Is it “Taboo” to want a live in playmate

January 19 2025

We are a couple and have struggled to connect with a sexy unicorn to play with. Discussions have lead to the possibility of finding someone to live with us and have naughty encounters when ever we like.
Our kids are grown and moved out and now it’s our time to play!!!
Is this a first, or are their other couples wngahed in this type of arrangement…
Would love to hear your thoughts and commentary ❤️

Comments

  • wantabitoffun

    wantabitoffun

    24 days ago

    No it’s not Taboo. So long as all parties are happily content with the arrangements. The hardest part would be finding the right person. Could take you a while and a few tried attempts. Take your time, discuss your intentions together, act on your gut feelings and be honest to each other. Remember you have another person living with you, if you don’t get along it’s going to be uncomfortable.
    Sounds like a wonderful idea, have fun . Hopefully you will find that special person.
    I’d be interested to hear you’ve found that special person. 👌👌 good luck

  • Apples_N_Oranges

    Apples_N_Oranges

    24 days ago

    It’s probably not the type of arrangement that many couples and unicorns would consider. As you stated yourself you have struggled to find/connect with a unicorn. We can imagine it would be quite difficult to find someone you both connect with and would be open to that kind of arrangement. Also, could this type of arrangement potentially cause issues within your relationship with your partner ie. spending too much time with the unicorn, developing more feelings for the unicorn, the risk of cheating/spontaneous sexual encounters with the unicorn that your partner isn’t ok with.

    In your profile you also talk about having a sexy siren to play with and state ‘you will be fully compensated for being so! 😈. Sounds like a very transactional experience, assuming it wasn’t your intention when you wrote it, but it sounds like they (sexy siren/unicorn) are a thing/a toy that you both play with, give them some money and they go back into their room.

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    24 days ago

    You can want what you like, fantasies are unlimited and your own. A wonderful place for role play.

    It’s another thing to bring what into reality and hinge someone’s housing on their ability to bring you sexual gratification. It’s called slavery

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    24 days ago

    You’ve found it hard to find a unicorn to play with, so the logical solution is to find one who wants to move in to your house and play with you all the time??

    That seems like it would be so rare that I couldn’t help but wonder if she would be there entirely on her own free will.

    Not that you’d trap someone, but the idea of free rent and board in Sydney in exchange for being a live in unicorn could be used pretty coercively.

    When coercion is used in the context of sexuality, it ventures into the arena of being criminal behaviour.

    I’d be careful. Someone close by, who can come around frequently, but has their own place seems like a better idea to me.

  • Ex007

    Ex007

    24 days ago

    This really needs some clarification.

    It sounds like a bit of an oxymoron. Hard to find a unicorn so we well see if we can find one to move in 🤔

    So are you looking for a poly love relationship?

    or

    A sex slave in exchange for free rent?

  • Primal_Curiosity

    Primal_Curiosity

    24 days ago

    The comments here read like the OP is sweeping the streets of Sydney for desperate people who need bed and board only to entrap them.

    People can make adult decisions which don’t have to be about coercion and taking advantage or situations.

    Why does the majority revert to the assumptive stance that it’s a sinister intention?

    Having operated in the dom/sub arena for nearly 10 years now, I can safely say that there are many adults of full faculty who can make such decisions to challenge and to experiment.

    Some of the situations I and others have agreed to would clearly ring alarm bells with some of you. And that saddens me to think we don’t recognise how empowering some of this world can really be for the individual.

    Growth rarely occurs from the comfort of pre-existing knowledge. And the choice to submit, the choice to offer control is much more complex than “slave” or “free”.

  • MrandMrsEss

    MrandMrsEss

    23 days ago

    Ok so it’s hard enough to find a partner for a committed relationship , then we want to find a unicorn - one of the most mystical and desires creatures and of course impossibly difficult to catch. Now we want that mystical creature to live in our stables?
    It’s a pipe dream, one that I’ve had quite often too. It probably does happen but rarely would last and rarely without complications.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    22 days ago

    No, it's not Taboo as long it's done ethically, there is consent and is done so in everyone's best interest.

    If not, it will appear creepy as fuck!

    Ms Foxy

  • jenniecruising

    jenniecruising

    21 days ago

    With all the other comments in mind WHAT are you offering this person other than your regular need for sex?

  • Mrs_Deep_Love

    Mrs_Deep_Love

    17 days ago

    Does it really matter if it is taboo?who cares?

  • squirtingmilf1

    squirtingmilf1

    9 days ago

    @OurfunSYDcouple
    Yes, it can work if you find the right person. In the past, I was in a relationship with a couple that lasted almost a year, and it was a fantastic arrangement. We were exclusive.
    They had clear boundaries, open communication, and mutual respect—not only between themselves but also with me.
    We all got along well as both friends and lovers, with no jealousy between them, which made everything feel genuine.

    They were comfortable with me being with either of them, and we all enjoyed being together, whether separately or as a group. We’d exchange pictures, send playful texts, and even tease each other in dressing rooms.
    It was a laid-back, enjoyable dynamic, and it worked well for everyone involved.

    However, when I met someone else and decided to pursue a relationship with them, I knew it was time to end things with the couple.
    The arrangement, which involved no financial exchange, simply wasn’t aligned with the direction I wanted to take in my new relationship.
    When I explained this to the couple, they became jealous, which led me to cease all communication with them.

    While the experience was amazing at the time and I have no regrets about my time with them, I do not regret my decision to end it when I did. It was the right choice for where I was at in my life.

  • lilcurvysuccubus

    lilcurvysuccubus

    7 days ago

    Not taboo unless you all agreed to be in a polycule. Not all unicorns want to live in with a couple. Sounds like what you're saying is you want another person in your house to be your sex fiend 24/7 whenever the fantasy arises. That will get old eventually. They will have their own lives and so will you. Unicorns aren't there just for you to play with, they're not toys. They are humans and have feelings. Having open communications and boundaries will help, if you don't lay that out, that will turn south pretty quickly. That happened to a friend of mine. We ended up having to rescue her from this couple.