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MMF Threesome: What it's like for a woman.Naomi always fantasised about bedding two guys – this is what happened when she did.

Rebecca Daniels | May 25 2020

MMF Threesome: What it's like for a woman.

Naomi always fantasised about bedding two guys – this is what happened when she did.

When I was in a four-year relationship, my partner and I often discussed having a threesome. His fantasy involved bringing another woman into our bed, while mine was bringing another man. 

If sexuality is on a spectrum, I'm at the 100 per cent straight end of it; women never interested me. Hence, neither of us wanted to partake in the other's fantasy, so it never got beyond dirty talking in bed to get each other off.

However, sometimes when I masturbated the quickest way to orgasm was imagining myself sexually ravished by two guys. 

Then my ex-boyfriend decided to take another woman into our bed, just without me in it.

After we broke up in 2015, I was drinking too much, partying too hard and having heaps of sex. It felt as if I wanted to fuck my ex and his betrayal out of my system. It's interesting when you start having lots of different partners, your boundaries change, and you become more open to broadening your sexual experience. 

I was single, I was free, so I decided to fulfil my long-held fantasy of sleeping with two guys at the same time. 

But the problem was: How do you find the guys? 

It felt too weird talking about it with a guy I'd slept with, and I couldn't imagine asking a guy in my wider social circle, in case word got out.

I know girlfriends that have had female, female, male (FFM) threesomes, but there is still a certain stigma about having sex with two guys. Women automatically think of double teaming footballers and spit roasts. It's as if the guys are taking advantage of you even if it's you who wants it just as much. The only person I told about my desires was a friend from my university days. Siobhan has always been out there sexually and attended underground fetish parties. She took me to a private party in a warehouse, but it was either people into being tied up, spanked or whipped, or couples looking for what they call a 'unicorn' - a single girl to take home. I didn't meet one single guy there, let alone two.

Taking the search online 

After that experience, I decided my best bet was to look online. I joined two sex-specific sites - adultfriendfinder.com and redhotpie.com. On my profile, I put it out there that I was interested in participating in a respectful MMF threesome with two hot heterosexual guys. It may seem selfish, but I didn't want bisexual guys as I wanted to be the centre of attention.

Lots of hetero couples got in touch, trying to tempt me into their bedrooms. I got bombarded with messages from single guys saying they'd be being the third person if I could find another guy. Then there were lots of men who said they were up for it, but they didn't fulfil the fantasy of two "hot" guys.

And then, my white knight(s) emerged 

Weeks later, I got a message from a guy with a smooth, cut torso as his profile pic. He said that he and his best friend were very experienced in MMF threesomes. He stated they didn't touch each other. It was all about focusing on the girl and giving her as much pleasure as physically possible. My interest pricked, we started messaging back and forth.

His name was Ben. He explained that he and his best mate Adam already had five threesomes under their belt. They were both 32. Eventually Ben sent me a shot of their faces. They were presentable looking guys with the kind of haircuts that looked as if they were professionals that worked in offices - which they were. I wouldn't say they were hot, but they were attractive enough to be sexy. 

It took about three weeks of chatting until we arranged to meet in a bar under the proviso that if anybody (ie me) didn't want to go through with it, that it was entirely okay to leave.

Ben reassured me by saying I should think of it as meeting a couple of mates in the pub. If there was a vibe, then we could think about acting upon it that night, or even at another time.


Fantasy becoming reality

As I got ready, I felt sick with nerves. I gave Siobhan all the details in case anything happened. I didn't want to look too sexy, so I wore a simple pretty summer dress and low heeled sandals, but I wore a set of pretty lingerie beneath.

The boys were at a table, drinks in hand when I walked in. I remember feeling my heart thudding in my chest as I walked over to them. However, I knew before I'd even sat down that the fantasy was going to become a reality. It was like going on a Tinder date but with two guys. They were both so attentive and bought a couple of rounds of drinks. We talked about our jobs, the cost of living in Sydney before the conversation shifted to sex.I told them my boundaries. I wanted to take it slowly and for it to be sensual. I didn't want any rough sex as I found that idea too scary with two guys and I wasn't into anything anal.

Adam said if I felt uncomfortable with anything, I just had to say. 

Heading back to their place 

After a couple of hours, I felt comfortable enough with them to take a cab back to Adam's place as he lived alone in a one bedroom apartment. On the way, they both stroked my inner thigh through my dress. I don't think I've ever felt hornier at the thought of sex than at that moment.

As soon as we got in the door, we started making out. Ben was more physically attractive, but as soon as I kissed Adam, he was the one that turned me on more. We had some serious chemistry. Soon, we all ended up half-naked on the sofa. Both boys were sucking my nipples.

There was something powerful in holding two dicks in my hands at the same time. Then Adam slowly started fingering me. As I lay there between them, it was like having sex in stereo. I had two mouths, two pairs of hands all over my body, two horny sexy guys focusing entirely on me.

Adam lifted up my skirt and went down on me as I gave Ben a blowjob. Weirdly, the whole experience felt pretty natural. Then I had intercourse with Ben and he came within minutes. I was a little shocked, but Adam took over. Then Ben was rubbing my clit as Adam was inside me. I kept my eyes open watching them, as I got off on the experience then I'd close my eyes and focus on the sensation.

That was the first time I came, then Adam came soon after, before Ben was hard again and entered me. During the session, we'd stop, chat, have a drink then sex would start again. Sometimes one of the boys would take a break and just watch. It went on like this for about three hours until Ben left because he had work the next day. 


Then something really surprising happened 

Adam and I had sex again. I ended up staying the night with him, and after that, we saw practically other every day for about a month.

There was never any mention of getting Ben involved again. Our ongoing sexual relationship caused problems because, in Ben's mind, it should have been just a one-off experience. Eventually, Adam and I stopped seeing each other because it was pretty evident that besides having sexual chemistry, we were very different people. 

I wouldn't tell a future partner that I had an MMF threesome because on some level, I know I'd be judged. 

While I'm glad, I got to live out the fantasy I haven't sought out another. If it happened naturally, I'd do it again. Until then I have the memories to get me off. 

Source: bodyandsoul.com.au

Have you tried an MMF threesome? How was it for you? If not, would you try it? Tell us below in the comments!

Comments

  • MFMHotWife

    17 Aug 2023

    We do it regularly! I absolutely love seeing and particularly hearing my wife being pleasured! Sure is a bunch of fun. Had scores of MFM, a few MMMF, and a few more nights with more M's. Mrs Hotwife seems to enjoy the extra attention!

  • redhotozz

    07 Feb 2021

    Start mixing with the right kind of swingers party crowd you'll find more non judgemental ppl

  • badage

    25 Jan 2021

    MFMF or FFM would be Good 😋

  • Castlereadyplay

    02 Jan 2021

    sounds hot reading your adventure. its always been a fantasy I've had but I'd like bi males or atleast willing to touch each other as well as me. my bf now has agreed he would be interested but its finding the right guy.

  • kingfisher

    06 Dec 2020

    Any one available in melbourne

  • Jackson1811

    06 Aug 2020

    Similar to johnnynseca’s experience, we found it incredibly frustrating to find an eligible guy. They’d either turn out to be self centred arse holes or stand us up / chicken out last minute. The opportunity presented itself with the husband of a couple we’ve been seeing for a few months. Really lovely couple, very respectful. The mrs had played alone with them a few times while I was at work so while his wife was away we took the opportunity to fulfil our desire of the mmf threesome. And it was worth the wait. Not having a second woman to focus on meant she got to try things that either don’t happen or feel awkward when there’s extras. Couples will always be our preference but when one of the group is missing, for us we feel it shouldn’t prevent everyone else from having fun.

  • jonnynseka

    26 Jul 2020

    Well we're a couple that have had just ONE mmf threeway - the amount of time (years) looking and energy spent (and wasted) trying to find the right guy to join us was exhausting. We finally settled for slightly less in looks department because of sheer frustration and it was fantastic in every way. We both loved it equally! He loved watching me suck our guests cock, me sitting on his face saying all sorts of dirty things and of course All the things and positions three horny adults could do, we did. Only thing is now we're hooked and we are back to looking for that elusive third and living in Perth makes it even harder again argh!! Will we find what we're looking for? Maybe some here could help?😉

  • ukexpat1981

    22 Jul 2020

    Hi any girls or couples in Sydney looking for mmf. Happy for straight or bi mmf. Hit me up if I can be if interest

  • SxcLex1

    22 Jun 2020

    I must admit it has been on my Fucket List for sometime but just just like she wrote Where 2 Even start lol I mean it’s hard enough finding one little own 2 sxc assed playmates that make it sxc and erotic NOT a tagteam ex Gag fest 🤔 Maybe this Sassy 🦄 needs to start ✔️ off her own list 😝🍆🍆💦

  • Naughtydouble

    20 Jun 2020

    Would have to say as two professional guys we find it perfect for us we don’t have time for a relation ship so with two less chance of attachment and while most guys fancy 2 women women also have the same thoughts IF ITS SOMETHING YOU ARE CONSIDERING the guys must be comfortable together you get that right and you ll have an amazing time ENJOY

  • Funshine2018

    20 Jun 2020

    I am a little nervous but looking forward to another male joining us so I can be that centre of attention. My partner is open to the idea and given me the green light.. Now the search.....

  • kiwihoneygirlie

    15 Jun 2020

    I want what she had...;)

  • Poly666

    15 Jun 2020

    I love it, especially bi MMF...it's the absolute best 😍

  • mjg1985

    09 Jun 2020

    Pretty new to this. Would love to hear from a MF couple interested in some bi play. Have a couple of drinks, get naked see where it goes.

  • bigew

    08 Jun 2020

    Sexy story. Loved our MFM experiences

  • SandeGiny

    07 Jun 2020

    This is a long term fantasy of mine MFM and MMF. Guys, read my bio and if you're keen, hit me up!

  • XBonnieClydeX

    07 Jun 2020

    We indulge in MFM on a regular basis. It's our favourite combination of play.

  • Subaquatic69

    05 Jun 2020

    Great article. We are loving the MFM life at the moment. A lot of our fun starts at the pub/club or often just in public. Adds a new dimension.

  • AandA26

    03 Jun 2020

    lets be clear MMF is with bi guys and MFM is not, seems people get confused on this.

  • realcpl4funBris

    03 Jun 2020

    We’ve had a few experiences now & every time is different, some memorable & not so memorable occasions but love the thrill & excitement each time

  • Mark05201674

    03 Jun 2020

    If its mmf finding out what kind of fantasy she wants would help .it can be great fun with the write people

  • ThickandDom

    02 Jun 2020

    Depends upon individuals. Women/couples enjoy. I am available for it only... Perth folks... where are Ya?

  • BinChicken187

    31 May 2020

    Done it and it's been amazing, also not so good. Depends on the dynamic really I believe, keen to find another couple where it fits though 😅 male unicorn 🤷‍♂️🙋‍♂️

  • Naughty1

    31 May 2020

    I’m looking to join some open minded couples for 3som fun I’m first timers open to play with both anything what you want I’m going to having with you

  • Bushtwo

    30 May 2020

    We are regulars in mmf with double pussy being our passion. And of course she LOVES being the centre of attention.

  • livelifegohard

    29 May 2020

    I don’t judge people so don’t judge yourself if you feel good about what you want to experience. I have this philosophy “It’s none of me business what others think of me” Enjoy your journey xo

  • CEkingCouples

    29 May 2020

    Great story! I've always been keen to have a MMF threesome. Mr is straight and not interested in being involved but happy for it to happen. After ready this story it's certainly on top of my list!

  • wanttotry3some

    29 May 2020

    We’ve enjoyed it a couple of times, the difficulty is finding that guy that lives up to the fantasy (whatever that might be on the particular occasion), knows that it’s about the females fantasy not his, can perform and most importantly can be watched.....because that’s what the male half loves 😉. Hopefully we’ll experience again!!

  • TinkerTailor

    29 May 2020

    We have had multiple MMF seshs we prefer them to FFM as female is the centre of attention. We have tried the Bi MMF experience, but do find most Bi guys on RHP to be subs where we want a Dom/Switch type.. so hard to find the right combinations.. However we always seems to have fun

  • Brodie_jemimah

    28 May 2020

    Its even funner when you get to watch your partner do mmf ;)

  • archandrews

    28 May 2020

    Fucket list has a bi mfmf foursome... wonder if anyone has experience and can give sone tips.

  • kamasitar

    28 May 2020

    it’s beautiful 😘

  • Funshine2018

    28 May 2020

    It is one of my fantasies to be with two guys. Can't seem to find a third person who put put in a decent conversation for us to determine if he is the one. I would love to be the centre of attention . I also like cowboy.

  • EuroGent4U

    27 May 2020

    MFM threesomes are amazing, FMF threesomes are amazing, but it matters that theres chemistry, attraction and fun!!! Havent had a bad one yet

  • Natgus7

    27 May 2020

    Getting another female for a threesome is non existent. Its like its ok for a MFM but it not ok for woman to be FMF. It really frustrating if you enjoy both sexes. Guys are just more open to experimental sex and games. Women need to stop believing they can not be in control!!😈

  • Happy_and_H0rny

    27 May 2020

    Love the experience. It was never a fantasy of mine until I met Mr HappyandHorny. I’m bi and always enjoyed the experience of the extra F. Now, when we find the right M, I can’t get enough. It’s certainly a fun-filled, hot and steamy night for all 😈 Mrs HappyandHorny

  • Coupleforsin

    27 May 2020

    Hubby and I have had two MFM experiences that were irregular catch ups with the same guys. Never At the same time and always the same guy until one or the other had other commitments. We always play as a couple, as neither of us are interested in anything that may turn out complicated. Hubby is straight and has told me that nothing is more sexy than to see me cumming on another guys cock. He joins and watches, but I do share the writers thoughts about the fantasy of having two guys. We have had FMF catch ups and they were dreamy too, but there’s just something amazing about having hubby and a well hung attractive guy play with us. One comment about not having anal, being DPed is amazing. Actually having hubby and another making me the centre of attention is bliss. No jealously, no outside the bedroom contact and being very discrete is workable. Sometimes the reality is better than the fantasy. Just have to find the right guys. They’re out there. Enjoy

  • Naughty1

    27 May 2020

    Im love to join some couples to hawing 3som fun for my first timer anything hapens im open minded to trayng anything

  • N4November

    26 May 2020

    My all time favourite way to play is a bi mmf!! Sexy af

  • FitCouplexxx

    26 May 2020

    We have had several and want more great Experience.

  • dadshotdick11

    26 May 2020

    Me and my old house mate use to make it a thing! We had 7 MMF scenarios and 1 MMFF foursome. Me and My housemate never touched each other, just like the pleasure of opening the minds of innocent women into a whole new level of intermacy! There were a couple that came back for another round and it always finished with everyone Cumming and having a beet after it! Was never awkward! Done MMMF gang bangs and they were always fun! Never had the pleasure of having a FFM threesome though! Deffinetly would love to pleasure multiple women at the same time!

  • SilverValentina

    26 May 2020

    My fantasy was always to have an FMF, but it's actually hard work for the guy to satisfy 2 women. When I tryed MFM, WOW there's no words to describe how much I loved ♥️ every minute of it, & there's no going back to FMF now. 🥳 MFM is absolutely my favorite thing to indulge in. I love having the full attention of 2 men at once,🎉 & they love it just as much as me. Believe me lady's, 1 men as fun but 2 will blow you're mind. 💃

  • bushcouple69

    26 May 2020

    We have had 4 MMF threesomes 2 planed and 2 not planed and the 2 not planed where the best by far Also had 1 FMF that was fun as well

  • RuffNRugged

    26 May 2020

    The stories on here lately are 🔥🔥 Had plenty of MMF experinces. But have always wanted to experience FFM.

  • maroochyBIcouple

    26 May 2020

    We love them 😈😈😈

  • KinkyBx

    26 May 2020

    This is something Im hanging to do, Have before but many moons ago, it wasnt the best and wasnt really my fantasy being fulfilled.. just gotta find the right men 😉

  • ClassyWife4men

    26 May 2020

    we love to play with another guy or even better 2 or 3. makes for a great night and every one gets to feel satisfied and completely fucked. always a good time

  • teamaj2

    26 May 2020

    MMF /MFM we love the entire experience. Obviously it relies on all three having a certain amount of chemistry, all three being aware of boundaries, being all inclusive , relaxed and having a sense of fun . So glad we took the leap of faith and explored .

  • curiousnhorny05

    26 May 2020

    By far one of my mosf favourite experiences. Being spitroasted is something amazing for sure.

  • softride

    25 May 2020

    MMF when everyone is in sync it is my favourite play time. Lots of fun and exploring of bodies a sensations.