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  Nightglider

  11 days ago

  I’ve heard someone in chatroom state numerous times that they have found more success finding unicorns in the wild/vanilla world so to speak. Stating they will start chatting to a woman, buy her a drink and it all flows from there. Now I am fully aware that I’m not the demographic you’re seeking advice from here, but am offering you perspective from the flip side for what it’s worth. Possibly nothing new so take it or leave it. From a single woman perspective after a few years on RHP, I find that the high availability of solo men on here alone make it far less attractive to play unicorn. Most couples I’ve chatted with on here (outside of couple swap with the guy I’m dating) have been generally chatting with the Mr only, and very rarely the Mrs. A majority of profiles showcase the Mrs (I get the whole Hot wife side) and don’t highlight Mr much at all. There are many couples profiles, where the Mr is either pretending to be a couple (fake profile) or just wants one on one with the solo woman, and has no intention of including Mrs. I’ve experienced this first hand. I’ve also found, that in 90-95% of profiles the Mr is often older than the Mrs and has not aged as well. In this case, most single women will go for the single male profile as there is more appeal. Why wouldn’t they when it’s far quicker to find a match with the choice available? I gave up on trying to be a unicorn largely for the reasons I’ve mentioned. It got too difficult finding a matching couple where I was interested in both Mr and Mrs, it really became like trying to find my own unicorn. I’m sure with patience, you just might find your unicorn.

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  MsSuperFoxy

  10 days ago

  A lot of couples often ask in the forums how to find a unicorn for their enjoyment. It's very tedious! I'd probably turn the question around and ask yourselves, "What makes a unicorn want to find us?". That's where the real answer lies. Unicorns don't respond well to being pursued like a rare collectable trophy hunt because the couple just want to have "fun". Unicorns are shy, selective creatures who choose the couples that make them feel safe, respected and genuinely wanted, not simply because they tick a fantasy box. Ms Foxy

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