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December 10 2024
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friendseeker
a month ago
your choice
First realise they may be inundated with messages and just cannot cope
Second, a lot say no reply means no interest
Read many other posts about this
A much better way is to go to events where single men are welcome such as meet n greets. Once you meet people, they know other people and you will be welcome if you fit into the larger group. Behave normally like you would with any other friends and don’t annoy the crap out of others with demands.
FeistyFatty
a month ago
Don't send another. No reply is a reply in itself..... Its a nit interested ☺️
Margo_Lover
a month ago
No reply is likely no interest. But people get busy and miss replies, plus some have a deluge of messages at times, or all the time.
Now and then we get a 2nd or 3rd message from someone, and get back to them... it's very rare.
If you're messages are anything like hey, hi, how's your night, how are you finding RHP, Happy Friday... then never bother sending them in the first place. Garbage spam, that no one wants.
Which is to say, if you have great messages, maybe send a couple over a month or 2. If you get no reply from the first, 99.9% chance you won't receive any from subsequent messages. But we always appreciate a good message, even when there's no interest.
- Alex.
Pangolin28
a month ago
Interesting question. Like Feisty said is true. But if you peruse the forum for similar threads you will find other women saying sometimes I do not see a message in time or it wasn't the right time so please try agin. The latter is not that common but hey all that can happen if you send another message is it will be ignored or they may block you. Not a terrible consequence so why not try
MsSuperFoxy
a month ago
You don't.
Move on.
Ms Foxy
Flirty2020
a month ago
If they have not responded then do not send them another message.
Alexis
a month ago
Give it 10 days or so. But don’t be surprised if they don’t reply the second time also.
Primal_Curiosity
a month ago
Try different approaches, see what works for you and doesn’t. There is no right or wrong way that applies to us all.
You may find some degree of persistence works with certain phrasing or follow up and you also may find it doesn’t.
I’ve met girls off here in the past with a follow up message after a few weeks and they’ve just missed it.
Trial it out and learn from it. And enjoy the process 😊
Sawadee
a month ago
You dont , if they dont reply, assume they're just not interested and move on to greener pastures...
tradienhislady
a month ago
We don’t bother because we don’t want to come across annoying/pushy. If they don’t respond, we take it as they’re not interested even if we have matched. There are plenty of other people on here to get to know and pursue, so we just put effort into those ones 😊
From the other perspective though, make sure you’ve read their profile throughly because they may be like us and have stated in their bio that they won’t respond to boring/generic messages (or something else), so make sure you’re not doing something to have yourself sent to the ignore folder!MsSuperFoxy
a month ago
OP, Hope you have read what the ladies have to say and take the feedback on board, as they are the ones you are messaging.
Ms Foxy
HiHelloandGday
20 days ago
Messages expire after 7 days unread. Just send a couple and then second message to get attention say something like, oh well it was worth a try at least brings first message back to the top. Women just get hundreds of messages so be patient and delete sent ones and start again.
AGent67
20 days ago
Sometimes sending a follow up message can be a good thing as lots of people dont check the app very often and also the message can get lots among the 100's of other messages the person is getting. Sometimes that follow up message gets you a meet up too!
Lostyanumber
16 days ago
If you really really must send a follow up message I'd suggest waiting 6 - 12 months
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