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riding on top
September 28 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
Everybody is different. Sex can be likened to food :-) some people are savoury, others are sweet...and some like bitter. Hehe. The best way of knowing what works for a partner is to ask, if they say it's great and you are dubious, perhaps go by the movements that they make the most noises too? Ultimately if the person you are having fun with isn't vocal/hand signals etc, on what they enjoy, you can't be expected to know. Effective communication is the key. I myself love both movements, though if something feels better, I'll let the person I'm with know alllllll about it, and would expect the same in return :-) Of course these are my opinions on the matter :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Looking forward to reading the replies :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
In guessing everyone is different like we all are . I have recently met a lovely hot play toy that loves me on top........I'm usually a hard and fast doggy style kinda girl ...so I feel exactly the same as you ....if I am on top - only grinding feels good and makes me cum, but what does that feel like for men ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
If your on top, grinding away, and your breath is getting heavier, moans are coming closer together,I'm getting off on your enjoyment. Once you've cum it's my turn. Chandelier time.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I actually cum faster when I'm on top as I have the control and I can see his reaction and there's that eye contact, which always turns me on. I don't grind a lot when on top. I only grind when I'm cumming. I will either squat over him or be on my knees, but either way my legs get a dynamic workout. I control every movement and only allow for shallow penetration, working my inner muscles as well, with the occasional deep plunge to rest my legs. It helps if he supports my arse with his big hands but that is usually my undoing and will send me into fits of spasm :P I've also found that my man friend likes to be teased... Just as he's getting into it, I hop off sending protests from him, give his hard cock a lick, a suck or two, working my fingers up and down and around.his shaft then giving him a passionate kiss so he can taste my juices from my lips while I hop back on to do it again. We both enjoy this and can keep this going for hours without either one of us cumming but are both kept at that high. Me, stopping and starting prolongs his erection, if not makes him even harder :) It helps if you both communicate what you like and how it feels. I'm fortunate my lover can read me like a book as I can not and do not talk during sex :P - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
You worry about yourself lovely... "Grinding" works... works well...!!I am sure there are selfish fellas out there who only care about themselves.. but, honestly.. you would be better off without them in your bed :)I LOVE laying on my back and having a lady pleasure herself on my dick.. facing me.. facing away.. up and down.. grinding, sitting still there playing with her clit.. I don't care.. I LOVE watching a woman have fun :) IF you ever decide you want another oppinion on whether you are doing it "OK".. let me know.. I would be VERY happy to help you out
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RHP User
11 years ago
Grinding works for me as I love watching and hearing the reaction of the woman on top. Watching her reaction is enough to make me cum. Grind away!!!
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davek75
11 years ago
Somethingnew A beautiful woman on top of me grinding is so sexy, looking into her eyes, seeing her body,Mmmm. Don't even think your being selfish, I'd feel lucky to have a women like you on top of me. I hope most guys would want a woman to be in a position that works for her.
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S_W_A_G_G_E_R
11 years ago
My favorite position. Thats why i love girls who ride horses, they get the sitting to the trot action happening. More of a tilting, rocking the pelvis action, with there shoulders back and back arched, and finger nails digging into my chest........ going for a cold shower. Up the Rabbitohs.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It can vary greatly depending on the girl. I do love when a girl does a slow full stroke by rolling her hips...drives me crazy. Grinding can feel great too if you get the hip roll working at the same time...grips the cock more. The fact that it can make a girl cum is also turn on.
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RHP User
11 years ago
My experience is that most women seem to prefer the grind than the elevator style. A little assistance with some assertive hands on her hips can really heat things up :-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Grinding is good, not my absolute favourite position, but prefer it over the up and down, allows me to flex and feel deep inside, love it when she falls on me as she nears orgasm and I can hold her tight as we both cum together - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
As long as I'm enjoying myself, then what I'm doing is just fine. When he lays back and puts his hands behind his head and makes himself comfortable, that's my cue to relax and let him watch me. I suppose it's a matter of dismissing my insecurities and believing him when he says it's all good. I gotta say finding the groove in the grind is incredible! I've been trying to figure out the on top thing forever! Thanks for your advice.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Because the penis is such a beautiful mystery to me, mmmmm, I was wondering though, do you guys get any feeling in your cocktail during grinding? I thought the stimulation comes from an overall touch from the head and along the shaft, that's why I wasn't sure the grinding does much for a guy as he's already encased and there's little movement for him.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Try the starfish OP,then you get to have a little zzz with your hands behind your head:-) xxQ
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RHP User
11 years ago
I love watching a lady grind... Nice deep penetration and if you manage to get some shallow rhythm going ' its twice as good.. What I mean by shallow movement is combining both at the same time.. Not the long up and down rhythm , short and sweet strokes with a grind feels just Mmmmmmm....
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's exactly what I'm thinking when I'm in top... Having done an awful lot of dressage whenever I am on top I feel like I'm horse riding and can't help thinking ok sitting trot. Rising trot, slow down and collect up... Etc.. I must look pretty funny to the guy underneath- until I just get myself all worked up and he bucks and then I just have to hold on as he takes off... Xxviolet
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
come out on top cause........................ that's my favorite position. Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
This topic has got me thinking.. I think sometimes some men just want to play motorcycles..."I'll be the motorcycle and you can just ride me". Pretty boring if you ask me. :( Bugger the grinding bucking horse...LOL! I prefer to ride a classic convertible......MMMM a total body experience, smooth, well preserved, elegant and full of substance. Open air and of course when it rains pull the cover up for protection. Ride that baby like no tomorrow. Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
and then adding in hip-rolling, as it feels like I'm going to snap him in half :( - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
a pretty cool reddit thread on this - titled "cowgirl position do you prefer it when a girl grinds or bounces?" Some good tips and comments. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
reverse cowgirl is easier for me to control the length of the stroke or to get up on my feet. I was born with ducks disease where my feet are too close to my arse, lol, so once I straddle someone, I don't have much room to bounce up and down upright. I find most guys enjoy the view of the reverse cowgirl and you can play with your own clit while you ride
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RHP User
11 years ago
My chicky cums like a freight train when she sits bolt upright & grinds away hard. Does it feel the same for me? Not really. But it's more about her at this point. The sight of her completely losing it while riding me hard is priceless & I love it. Once she cums a few times like this it's easy to set her off in any position after that. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
My favourite position is being on top, controlling every move. I get to decide whether it's hard and fast or slow and teasing. I don't think that him lying with his hands behind his head would give me much encouragement. It would make me feel that he was detached.
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RHP User
11 years ago
(For me) The trick though is finding the right combination for you & him, as everyone is different (bit like knitting, knit one pearl one, can be pump one grind one, or pump one grind 3, pump 3 grind 6, or any combination) Have to find out what best suits both you and him, and can be changeable depending on how hot you are getting. Unfortunately I would need actual hands-on experience to be able to be of any further help to you & get the numbers right
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RHP User
11 years ago
OP I can tell you that the grind is one is my special fav's......why....well its less work for a starter...hehehe....seriously....I get the full sexy view of you.....your sexy hips I can pull back and forth on me while you press down and grind.......I can definitely cum from this and apart from a deep hard and fast doggie this is sensational.....ok so I can sneak my finger into your sexy butt or pull your buttocks apart so you can fantasise about receiving another hot member or actually do......
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RHP User
11 years ago
I rarely orgasm any other way. I need to be fully in control, find the exact right position, then when I start I just keep on climaxing every few seconds. The minute a guy starts trying to control my movements it distracts me. Do I grind? I don't know, never really thought about it, but I sure do fuck him hard and fast.
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RHP User
11 years ago
the feeling of having my cock in your vagina is so exquisite that if you're sitting on top you can grind, bounce, pulse, or do whatever you choose. Nothing beats the pleasure of a warm wet willing and welcoming pussy while lying back and watching a woman use you for pleasure. And Burning Love I'd even welcome an attempt to snap it off!
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RHP User
11 years ago
The grinding does very little for me physically, sure it's great to watch the woman have fun but it's a mental pleasure rather than a physical one - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
But what I find feels great is if she moves a bit further back and shallow hip rolling on her hands and knees so it's more motion around the head, less on the shaft. That never fails to get me off
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RHP User
11 years ago
I actually like her on top but me doing most of the work, holding her by the waist as I thrust and a hard nipple in my mouth. For those who like riding, put a pillow under his arse to raise him up a bit, it's easier on your legs. Reverse is awesome !
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RHP User
11 years ago
When I was working on cattle stations an 18 or 19 year old girl started work in the stock camp and she couldn't ride very well. My girlfriend watched for a couple of weeks before she got sick of it, took her aside and told her to sit on the horse like she was riding a man. The improvement was immediate.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I like that my thighs and calves are more toned because of it. Why change? :P - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Why indeed ! Whatever works for you. But the penetration is better. Get a strap on and you can get a mean abs workout as well ! ;) x
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RHP User
11 years ago
Maybe my fear of horses is actually to blame for my lack of saddle skills. Ha ha
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RHP User
11 years ago
I found the Reddit article. Thank you, was very helpful. I though it was just my conundrum, good to know a lot of women wonder the same thing.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Come and see me and I give you some riding lessons. Then we'll go and introduce you to some horses to help you with that fear. I'm very, very good............with horses.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'd be happy to have a riding lesson then check out some friendly horses with you 😉
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