of totally f*&$d up weirdo's aka Church of Scientology. (to name but a few) I'm on more hit lists than Salman Rushdie LOL Gearing up for our raid date Stalky! Stuck on what shoes to wear tho....
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RHP User
16 years ago
No need to worry your pretty lil head about packing anything Stalky. I got all I need right here in my very own dungeon!! As you say...all in the name of science... yours in madness....the scientist...(lol)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Haven't got anything serious to say today...nup...not even gonna 'think' for a while...I have been mixing with the real world and it's very yummy But I will say this...I saw EASTER EGGS in the supermarket yesterday!!! Yep...on the 12th day of Christmas. Somehow, it's not just our motley crew thats dysfunctional...it's society. We just "out it".
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RHP User
16 years ago
And I don't mean the easter eggs....
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi eunich, maybe it is an age thing, and we grew up being taught different values, not that we listened, agreed or did. . Watched californication last night - what a hoot now that is dysfunctional, and that sad part is how they have characterised the daughter-- doesn't have a clue , outcome of the parents example- we do have a lot to answer for! . I like the site because you can ask the quirky question you would balk at face to face with any gender, because face to face they would giggle it off, or be offended, basically how most people act face to face, facades built by how society expects us to act, but underlying acts completely different, poor tiger woods, put on a pedestal only to be chopped down altruistic moral double standards. (my thoughts) dzynr
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi dzynr, Must agree that the goings on depicted are nothing short of dysfunctional. Entertaining nevertheless, otherwise we would not watch it. Though there is a voyeuristic element to being a viewer. The situations Hank finds himself in... endless erotic predicaments. Oddly enough real life can often outdo fiction. Fiction tends to be based on a collage of real life encounters... and is the prime source of inspiration. Otherwise a very creative imagination needs to be employed. I guess a person does not really know another till they have lived with them for a period of time... but even then the fantasies which enter the other person's mind may not often be known... and sometimes they go elsewhere for fulfilment.
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RHP User
16 years ago
In the Girls Ask forum, rosebud68 recently protested a case or two of poor form in her topic entitled "Just having some issues with bullshit". Followed by summer697's "MSN/IM Etiquette" post in Hot Topics. Counter balanced by xJoannax's positive post "Kudos to the men of RHP..." pointing out how she has always been very impressed with the men here. This caused me to ponder how inconsiderate anonymous behaviour can be. In the early days of the net there was once a belief in netiquette... being considerate of other users on the internet. Now the rabble have taken over many facets of this medium... testified by the millions of spam emails which unwelcomely bombard our mail boxes every day. In the more cloistered world of RHP, one can only hope that the people who prompt complaints are in the minority. Those who engage in the pushy, thoughtless, ignorant, impatient, irresponsible and selfish solicitation of sex or dealing with others here in general. Fortunately there are also the passionate and caring people in abundance on RHP who are wanting to indulge in the same things as you and I. That's what makes this site so worthwhile in the end.
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