I don’t get it?!

October 13 2019

Why do straight guys keep looking at my profile? I know it’s probably because I’ve validated someone but It’s something I definitely don’t go out of the way to do myself and I don’t understand what the interest is? I’ve even added something in my profile just for them now due to there being so many.

- Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    On this site can mean straight or bicurious/bisexual. Because of the ridiculous stigma surrounding bisexual men, most of them will have straight as their orientation. Dont complain.....you are lucky to get the attention! They will be checking out your hot bod :)

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Maybe it’s the beard? 🤷‍♀️

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    5 years ago

    I wouldn't overthink it. People look at profiles just because they're there to be looked at👍🏻

  • aussian43

    aussian43

    5 years ago

    They may be checking out the competition in the local area.
    Looking at a few profiles to get ideas on how to improve their own.
    Might think you look familiar.
    Curious about you from a forum post or validation or friends list.

    Not every interaction on here is aimed at getting into someone's pants.

  • NudesRus

    NudesRus

    5 years ago

    Because you have to open up the profile to read that your straight.

    🤔🤔🤔

  • Freaky_Fun

    Freaky_Fun

    5 years ago

    Lol. Not sure how they know you're straight unless they open your profile.

    Really not a big deal 🤷‍♀️

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Curiosity is the desire for information. It is the motivational desire to gain passion or an appetite for knowledge, information and understanding.
    Maybe it is the validation, maybe it is just them being curious as to what they could be or not missing out on.
    Enjoy the attention 😆😆😆

  • SpicyKale

    SpicyKale

    5 years ago

    More to the point, you might want to ask why it's a problem for you? Sort of like us complaining about straight guys looking at our profile 🤷‍♂️ People are looking at your profile, just take it as a compliment or you might risk looking a tad insecure

  • SpicyKale

    SpicyKale

    5 years ago

    ps. if they were messaging you it would be a whole other story

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Of the visitors in the last month only one has been a single woman, and a bit younger than I would like. Of the rest there's pretty much a 50/50 split between men and couples, neither hold any interest for me.

  • nevahadsomuchfun

    nevahadsomuchfun

    5 years ago

    Thanks for the comments... it doesn’t bother me that much but would be good if the ratio was the other way round. 😁

  • ROBJEN

    ROBJEN

    5 years ago

    Curiosity ...... we are going to visit now just to see what it is you wrote 🤣😂🤣

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Sorry it’s not all the hot women of your dreams heehee


    2 ways it commonly happens:
    1. Guys sussing out the type of guy who has validated a hottie
    2. People checking out your profile from comments in the forums.

    My validation guy gets a lot of traffic from my profile. 😂

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    5 years ago

    .. and i dont have a upfront profile pic ? But maybe , and this only happened today , I was browseing male pic's in the search section for a suitable candidate for my Mrs upcoming birthday ? Meaning i was opening profiles i normally wouldnt. ? Being straight ' it made me uncomfortable , but its the only place l had to look ?

  • thecatsmeowaus

    thecatsmeowaus

    5 years ago

    Unless you have deleted or hidden your profile, expect people to look at it 🤷🏼‍♀️.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    4 years ago

    I wouldn’t worry about it too much

    But perhaps this analogy will calm your mind

    When we are out walking, and come across a big dog poo in the grass, we look at that too

    It helps us to avoid it lol 😂