Alison Cox | July 27 2022
Many RedHotPie couples would agree that swinging is one of the most rewarding sexual experiences imaginable.
Alison Cox | July 20 2022
A threesome consisting of two sexy girls and one very lucky guy is the ultimate fantasy for a good number of couples on RedHotPie.
Christina Miller | June 21 2022
Couples who go on interesting date nights have better sex lives.
Rebecca Daniels | August 06 2021
A husband and wife who began a three-way relationship with a woman have revealed the issue they encountered when first sharing a bed.
Rebecca Daniels | July 30 2021
They say the best things in life are free, and a lot of them can be found on RedHotPie!
Rebecca Daniels | February 12 2021
Single as a pringle? Flying solo this Sunday? Well, we say don’t sweat it.
Alison Cox | January 20 2021
A threesome consisting of two sexy girls and one very lucky guy is the ultimate fantasy for a good number of couples on RedHotPie.
Rebecca Daniels | September 15 2020
The best way to get over someone is to get under someone new. Just take it from these women.
Rebecca Daniels | August 26 2020
Eat out to help out – that’s the slogan Rishi Sunak is using to encourage us all to head out to restaurants post-lockdown amid the coronavirus pandemic. It also happens to be a great mantra for non-restaurant things, by which we mean sex.
Rebecca Daniels | August 03 2020
Lockdowns appeared to have a curious effect on sexual habits, according to new research: People were having less sex, but made it kinkier.
Christina Miller | July 29 2020
Tips on how to ace your first RHP video date
Rebecca Daniels | June 26 2020
While many people have positive feelings towards their partners and lovers, there are others whose erotic-response-cycle responds primarily to those they feel a deep emotional connection to. This is called demisexuality.
Rebecca Daniels | June 18 2020
There's a 21 percent orgasm gap between lesbians and straight women. We asked lesbians what can be done about that...
Rebecca Daniels | June 05 2020
You've heard of polyamory, but what about ambiamory?
Rebecca Daniels | April 16 2020
Has lockdown life got your dating life all messed up? We’re here to help...
Christina Miller | April 09 2020
9 Sex Tips for Self-Isolation - Stay in and get off
Rebecca Daniels | January 13 2020
While Sydney's once-thriving nightclub scene dies a slow and painful death, another type of venue is emerging from the shadows and taking its place - legal sex clubs. Once upon a time, these clubs were only mentioned in hushed tones and you had to know someone who knew someone. These days, they advertise in mainstream press, their owners appear on TV as sex and relationship experts and people are proudly "checking-in" to sex clubs on social media.
Christina Miller | December 13 2018
The elusive Unicorn that is every couple's ultimate fantasy
RedHotPie Editor | August 07 2018
A very special 'Swingers' episode of 'You Can't Ask That' by the ABC, features amazing couples from RedHotPie.
Christina Miller | February 12 2018
On Valentine's Day indulge in some time together or alone, celebrating the most romantic day of the year.
Christina Miller | December 19 2017
Tis the Season for Casual Sex. Here's Where You Can Find Your Holiday Hookup
Christina Miller | May 29 2017
Sexual exploration has no age boundaries, each and every date is an opportunity to learn more about your sexuality.
Christina Miller | May 24 2017
Sexting can be a fun, flirty way to keep the passion going and to tease your love/lust interest
Christina Miller | April 19 2017
Women of all age are beautiful creatures. Oh but, the older woman, she is someone special....
Christina Miller | February 26 2017
How to set the mood for intimacy on the first date.
Christina Miller | February 24 2017
Kissing is probably one of the most important parts of sex
Christina Miller | February 14 2017
If you want to do something a little more special than the same old thing, here is a list of sexy things to do on Valentine’s Day
Christina Miller | February 13 2017
Valentine's Day is the perfect opportunity to take some sexy photos and update your RHP profile.
Christina Miller | January 10 2017
Photos can drastically increase your chances of getting more communication and dates.
Christina Miller | November 09 2016
An older man has a unique appeal that might be what you are looking for.
Christina Miller | September 13 2016
Sexting techniques that get you the results you want!
RedHotPie Editor | August 09 2016
Not a week since Orlando Bloom got the old bait 'n' tackle out on holiday, Justin Bieber and Aussie girlfriend, international swimwear model Sahara Ray have been gettin' rude and nude on holiday in Hawaii. Obviously we're big fans of gettin' the kit off, so we've decided to celebrate this story by collating Sahara Ray's five sexiest Instagram snaps. So strap in and scroll down for an eyeful of Sahara!
Christina Miller | July 07 2016
Write a profile that captures your kind of people
RedHotPie Editor | October 02 2015
First dates are daunting. Many consider them akin to a job interview. And like a job interview, where you gotta make it through the process in order to get the job, you gotta make it through a first date in order to snag the man (or woman).
RedHotPie Editor | September 24 2015
Hot bodies, bums, flowers, fresh scents, sex n sun, at last spring has sprung! You may have already noticed the subtle sensations coursing through your veins changing everything from how you feel to how you’d like to be felt.
RedHotPie Editor | August 05 2015
HAVE you ever thought about dating a co-worker? While most companies advise strongly against office romances, sometimes true love still blooms in the workplace.
RedHotPie Editor | July 29 2015
First impressions… you only get to make them once, which is why first dates can fill so many of us with dread. So here at RedHotPie we’ve decided to do something about it.
Christina Miller | April 24 2015
Do women get turned on by dick pics?
Christina Miller | February 25 2015
So, what is it about older women that men can't seem to resist? While pop culture often idealises younger women, there's a merging trend of men who are attracted to older women.
Christina Miller | February 12 2015
What to do on Valentine's Day if you're single. Spending Valentine's Day alone is not all doom and gloom,it can be awesome.
RedHotPie Editor | November 21 2014
IF you’ve ever wondered why you seem to be permanently single while others are always coupled up, it could be down to your DNA.
RedHotPie Editor | July 22 2014
Lonely hearts across the country are finding ever more innovative ways to discover the Romeo to their Juliet, the Kim to their Kanye. Now newly elected Palmer United Party senator Jacqui Lambie has taken the trend to a new level by using talkback radio to search for a potential suitor – preferably one "well-hung" and loaded with cash.
Rebecca Daniels | July 15 2014
We wrote an article from a woman’s perspective on first meets with men - but what about meeting couples? Is it twice as scary? Are you twice as likely to have awkward moments? The short answer is no!
RedHotPie Editor | July 04 2014
IT’S the latest TV show coming to Australia that’s likely to spark a fair amount of controversy. SBS2 is bringing daring British series Sex Box to our screens and it’s safe to say, Friday nights are never going to be the same.
RedHotPie Editor | July 01 2014
Volleyball, music festivals, grocery shopping… just a few things that would be made infinitely better if we did them nude, in the buff, sans stiches! It’s obvious when you think about it, but for some reason society at large is a little slow on the uptake when it comes to the wonders of the birthday suit, but thankfully, that’s about to change with what could well be the greatest television show ever made.
RedHotPie Editor | June 11 2014
ARE you looking to spice up your sex life? Stop dating that boring accountant and nab yourself a tradie or a lawyer. Your job title says a lot more about you than you think, according to the results of Australia’s largest sex survey.
RedHotPie Editor | June 10 2014
Bragging about being good in bed is one thing, secretly hoping you're great in the sack is another, but what really does make you good in bed? Whether you're in a relationship or newly dating, being good in bed, together especially, is something most people consider vital to a happy relationship. So what are the tell-tale signs?
RedHotPie Editor | June 06 2014
Those horny kids over at The Stir have come up with a Sexual Bucket List Top 50 (from a female perspective)... we've had a quick squiz through it and wanted to share it with y'all. We have a funny feeling you can do better!
RedHotPie Editor | May 16 2014
Many couples say they couldn’t bear the idea, while others say they’re more than a little curious.Rach Wilson and her husband Kerry are in a successful open relationship. They’ve been married for 11 years and seeing other people for eight years.
Christina Miller | April 02 2014
Of all the things that affect our sexual satisfaction, the most important element is sexual confidence. Sexual confidence is identifying exactly what you like and dislike, and having the confidence to express it.
Christina Miller | March 14 2014
Ladies, March 14th is Steak and blowjob day.
Christina Miller | March 11 2014
Be the master of oral sex and you'll be in great demand.
Christina Miller | March 05 2014
The humble bush is back in the public eye once again. Humble as it may be, it inspires a lot of discussion:
Christina Miller | February 12 2014
With Valentine’s Day around the corner, you are probably wondering what to do this year.
Christina Miller | January 17 2014
We are all too familiar with the usual New Year’s resolution such as; lose weight, eat healthier, make or save more money, quit smoking, travel more, exercise more, you get the idea.
Christina Miller | December 16 2013
What’s new in sex and dating? A lot actually! Sex trends are constantly evolving from right under our noses.
RedHotPie Editor | December 10 2013
A couple explicitly makes love on the pharmacist’s counter, in the aisle and on the floor in order to find the perfect size rubber.
Christina Miller | December 10 2013
A new set of dating guidelines, have been circulating and challenging conventional wisdom, by telling women it’s fine to have sex on their first date.
RedHotPie Editor | December 03 2013
There's a lot of fiction surrounding sex out there - and we're not talking about the 50 Shades variety! From who should be initiating sex to what actually makes a good session between the sheets there's a lot of myths floating around and it's time to set the record straight. Dr Gabrielle Morrissey separates fact from fiction when it comes to what's going on in the bedroom.
Christina Miller | December 03 2013
Tattoos are an artistic and sexy expression that has lately become a mega trend in all sectors of society. Tattoos are a form of permanent body modification to shock, to delight and to excite.
Christina Miller | November 26 2013
Most men wonder if their penis size and shape is normal.
Christina Miller | November 12 2013
What is the fascination with anal sex? Is it because it’s so taboo, that it makes it so desirable?
Christina Miller | November 08 2013
We all know that work is a place where we need to switch on to work mode ONLY, but we’re not robots, we are mere humans with many needs.
Christina Miller | November 06 2013
Sex appeal no matter how old you are is not just about sex. It’s about being confident in who you are and what you look like.
RedHotPie Editor | October 30 2013
IN BAD news for blokes everywhere, it seems flowers and chocolates are not the way to lure women into the bedroom.
Rebecca Daniels | October 25 2013
Friends with benefits (FWB), cuddle buddies, no-strings-attached, fuck buddies…whatever label you put on it, it’s no secret that these kinds of casual relationships are becoming increasingly popular. But after being intimate with someone, it can happen that one of you might develop feelings for the other – especially if it becomes a regular thing. There are ways that you can help avoid these awkward moments and keep things on a level that both you and your FWB are comfortable with.
RedHotPie Editor | October 14 2013
Forget everything you've heard about quickies being a pale imitation of "real" sex. Research shows that sex in any quantity or duration is healthy for your sex life and your sex drive.
RedHotPie Editor | October 04 2013
The first time Danielle Ezzo met Matt and Rachel, she was relieved. The fashionable trio had met on the dating site, Nerve, and had been exchanging messages, but hadn’t yet met in real life. Ezzo, 29, recalls that evening at the Bowery Hotel in spring 2009 fondly: “I was excited that they were just as cute as their profile pictures.
Christina Miller | September 26 2013
Are you playing for both teams? Then the world is your oyster...
Christina Miller | September 10 2013
What’s age got to do with it? Relax and enjoy. Let’s just take in life a day at a time and make the most of it.
Christina Miller | August 20 2013
Are we placing too much expectations on single guys? They get nervous just like the rest of us
RedHotPie Editor | August 15 2013
IF YOU'RE a young, single male heading to Lizard Island anytime soon, you'd better be on the lookout!
Alison Cox | June 25 2013
At some point, you may have wondered what it actually means for a person to be transgendered. Is a transgendered or transsexual person male, or female, or both? Or neither? In Thailand, transgendered people are considered the third sex, which might be a convenient label for some trans people but it probably doesn’t suit the individual situation of most others.
Christina Miller | June 19 2013
People in the swinging lifestyle come from all walks of life. It is logical to assume then that there are a lot of different types of swingers; Soft swap, Same Room Sex, Full Swap Girl on Girl, Voyeurs/exhibitionists, Kinksters, Role Playing/BDSM, Tight Schedule Swingers Cuckold Fetishist, Gang Bang, Ménage a Trois...
Alison Cox | June 04 2013
Swinging is generally considered as a naughty (but oh so nice) pursuit for couples to enjoy but a growing number of single women are wanting in on the action too. Not prepared to wait for the right guy to come along to pair up with, many ladies are fronting up to parties and clubs own their own to satisfy their curiosity and urges.<br /> <br />
Rebecca Daniels | May 22 2013
First meets can be scary as hell, and even the most confident woman can get nervous! So having been in this situation plenty of times myself, here’s some tips that I hope you’ll find helpful in navigating the first-meet-minefield.
RedHotPie Editor | May 08 2013
A hilarious dating video made in 1967 has been published online, offering a fascinating inside into the now-extinct courting ritual. The short film, produced by the US military in 1967, advises naval officers on how to make a good impression on women.
Christina Miller | April 11 2013
10 reasons to date a cougar. Cougars & young men
Rebecca Daniels | March 20 2013
We here at RedHotPie have decided that it’s high time we created a list of do’s and don’ts for our newcomers on profile deal-breakers. The following list was compiled from suggestions given by other RHP members for single male profiles. Take notes fellas and improve your chances of success.
Christina Miller | February 26 2013
Fantasies are a common part of adult life and they are healthy release of pent-up feelings – but what do these fantasies tell about you?
Christina Miller | February 11 2013
Valentine’s Day is just around the corner, which means that lovers everywhere will be on the lookout for unique and sexy date ideas. You still haven't organised a date? There’s a lot of pressure to make this a special day, romantic, original and memorable, and we're here to help...
Rebecca Daniels | January 11 2013
To selfie or not to selfie? That is the question…. What the heck is a selfie? That’s another question. A selfie is a shot taken by you of yourself. Those sexy RedHotPie-worthy shots aren’t usually the kind you’d want to ask someone else to take for you.
RedHotPie Editor | November 23 2012
The PR team of British singer Susan Boyle delivered the twittersphere a collective heart attack yesterday with the joyful peddling of a hashtag nobody thought to double-check.
Christina Miller | October 04 2012
One of the traits that determines happiness and mental health is flexibility: the capacity for creativity, abstract thinking, and adapting to changing circumstances. When it comes to the sex lives of swingers, there’s no question that they are more flexible in their approach to sex than their monogamous peers. But the real question is more complex: Is flexibility toward sex a good thing or a bad thing?
RedHotPie Editor | September 28 2012
COUPLES who share housework duties run a higher risk of divorce than couples where the woman does most of the chores, a Norwegian study sure to get tongues wagging has shown.
RedHotPie Editor | September 05 2012
The warm weather isn’t quite here yet, but when it arrives, it’ll be time to spring clean your sex life. Never mind the kitchen and the garage – start in the bedroom. We put together three simple sex tips to take your sex life from good to great this spring.
RedHotPie Editor | June 11 2012
Ladies, imagine these two scenarios... the first: you’re in a movie theatre, it’s an action film, but you’re not paying attention to the script nuance or the mise-en-scène, you’re watching the brooding lead; he’s chiselled, handsome, and oh-so-dangerous. Now, the second scenario: you’re on the couch, finishing your second tub of rocky road and you can’t stop crying, because that chiselled, handsome and oh-so-dangerous guy you met a few weeks ago cheated on you, with five other girls, several of them at once.
Christina Miller | April 26 2012
How many times has it happened? You’ve donned your best threads and hit the town with that new hottie. You’ve navigated your way through the fumbling first date banter, negotiated the post date relocation to your house and finally, you’ve suggested you move things to the ‘other room’.
Alison Cox | July 22 2010
It seems that a handful of couples from the RedHotPie forums aren't having as good a time as they could be, largely due to the perceived superficiality of other couples and singles who see fit to deem them hot, or not. People being superficial? Really? Get outta here. All jokes aside, it really does seem that a lot of lovely couples are feeling disappointed, disillusioned and downright unattractive due to being rejected solely on looks. Furthermore, when you're rejected time and time again for the same reason, you can't help but feel that you've grown a second head you weren't aware of, or that our society is becoming more and more looks oriented.
Alison Cox | May 17 2010
Swinging and alternative sexual interactions (ie - non-vanilla, non-monogamous sex for recreation) is nothing particularly unusual these days. Did you catch the swinging reference in the Steve Carrel flick Date Night recently, for example? Yet, a pervasive theme for most swinging couples is the need for discretion. You only have to go through a handful of profiles on RedHotPie to note that the 'need to be discreet' is still the number one rule of thumb where meeting fellow swingers is concerned. Naturally, no one needs to broadcast their sexual peccadilloes to the world but how important is it for the average couple to keep things on the down-low?
Alison Cox | March 18 2010
It’s not unusual to hear about couples finding it hard to meet single girls for FMF fun but it may come as a surprise to discover that some couples are similarly having no luck in hooking up with single guys for threesomes or gang bangs. With a good number of eligible men on RedHotPie, it seems implausible that couples are being left high and dry: disillusioned that something so seemingly simple to organise falls through time and time again. We take a look at why this may be the case and look at how some of the many myths about single men may well be the reason why finding Mr Right isn’t so easy. We’ll also suggest ways to try and ensure the guy you chat up will front up.
Alison Cox | November 12 2009
What swinging couple hasn't gone interstate or overseas and fantasised about adding some sexy spice to their vacation? After all, you've escaped the daily grind and set yourselves up in a nice hotel room or holiday pad. Adding some sexy new friends to the equation seems to be the most logical thing to do. In fact, for many busy couples, being away seems like the best excuse to try and hook-up since you've only got that small window of opportunity to taste the local produce, so to speak. In fact, the RedHotPie forums and various website comments suggest that a lot of couples are keener than mustard to make the most of their holidays, be it a weekend in another State or an extended break in a remote part of the country.
Alison Cox | September 07 2009
The enjoyment of being in the ‘lifestyle’ is manifold and most RedHotPie couples actively engaged in swinging will no doubt agree that it is a most welcome aspect to their relationship. However, I am sure that many couples have also wondered how to maintain balance in their lives so as to ensure being involved in the lifestyle does not have to come at the expense of losing other equally important parts of our lives. Conversely, how can a busy couple ensure that they can get their share of the action and not get left behind in the ‘too busy’ bin of RHP?
Alison Cox | August 11 2009
As most couples who have spent some time meeting others would no doubt have experienced, the world of swinging provides some toe-curling sexual possibilities. Many have also been fortunate enough to make some great friends from the scene and blessedly their weekends are now abound with enough social engagements to make Paris Hilton spin on her heels. On the other hand, walking on the wild side can also open up opportunities for people to experience some embarrassing conundrums as well as Twilight Zone moments that would leave the most seasoned veterans of the swinging scene slack-jawed with disbelief. We’ll take a look at some of these sticky situations and how you can avoid them, or at the very least, go into damage control and salvage the rest of your night.
Alison Cox | June 04 2009
We’ve read about it, countless films have portrayed it, and we’ve all inevitably talked about it, but what exactly is ‘swinging’? Is it about overweight, older people caught in the seventies having rampant sex with each other? Or is it like a secret, elite club not unlike that which was featured in the Stanley Kubrick film, Eyes Wide Shut? Do people really throw car keys into a bowl? In reality, none of these concepts accurately capture what swinging is all about in the naughties. In fact, swinging is enjoyed as much by Generation Y as Baby Boomers, and a wide cross-section of people are swingers today.
Alison Cox | June 04 2009
Many RedHotPie couples would agree that swinging is one of the most rewarding sexual experiences imaginable. However, before a couple can enjoy the many benefits of swinging, it’s important to lay down the groundwork properly before even posting a profile on RedHotPie.
Alison Cox | May 08 2009
It’s a Friday night and Andrea is getting ready for a very special night in with her husband Dave. Andrea can barely slip into her silky lingerie in anticipation while Dave is waiting for his lovely wife on their bed, wearing little more than a bathrobe and a knowing grin. The door bell rings. Andrea’s heart races fast as Dave goes to welcome their guest into the house. “Hello gorgeous.” Andrea looks over to see Matt at the bedroom door. He has the same devious look on his face as he did the last time he paid Andrea and Dave a visit. He moves towards Andrea and plants a soft kiss on her neck. “Hope you’re up for a good night. My mate Rob’s on his way too.” So unfolds another tale of a greedy girl getting her just desserts.
Alison Cox | April 07 2009
We all know that RedHotPie is a great way for adventurous couples to meet other like-minded people for fun, and it’s been fantastic for the RHP Team to read about the amazing experiences many couples have had over the years. However, we do appreciate that not all couples have had as much luck as others, and indeed some have been left feeling defeated and disillusioned about the ‘scene’ that so many describe as amazing. People are then rightly or wrongly labelled as time wasters and before long, everyone ends up in a lose-lose situation which could have been avoided by taking some basic precautions. In this article, we look at those basics which are all centred around the same concept: You can only have your time wasted if you let it!
RedHotPie Editor | February 11 2009
Bah Humbug! Sure that phrase was patented by the folks at Christmas Co but we’re going to licence it here for a moment. What an exclusive little club Valentines Day feels like when you’re on the outer right?!? Well this year, if you’re flying solo we wanted to give you a few tips on how to best navigate Valentines and come out with a few positives. No need to reel from bar to bar bouncing of one smooching couple to the next. This year, we’re gonna take the power back!<
RedHotPie Editor | February 11 2009
Well February saw a slew of high class, high heat adult parties go down around Aus (pun intended) but it's always hottest in Queensland. The Hawaii 50 beach party hosted by Couples International was wet and wild and jammed with the sexual goodness of over 300 hot bodied folk.<br><br> Being as it was almost Australia Day, you just felt things were going to get even crazier than usual and when punters arrived to find a jelly wrestling pit quivering before then, well let's just say the fun started straight away. Before you could say "nipple crack jelly sex" 6 couples had taken the plunge and the flesh did fly! But that was just the start of what became a truly massive evening!