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ADVICE ON OFFER
February 06 2017
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RHP User
9 years ago
Come to Melbourne and visit me! As to the why...well, why not?
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Dirtyandfriendly
9 years ago
Stop trying to find your soul mate, find someone who can deal with your shit.
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sweetgem
9 years ago
I would say to him, along our conversation and at the right time instead of out of the blue: "Always be respectful to whomever you're talking to, as respect goes a long way 😊". Must smile as smiling is a friendly way of making the other party feels comfortable 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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daveWithABigD
9 years ago
Don't hold back! Though a little more seriously, mine is more of a 2 part piece of advice. 1) If you like/love someone then make your feelings known. Doing so can save you years of regret. 2) If someone likes/loves you and they let you know, don't just ignore them. Let them know whether the feeling is mutual as not knowing can be much worse than rejection.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Read my damn profile! And be creative with your messages. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Be passionate and love and connect or 'feel' the person in the moment, don't be a machine. We have battery thingys for that 😊
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RHP User
9 years ago
With an intent to hear - not just to reply. You can learn a lot just by listening and observing.
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Quoting 'Dirtyandfriendly' Stop trying to find your soul mate, find someone who can deal with your shit. Nailed it
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RHP User
9 years ago
For the planets to align .... you must communicate :) Gentlemen, when you think you've communicated enough, communicate more. As with Soft, have you listened to hear, have you been responsive in the discussion and have you discussed what matters (to both of you). Listen and express your thoughts and feelings when communicating. Communicate with honesty, integrity and selflessly. Mary xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Not just the opposite sex. Be respectful, don't be a dick. That's it.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Don't let your ego get in the way of your happiness....
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RHP User
9 years ago
@Dirtyandfriendly, Good advice mate. Mine would be along the lines of: If you love something, set it free. It is so refreshing when a partner does not try to tie you down and allows a relationship to develop along it's own course in whatever direction that is at that time. Of course both parties need to be happy and enthusiastic about what is happening or there is no match. But I find a lot of women* have this idea of a relationship being a progression that often has a prescribed timeline and can never go "backwards". I do get that women have a window of opportunity to achieve their biological imperatives and that a lot of men would and do abuse such freedom. But others will also return it with solid loyalty, appreciating how special such a relationship is. Perhaps letting go of that fear of being taken advantage of and giving a guy a chance to be the latter some women might also discover the joy of freedom to be and do what they are at that point of their life. For me, the traditional/mainstream idea of a relationship feels like a zippy tie around my neck being slowly tightened. * I get that this advice could easily be reversed vice-versa vis-a-vis men/women. I am only answering the OP from my POV.
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RHP User
9 years ago
1.Always respect others. 2.Coulples never be rude to a single guy. Hey he may have girls that can join in if need be, providing the couple is not rude to them..
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RHP User
9 years ago
Couldn't agree more 😉
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RHP User
9 years ago
My advice I could give the opposite sex and also applies to both genders is to be honest on what your looking for regardless if it's a fantasy or desire. To talk freely & openly without fear of judgement. To be given the freedom & space to act them out. Why ? Holding back or oppressing someone's feelings or needs will only drive a wedge between you and will stop any chance of a friendship developing. Happy to offer any assistance Sunrise101? if Intrested lol. Noticed your a Perth girl. 😂💋😘?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Life is short. Opportunities are few. Rise your aims above your own pleasure and open your eyes to other people. See their dreams and feel their pleasures. See how many old and lonely men and women with bitterness imprinted on their faces are around. At some moments in their lives they were too scared to dream, to open, to risk, to reach, to hold and keep what they are missing - sensing with the other. Dreams killed by empty prides, prejudices, self sacrifices - words filling painful voids. All these reasons are conveniently applied when turning self-pity into something easier to swallow. Now, I'm thinking of Leonard Cohen's It seemed the better way Every missed opportunity also leaves a bitter trace. Mr
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summer_in_Sydney' Treat the opposite sex the way you want them to treat you. Does this not lead exactly to the unsolicited dick pic problem that we apparently have? Because I would absolutely love it heaps of random chicks sent me pics of their snatch without me even having to ask or talk to them for that matter.
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
If you're a good man, with a little edge, you'll win me (and many ladies) over. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
9 years ago
“People with no morals often considered themselves more free, but mostly they lacked the ability to feel or love.” ― Charles Bukowski, Women “Women: I liked the colors of their clothing; the way they walked; the cruelty in some faces; now and then the almost pure beauty in another face, totally and enchantingly female. They had it over us: they planned much better and were better organized. While men were watching professional football or drinking beer or bowling, they, the women, were thinking about us, concentrating, studying, deciding - whether to accept us, discard us, exchange us, kill us or whether simply to leave us. In the end it hardly mattered; no matter what they did, we ended up lonely and insane.” ― Charles Bukowski, Women
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Lovinit28andKC72
9 years ago
I'm the male half and this is my advice to the opposite sex. With sex if you don't like or enjoy something I do please tell me. If you want it a different way please tell me and show me. I only know what I know and I'm not a mind reader. Subtle hints can pass by unseen and faking it doesn't do anyone any favours. We're all different so what I've done with previous partners may not work for you so please let me know. I want to please you, I want to be what you desire and lust for, and I want it all to be real. So always be honest and genuine in the bedroom. KC72
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RHP User
9 years ago
Ignore social media. It's not representative of life - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
That idea crowds me Wouldn't a better option be surround ALL those that care for u? Why exclude? - Posted from rhpmobile
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johnisfun3
9 years ago
My advice don't give any advice..... Giving advice is one of the easiest thing to do. We all have and there are times you just regret giving one. I would say it may only work if the other person values your relationship and open to receiving feedback. Others may ignore or even get offended. But my advice to you is................................. well I should stop there and not give one.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm not using it...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Ladies and gentlemen of the class of RHP, wear sunscreen. If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it. The long term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists, whereas the rest of my advice has no basis more reliable than my own meandering experience. Hey P, what's your advice? Suspense is killing me :)
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Tall74nHard9
9 years ago
lived a reasonable longish life so far, I could probably offer plenty.One of many pieces that would be applicable, not only on here, but also outside, is don't falsely advertize yourself - you'll always get caught out at some stage. For example, one gentleman here who has been claiming to be 34 for many years, but is actually much older. You know who you are.... Also for example women trying to make their boobs or butts look much more 'alluring', or guys who think exagerating their dick size will hook in some unsuspecting female. What are you going to do when you actually meet someone - tell them your boobs or dick suddenly deflated in the intervening period ? Just be honest. You will be appreciated more for it. Tall
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RHP User
9 years ago
Advice giving is really just expressing ones opinion! And as we know most people's opinion's will almost certainly be different to others bin some degree!
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