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Wife wants to watch husband receive anal

September 28 2018

As the title says Wife has been wanting to watch me get fucked by another guy, I'm not attracted to other men but I am open to the idea for a once off. I have tired dildos up there and I do enjoy it.
I'm alil nervous about what should I expect? Whats the best way to set this up? Is it possible to enjoy when not attracted to guys?

Even if I do enjoy it, it will most likely be a once off so really want to make the most out of the experience so any tips I should try? (eg was thinking maybe 2 guys at the same time.)

Comments

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    6 years ago

    You say....



    Not attracted to other men

    Open to a one off

    “Really want to make the most of it”.... .. with two guys







    I think perhaps you’re not being completely honest with yourself

  • Seachange

    Seachange

    6 years ago

    Concur.

    OP, are you posting for your wife? 😎

    Are you sure that it's your wife wanting you to have anal sex or are you just confronting a new desire or fantasy that may challenge or even change your existing sexual paradigm. And scared you may enjoy it and then what???

    Why does it even have to be a one off if that is what you want. No shame in it. If you desire a cock up your wazoo, does not change you fundamentally. Just expands your sexual experience. Don't worry about labels.

    There are plenty of single bicurious males on here. Take it easy, plenty of lube and maybe not too much fibre meals before a meet. 😎

    Enjoy, conquer the world, one cock at a time (or two if you desire).

    Can I watch too.😈😜

  • SpicyKale

    SpicyKale

    6 years ago

    Be yourself and own your own sexuality!
    Would you expect your wife to have an experience with another women if she's not into it? Damn I hope not! Never do something you're not into because someone else wants you to. If this was posted by your wife about not being sure if she wanted to be with another guy, but was thinking about it anyway, everyone would screaming NOOOOO....
    If it's something you're interested in, go for it. Otherwise, you're putting yourself and a potential play partner in a really awkward situation. How would you feel if someone contacted you and said hey I'd like to do this thing with you, but I'm really not attracted to you? Instant boner killer....
    Hope that comes across as constructive rather than judgemental...

  • sydney_tradie

    sydney_tradie

    6 years ago

    Your not attracted to guys
    But
    Your will to try it
    Only as a once off
    And you want two guys
    Lmfao
    Dude are you sure your wife wants it
    Or
    You really want it

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Be in it wanting it up to your eye balls or it’s not fair for that other person.

    You’ve got to imagine being in that situation, doing it, being aroused by it - if it’s an almost thought type thing not an oh god I can’t wait til I’m doing it thing then maybe it’s not the experience for you. One can only assume the other male be going into it having had fantasies about what he was going to be doing to you and wanting to make those a reality so if it the scenario doesn’t do that for you then I’d rethink. Again you’ve got to think of how that other person would feel..

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    6 years ago

    Ask your wife to peg you? Brace yourself, as the next morning you'll have the pegging glow.

    Ms Foxy

  • curiousgirl35

    curiousgirl35

    6 years ago

    Im guessing though maybe try with a couple with a bi male? 🤷‍♀️

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • sugar_vanessa

    sugar_vanessa

    6 years ago

    Sounds hot! As long as you're really into it. Just research how to make it the best experience. Plenty of people on RHP to make your dreams come true.
    Disregard the judgemental comments, they're missing out! ;)

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    6 years ago

    Be sure it's something you want to try for yourself and not just for your partner, even if it's just out of curiosity. Curiosity helps us all learn new things and expands our lives. I'm personally attracted to the female form rather than the male but equally aroused by sexual actions whether male or female. Sometimes I think we get to hung up on what others think rather than finding out what we really like.
    KC72

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Firstly, good on you for using this to research your thoughts and approach, its what it is here for, not to get judged. Clearly your wife is aroused by the scenario, and I reckon that part of your willingness to try it, is that her arousal, arouses you, which if correct, is a great start to what could be something you both will spend years smiling about when reflecting on its pleasures. Having been lucky enough to share very similar experiences with some awesome couples, I would suggest a few things.Given you have the advantage of knowing that anal stimulation feels great and you dont need to overcome that barrier, tell eachother what parts you think will be sexy and arousing, so you both know what your looking to experience. Definitely go with a bi guy that is attracted to you both, and you both are attracted to the idea of him sharing your fantasy, and from the onset, let him know what your expectations are. The most important part is that all 3 connect. In the build up, make sure all 3 of you flirt and connect through that process, perhaps as part, agree to him texting / messaging etc you both individually, letting him know that you both will intrigued by what the other is thinking when in contact, and also enjoying it at the same time. That could also be an organic way of setting up how you will actually meet, the where the when, the cues etc... Getting the most out of it, will only happen when all 3 get the most out of it, so again 3 way connection is so important. Most bi guys that look for couples, do so because they look to enjoy both of you, so ensure your all on the same page.
    On a practical note, research the best way to prepare yourself prior, to make sure you avoid any awkward moments.
    Have a blast, and I'm betting if you find the right guy, and it goes as well as it could, the idea of the experience being a one off, may be changed just even a little bit.

  • NewVicCpl

    NewVicCpl

    6 years ago

    Sometimes I read these forums and think they are great, full of positive vibes and advice, sometimes...



    Other times I read them and think everyone is just being negative and overally sensitive, like your thoughts, questions or opinion is going to affect them.



    I say be you, do what you want to do, with who you want to be, fuck what others say about your choices, especially if they are negative.



    Personally, I understand your question and can relate, I would go with the flow myself and see were it took me (as a one off), then reassess and see what happens next. If that means there is a profile update required then so be it, if not, then so be it.



    Certainly shouldn’t have to reclassify yourself and update your profile based on a thought or fantasy, especially not to satisfy the masses on here....

  • Service_man

    Service_man

    6 years ago

    You say You are not attracted to other guys. Why subject yourself to the experience if you are not comfortable ...Get your wife to use a strap on and she can fuck you to her hears content...give you a bit back to what you have been giving her.. Or try a hydraulic log splitter ,I hear they do a marvelous job if you set them up correctly. Good luck and watch out for anal tears.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    I agree with superfoxxy get your wife to peg you, but be warned you’ll never want ‘normal’ sex again!!

  • JohnAnn2227

    JohnAnn2227

    5 years ago

    Why not try pegging with your partner first. She might really get off being the one in power pleasuring you. Might be an easier step before trying the real thing if you are not turned on by guys.Pegging is pretty common now and is something both of us get a lot of pleasure from.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    I’m not attracted to guys romantically, but cock is fun now and again especially with female cumpany 😃

    Men should be believed. 😜

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    wanna to hear what you think?

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    We ask a lot of our ladies so why not do it for her. My wife loves watching me suck off other blokes and I just no anal is coming for me.
    Why not I’ve turned out to love it.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Thats disgusting

  • Playful2looking

    Playful2looking

    5 years ago

    Yes try it with a bi couple.. actually some wives enjoy watching their man getting pegged by another guy huge turn on for some.....yes ha ha it will make you gay for life there is more to being gay than coping a dick up the bum really gay guys actually fall in love with men ..sorry you may not be their type

  • G4C4U

    G4C4U

    a year ago

    Do it, I’ve only taken it up the ass 5 or 6 times and love it.

  • 69Lover69

    69Lover69

    a year ago

    I know I'm not gay. I've never looked at another bloke and thought "I wanna fuck HIM" but a guy contacted me on here yesterday - he said he was no gay or bi but he wanted to suck my dick. Just the two of us together watching she-male porn and sucking each other and playing with each other. Talking to him DID turn me on. I said to him that receiving a blow job is great and I don't really care who is attached to the mouth. I don't want to KISS the guy but I'm comfortable with playing with another guy or being played with. I have enjoyed a dildo up the back passage and I think a penis up there would feel better - especially since I am not doing it to myself. I've always wanted to know whether I could deep throat another guy as well. For me, I'd do all of this for the experience. I didn't proceed with this guy because something felt off about him. I don't think he was being honest with me and I didn't want to go meet him, have him drug me and then who know what.
    I am hoping to meet up with a MF couple on here and in that situation, I think I'd be much more trusting and comfortable with it. Maybe I am being naive - who knows. I'd life a FFM as well as a MMF and probably a MFMF as well. IN a MMF the two guys are going to touch each other (either accidentally or deliberately) anyway so why not go with the flow. In a DP situation the two penises are only separated by a couple of very thin membranes so you are going to feel like you are rubbing your two penises together. None of this makes you gay - or even bi - just willing to experiment.
    I cannot imagine me going to a gay bar to pick up a man for the night - I have been offered a ONS by a gay guy but I turned him down. He was fun and I enjoyed his company but didn't want (at the time) to go to bed with him.
    In the end, labels don't really help you. If you think you'll enjoy it, then do it. If you DO enjoy it, then maybe you'll do it again but if it freaks you out then you won't do it again. If your wife/girlfriend enjoys watching it and you enjoy the feeling then it can become part of your playtime in the future - not every time - but why exclude it if it's enjoyable?

  • OpenSurfer85

    OpenSurfer85

    a year ago

    I have owned up to my sexuality about 1 year ago and have been lucky enough to have some amazing Bi MMF experiences, every guy should try it. For the record I am very straight in day to day life and am not actually to guys, I am attracted to cock and the taboo of it all I think, you can definitely have some serious fun with two hard cocks and gorgeous woman all together

  • HappyFliers

    HappyFliers

    2 months ago

    We tried it. He loved it. I encouraged it. So don't miss the chance if the wife is excited about it. I still masturbate thinking about the first time I saw my husband receive another man anally. He was in heaven.

  • Bicuckple60

    Bicuckple60

    10 days ago

    It started for us with my MISTRESS pegging me...she says it is the most powerful sexual activity a woman can perform. She was delighted one night when I came without either of us touching my cock as she pounded me into a quivering mess......I was hooked and so was she.
    Sometime later later she asked one of her BULLS if he would fuck me so she could watch.....he did and I loved that to......I know first hand why a woman loves to feel a guy cum in her...and an anal orgasm for a man is super intense and totally different to a normal orgasm......I am Bi...but do not seek guys out for sex....my only Bi contact is initiated by my MISTRESS.
    SO GO FOT IT