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We all want to make a good impression when it comes time to do the nasty in the bedroom. Everyone has...
RedHotPie Editor | July 04 2007
Sex it Up! Tips for guys and girls
Ladies, read carefully if you want to leave a good impression next time you have sex with him. Some, if not all may apply to your situation or future situations so take note then start practicing!
Get a little active!
Don’t just lie down and expect him to do all the frickin work. Show him how much of a little sex kitten you are, men love to feel wanted sexually, be alluring and you will have him begging for more.
Tease and kiss him
Be enticing, just like girls like to get kissed so do guys. Kiss his neck, his lips, nibble on his ear, kiss his nipples, and make him moan girly
Tell him what you want
Men are not mind readers, if he isn’t hitting the right spot move his finger a little or reposition yourself, take charge, hard to believe I know but sometimes guys like being told what to do.
It’s not all about you
Make him feel as good as he makes you feel, giving is receiving, the more you pleasure him the more he is going to feel he should return the favour. If he doesn’t return the favour make it known you want a lil’ sugar too.
Show him how much you like it
If you wanna scream in ecstasy do it, it’s a major turn on. Make some noise, let him know you are loving having sex with him but on the other side don’t fake it, guys would rather you be honest. Let loose and stop being so shy it’s the only way for both of you to relax and enjoy the moment.
Spice it up
If you are getting a little bored with sex, try role playing, dance for him, buy some edible panties or chocolate body paint. Keep that sex life adventurous and fun, not monotonous.
Now to you guys out there. You really don’t want to be called a “dud” do you? Read and absorb this info, it may just save your sex life.
Don’t be so damn careful
Phrases like “is it okay if I do this?” and “can I?” are so not sexy. Ease into something if she doesn’t want to do something she will usually mention that she isn’t up for that. Sometimes all it takes is a touch or a lingering sexy look to let her know you wanna get down and boogie.
Robotesk Alert
Mechanical sex is really not that fun. Girls like a little passion in their lives and during sex or just before are definitely the times to provide it. Don’t treat her like a blow up doll all the time, be a little sensitive, a little romantic, but of course rough sex or quickies are great at times
Monotonous much?
If you are always doing it missionary and always in the bedroom, she’s gonna know pretty quickly how you work and may just yawn during sex. Take her by surprise and have some sex in the bathroom, kitchen, in your car, by the pool, heck in the pool! Get a little imaginative and you will reap some sexy rewards.
Watch what you say during sex
Exact caution when expressing yourself during sex.nbsp; Don’t do like the guy having sex with Charlotte in Sex in the City and scream out “fucken whore!” in mid orgasm. You could say things like “you like that don’t you, you dirty girl” or “that feels so damn good”. Don’t moan too loud but don’t be too quiet it can be a little irritating. Find a middle ground. Breathe hard so she knows you like it, comment on how sexy she looks, say “oh yeah”, but don’t get repetitive it’s just plain annoying.
Unwillingness to experiment
Broaden your mind, sex doesn’t have to get boring. Role playing, trying different positions, playing out some of your favourite fantasies can make things a little spicier.
As always if you are ever unsure of anything feel free to ask other members right here on RedHotPie. The forums are filled with people who have a ton of sexual experience and who are almost always happy to help guide you towards some sexier times.>
Get a little active!
Don’t just lie down and expect him to do all the frickin work. Show him how much of a little sex kitten you are, men love to feel wanted sexually, be alluring and you will have him begging for more.
Tease and kiss him
Be enticing, just like girls like to get kissed so do guys. Kiss his neck, his lips, nibble on his ear, kiss his nipples, and make him moan girly
Tell him what you want
Men are not mind readers, if he isn’t hitting the right spot move his finger a little or reposition yourself, take charge, hard to believe I know but sometimes guys like being told what to do.
It’s not all about you
Make him feel as good as he makes you feel, giving is receiving, the more you pleasure him the more he is going to feel he should return the favour. If he doesn’t return the favour make it known you want a lil’ sugar too.
Show him how much you like it
If you wanna scream in ecstasy do it, it’s a major turn on. Make some noise, let him know you are loving having sex with him but on the other side don’t fake it, guys would rather you be honest. Let loose and stop being so shy it’s the only way for both of you to relax and enjoy the moment.
Spice it up
If you are getting a little bored with sex, try role playing, dance for him, buy some edible panties or chocolate body paint. Keep that sex life adventurous and fun, not monotonous.
Now to you guys out there. You really don’t want to be called a “dud” do you? Read and absorb this info, it may just save your sex life.
Don’t be so damn careful
Phrases like “is it okay if I do this?” and “can I?” are so not sexy. Ease into something if she doesn’t want to do something she will usually mention that she isn’t up for that. Sometimes all it takes is a touch or a lingering sexy look to let her know you wanna get down and boogie.
Robotesk Alert
Mechanical sex is really not that fun. Girls like a little passion in their lives and during sex or just before are definitely the times to provide it. Don’t treat her like a blow up doll all the time, be a little sensitive, a little romantic, but of course rough sex or quickies are great at times
Monotonous much?
If you are always doing it missionary and always in the bedroom, she’s gonna know pretty quickly how you work and may just yawn during sex. Take her by surprise and have some sex in the bathroom, kitchen, in your car, by the pool, heck in the pool! Get a little imaginative and you will reap some sexy rewards.
Watch what you say during sex
Exact caution when expressing yourself during sex.nbsp; Don’t do like the guy having sex with Charlotte in Sex in the City and scream out “fucken whore!” in mid orgasm. You could say things like “you like that don’t you, you dirty girl” or “that feels so damn good”. Don’t moan too loud but don’t be too quiet it can be a little irritating. Find a middle ground. Breathe hard so she knows you like it, comment on how sexy she looks, say “oh yeah”, but don’t get repetitive it’s just plain annoying.
Unwillingness to experiment
Broaden your mind, sex doesn’t have to get boring. Role playing, trying different positions, playing out some of your favourite fantasies can make things a little spicier.
As always if you are ever unsure of anything feel free to ask other members right here on RedHotPie. The forums are filled with people who have a ton of sexual experience and who are almost always happy to help guide you towards some sexier times.>
