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How often is too much…the Mind traveller

April 16 2024

Hello it’s Ash here,

Just putting it out there but how often does everyone actually think about sex, or a sexual encounter or a fantasy…?

I find myself nearly always thinking about something I want to be doing, or a fantasy that I can’t wait to put into play or the next hot steamy sex chat I’m going to have…!

I’m always always thinking sexual…how healthy is this?

Am I the only one? Is this normal?

How often do you turn your thoughts into reality?

I’m not going to lie I am a horny naughty girl and I love it!! I don’t want to change me or stop my thoughts, I love where it takes me and I love the adventures I have had. I am simply just wanting to see if it’s just me.

Comments

  • NeoAndTrin

    NeoAndTrin

    3 months ago

    I'd say at least a couple of times a day for me (Neo). At the moment it's usually to do with someone who's agreed to be our first 3some with but we've just gotta wait for her to get her immediate RL stuff attended to first (just bought a property a few weeks ago).

    Ive been with her twice before I met Trin (met thru Feeld) and she's both of our friends now so just thinking about session with both of them in preparation for the real thing really. Things I can do they both like, making suggestions to Trin about that, etc.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    3 months ago

    What you are referring too is; The Wo-man empire.
    You are not alone, Ash. I think about it all the time too.
    It's very healthy.

    Ms Foxy
    PS The male equivalent is: "The Roman Empire". Men think about it 24hrs a day. 🤣

  • RachWandered

    RachWandered

    3 months ago

    All the time
    I thought everyone did
    If they don’t they probs need some support or something lol 😝

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    3 months ago

    Multiple times a day. I think its fairly healthy.

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    3 months ago

    I had a dream last night I was prepping to meet an FWB for a hot night together, busy making my body look as perfect as can be. Got woken up then decided to get back to sleep to continue it. It didn’t eventuate. So sad…
    Peaks and troughs. Am definitely in one of those peaks 😳
    Totally normal

  • Felicitous

    Felicitous

    3 months ago

    I'm sure it's totally normal!

    Personally I don't really think sexually much.
    I'm more inclined to do so after an experience..
    Can have daily flashbacks for a few days after and that's an incredibly delicious place to revisit.

    However rarely have fantasies about future things. Intermittently perhaps, definitely not daily. Maybe more so every couple of weeks 😂🤷🏻‍♀️

    I'm sure it's aligned with libido. I wouldn't consider mine to be very high - comparing to previous threads and others comments.

  • big_rig

    big_rig

    3 months ago

    Hello Ash 😊

    Always! But in different forms. Fantasy. Memory. Flashback. Elaborating on missed opportunities. And even on taken ones.

    These days it's most often when I wake up. Raging hard and just have to stay in bed lingering in that state between dreaming and waking with any of the above coursing through my mind and body. Even if it means rushing to get to work or even being late. It's better than coffee somedays. Can keep me buzzing for hours.

    Also, not sure if THIS is weird, but when I was a kid (even pre-pubescent) and terribly insomniac, I found the only thing that could lull me into a sweet sleep was playing out a sexual fantasy in my head.

    I think it's healthy. Anything using your imagination and creativity is healthy. Too much relies on needing external stimulation sometimes.

  • snowwhite09

    snowwhite09

    3 months ago

    Well depends who you’re thinking of Ash 😉. Me personally have those thoughts all the time which can be very annoying aka a pest for K. However I say it’s normal, you’re fine feel free to message us whenever you’re in need 😘

  • HornyAllThTime84

    HornyAllThTime84

    3 months ago

    I'm glad to see that women (at least some) do this. I'm a bloke so it comes as no surprise that at least once a minute is normal.