How do I subtly seduce this guy at my gym…?

March 15 2023

Keep seeing this guy and we always locks eyes, I wanna know in a guy’s perspective what do I do to send a very clear signal I want hun to engage and potentially rail me in the gym toilet? X

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  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    a year ago

    Doesn't sound like you want a "subtle" response from him lol.

  • allfouradventure

    allfouradventure

    a year ago

    Ask him

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    a year ago

    Ask him to spot you on what ever machine you're using and then you'll be able to have close up eye contact.

  • oil_beef_hooked

    oil_beef_hooked

    a year ago

    👋🏻👉🏻👌👍🏻

  • Inflation

    Inflation

    a year ago

    You can always make a few comments to boost his ego. Guys will like that and its probably a good starting point.

    Or if you've already started doing that and he hasn't read the signals then the following may apply.

    a. Not interested
    b. Probably gay.

    Don't get caught or you may end up getting banned...lol

    Good luck

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    a year ago

    Come on....really?
    Gym toilets.
    I get the quick bang you want but don't you think of all the cross contamination in there plus extra body fluids.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    a year ago

    Have you ever heard of verbal communication?
    Like Nike, just do it..ask him, "I see you making eyes contact with me. Wanna rail in the gym toilet?"
    Simple, direct and straight to the point.

    Ms Foxy

  • Notice_Me

    Notice_Me

    a year ago

    ask him to spot your bent over rows.

    else nude pics are flowers for men... :)

    then link him to this post

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    a year ago

    You could just tell him that you like him.

    Mado
    Mado Tara xx

  • CuriousAsianCpl

    CuriousAsianCpl

    a year ago

    Walk up to him and these next 2 words will blow your mind...

    "Wanna bang?"

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    a year ago

    My ears are burrrrning 😏

  • Steveh41

    Steveh41

    a year ago

    Just be direct and honest with him.

    Walk up to him and tell him that you are interested in him and want to get his number guys appreciate this sort of stuff. Unfortunately in this day and age guys are conditioned not to make the first move for fear of being labeled a creep and a pervert.

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    a year ago

    You could always walk up to him and grab his cock ? No words needed ?

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    a year ago

    Imagine Guy from gym reading all this in here 🌚

  • HappyHedonist

    HappyHedonist

    a year ago

    This is your opening line for a guy/girl 'you have a great physique are you training for something' Wait for the the smile then 'Hi I'm xxx'

  • TightyWhities1

    TightyWhities1

    a year ago

    Say hi and go from there. You'll soon workout if he's keen. Or you could just walk up and say want to get funky in the dunny...lol

  • DonnaBrett

    DonnaBrett

    a year ago

    Ask him outright.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    a year ago

    Update?

    Ms Foxy

  • Timotheous

    Timotheous

    a year ago

    If a chic walked up to me and was that direct.. well, damn she'd be my newest best friend!
    Just go tell him you wanna bang.. if you get rejected, yeah he's either married, loyal and satisfied at home.. or gay!
    Either way, it won't be you!
    Guys get rejected all the time.. take it on the chin, and keep moving forward!

  • hisDarkSecret

    hisDarkSecret

    a year ago

    Eye contact. Smile. Ask to work in on a machine. Comment that you're not sure if you're doing the exercise correctly. Wait for him to begin flirting. Take a risk and ask where he's from to get the ball rolling. Place him in a position where he feels masculine - "You're way better at this than me" (smile, eye contact)

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    a year ago

    just ask lol

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    a year ago

    Why can’t you make the first move ??

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    a year ago

    Why be subtle if you want it, hit it up that's a guys prospective. Trust me he will not get subtle.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    a year ago

    Give me a wink and nod?

  • jayyjayy

    jayyjayy

    a year ago

    Point fingers and get him too follow you 👍🏼

  • FunwithSandS

    FunwithSandS

    10 months ago

    Get ChatGPT to craft a good opening line. It appears to be doing everything else these days! X

  • somethingsweet

    somethingsweet

    10 months ago

    Ask him and organise a better rooting place to actually do it full throttle lol. Gym toilet really gf that's so gross on so many levels at least shower the gross sweat off before doing the do...have some class about you in the first place.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    10 months ago

    Just walk up ask him if he is single if u is then break the ice and tell him u want his LAHOO JUICE

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    10 months ago

    So how’s it working out summerif22 ?

  • LetsFrolic

    LetsFrolic

    10 months ago

    Go talk to him. Ask foe a spot

  • coolnhotnok

    coolnhotnok

    9 months ago

    is subtle for you? It's fine if it is. Otherwise just accidentally drop a weight on his foot when walking past (not too heavy! you don't want to cripple him) & then apologize profusely & make sure you work in a clumsy boob. Hold his gaze for a second too long & bite your lip. Pretty much guaranteed you'll get any kind of railing you want anywhere you want it. If you're worried about hurting him, make it your drink bottle or gym towel if he's standing - the point is to get that boob to work ;)

  • fixherleak

    fixherleak

    9 months ago

    This would depend on what you're wanting from the guy. If you're just wanting him to pound it for that, you don't need to suduce; all you would need to do is smile, walk up to him, and ask, "Can I have some of that dick?" I dunno why chicks don't do that more often since there will be a low rejection rate since males are programmed to need it that is if you haven't been converted over to gay somehow. It would make things way easier and make the world a better place, and I know the next thing you're going to say is, "What if he thinks I'm a slut?" This is a misconception, as the typical guy does not care fr how many guys you've been with. I know this to be factual personally because I can't tell you how many times I would run train on chicks with friends and one of the guys ends up cuffing the chick lol 

    Now on the other hand, if you're wanting more than being pounded, that's a little different since guys have a higher rate of rejection, and female signals can be more indecisive, it's harder for guys to pick up on them. Since this is a gym, the easiest way would be to kind of slowly follow him around the gym, like every time he moves to a different machine, you keep moving closer to him and around whatever machine he's working out on. Also, if you have a big ass or if it looks nice, make sure to bend over in front of him every now and then. He will eventually get the idea if you stay consistent. Alternativly, if you want to see if he's interested without saying a word and make it cut and dry, you can do what I do with chicks: just throw up the little telephone sign with your hand near your ear and mouth while smiling and looking in his direction and pointing to him to see the reaction.

    There should literally be no females asking how to pick up guys that shit is way too easy. Guys are direct females are the weird ones.

  • pelanc

    pelanc

    9 months ago

    So, what we are all interested in: HOW did this play out for you?

  • Jattz05

    Jattz05

    8 months ago

    any update how did it go haha ?

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    8 months ago

    give him the old "roll the tongue around the wet lips" sign, it always worked on me, then you might get his wet lips around yours (pun intended).

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    8 months ago

    Rooting in the toilet.

    She won’t get banned.

    But he will.

  • Washere76

    Washere76

    8 months ago

    Smile at him regularly

  • bigwhereitcounts

    bigwhereitcounts

    8 months ago

    Possibly he is taken and respectful of his relationship but there is every chance if you are both making eyes at each other he is wondering if you are a better choice. Maybe he is shy / a little awkward and doesn’t want to make the first move. All I would say to you is approach him and let him know somehow. “Are we just going to make eyes at each other or are you going to ask me out.?” He will then have the chance to tell you if he is in a relationship, gay or otherwise not available. Most guys in that situation would take longer than you would seem to like in this situation to build up the courage to ask you.

  • Pumpkin

    Pumpkin

    7 months ago

    You could, like, get your BFF to ask his crew if he, like, you know .... likes you or something....then you could be all, like Errr Mah Godd!! Then you could see if he wants to meet you behind the bike sheds... nah joking......................................... next time you lock eyes, smile, approach, nod you head in the direction of the change rooms and say wanna um? In my experience men are often not great at subtle.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 months ago

    RDLs right infront of him ;)

  • justthebest18

    justthebest18

    7 months ago

    Come on. I see only a thumbnail-size photo, but you are obviously an attractive young woman. You attend gym, so you are probably in good shape. I'm struggling to understand what might prevent you from catching the eye of / engaging in conversation with / enjoying the undivided attention of any heterosexual male attending that gym. A smile is always a reliable ice-breaker. Try "How's your workout going today?"
    I get the feeling you might be short on self-confidence. He might pick up on that if the two of you get close enough to chat. And nothing is going to confuse an amorous male, already cautious and full of doubt, than mixed messages emanating from the object of his desire.

  • ZenLover

    ZenLover

    5 months ago

    Subtle: Lock eyes, then tilt your head and cross your eyes with your tongue out to the side of your smile.
    Direct: Flex your index finger to say, "Come here", with a little smile.
    Clearer: Wave a hotel key at him. Skip toilet.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 months ago

    There is no guy in history that wouldn't get a kick out of a compliment or a kind word. In terms of where to from there, women have all the power. That would be pretty high up on the bucket list for a lot of guys, you just have to work out whether it is for him. If you are subtle, he probably will be as well, if you are not, he probably won't be. Good luck, and I hope that you get what you want!

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 months ago

    Just go and ask him for his number. Life it hard by itself. don't make it more complicated for yourself.

  • EndlessSummer85

    EndlessSummer85

    3 months ago

    A nice smile goes a long way , unfortunately women don’t seem to ever flirt

  • Gregidge635

    Gregidge635

    3 months ago

    Next time he looks at you act like your trying to lick an ice cream don’t hold your hand like your actually holding the ice cream just your tongue and a wink

  • cookiemonste

    cookiemonste

    a month ago

    Drop your snap on a piece of paper on his while he is doing a set and walk away

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    a month ago

    Just go and talk to him, most guys won't make the first move at the gym

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    a month ago

    Its funny cause guys, well older males like me perhaps, are also caught. I can say though with all the gym creep crap going on I know I am one who backs away a bit from conversation preferring the female to initiate. So I would so as many have said and ask for a spot and thank him but give him a slight flirt in finishing. Next time you are in then do the same but be a bit more forward and test the waters. If he is a red blooded male he will take the bait; if not he is gay or taken etc.