Experience in RHP

April 16 2024

Since this is more of a liberal dating app, I guess most people are on the extroverted side. My question is, for those who aren't, how did you do to go out to your first meetings? Impressions, what were your expectations?.
Honestly, I just got the app and am thinking of what would be the best scenario, and all I can think is just vanilla. Any recommendations or experiences you want to share with me?


  • NeoAndTrin


    3 months ago

    You have to do what feels most comfortable for you. If you go into something saying "anything goes!" and they want to peg you and you say ok and then you don't like the experience then it's not going to end well.

    We can't tell you what you're comfortable with.

  • nightingale8


    3 months ago

    Nothing wrong with vanilla!
    Besides, women prefer if you’re into them because you’re attracted to her rather than a fantasy scenario you want to fulfil. That’s the next step after finding someone (if not a couple).

    Worst thing you can do is chase after a fantasy and then bail at the last minute because you’re not that into it, leaving the other partner(s) high and dry. Ok actually worst for you is to have a head full of fantasies and none of them met, not knowing a subscription won’t buy you sex/experiences. Ok ok plenty worst things can happen but you get my point, I’m going with averages.

    Hang around in the forums and you’ll be amused what is possible.

    I’ll start with one,
    Cumming in two ladies in one load (partner’s favourite. He’s an introvert lol)

  • RachWandered


    3 months ago

    Rhp is actually meant to be a safe sex positive space for everyone
    Not just extroverts or kinksters
    I sent a pic of the “about red hot pie” page to someone the other day when they were frustrated that women wanted to connect and talk and told me rhp was just for sex …
    Read that page
    It’s good
    Basically this is a safe place for everyone to be uniquely who they want to be
    I’m an introvert
    I have a lot of sex
    I do this awkwardly and unselfconsciously
    I’m just myself
    Not much help I’m afraid but you just got to do you and find people who also want to do you
    Good luck x

  • RachWandered


    3 months ago

    I don’t know what people mean by vanilla
    It’s all so subjective and unique
    Personally I hold the snobby opinion that people who say they aren’t into vanilla mustn’t like sex
    Just be yourself and I think @nightingale8 was totally on point… better to be real and into a woman than to chase a fantasy …
    I’ll shush now

  • Ex007


    3 months ago

    I'm an introvert and find RHP a good place. It was amazing a few years ago which I’m hoping it gets back to.

  • boobsandbusted


    3 months ago

    Plenty of swinging introverts here and in the wild .prolly many more than you would think,people just assume if your smiling and polite your not inteaverted , or if your not smiling that’s shitty tag resting bitch face comes out ,either way not just extroverts play this game

    And adding to a previous post ,OMG a friend of our copped a massive load straight to her eyeball , man oh man her eye swelled up and was beetroot red and hidious ,,was only fun y cos it wasn’t Mrs b ,lol

  • MsSuperFoxy


    3 months ago

    I'm an introvert and still remember going to my first club. I went with a female friend. My eyes saw things, I wish to never see again.
    Hasn't stop me from going again.

    Ms Foxy

  • Winemedineme69w


    3 months ago

    I'm basically a shy person. Very self conscious and not good in crowds. It took a while to settle in but after some time I realised you can be whoever you want to be. No one here knows you.
    I took stock of myself mentally and let the deeply repressed hornbag out. Until you understand that you are your worst enemy and free yourself of the things that hold you back, you'll never enjoy your full potential.
    It takes a lot of will power but the fun you've been denying yourself is amazing.