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Couple Seeking Single Bi GirlA threesome consisting of two sexy girls and one very lucky guy is the ultimate fantasy for a good number of...

Alison Cox | July 20 2022

Couple Seeking Single Bi Girl

A threesome consisting of two sexy girls and one very lucky guy is the ultimate fantasy for a good number of couples on RedHotPie. For some, it is the only form of fun they are looking for. Unfortunately for many, what could be the most common couple fantasy is possibly the most difficult to realise. We look at why this is the case, as well as why couples want that coveted single girl. We’ll also suggest ways to make that fantasy a reality based on the real-life experiences of RHP couples who have successfully enjoyed FFM threesomes.

Why Do We Want Ms Single?

Three is fun but isn’t four even more so? In which case, shouldn’t a couple just meet other couples for fun? It certainly is easier to arrange foursome fun but some couples simply want to reserve their bedroom for themselves and Ms Single.

It may be because the presence of another male in the bedroom repels the male partner of the couple. This reluctance can stem from his discomfort with another male being in close proximity during a sexual scenario, or it can arise from jealousy he feels at the thought of his partner being touched or even seen naked by another man. Conversely, it may be the female partner who has no desire at all to be sexually involved with a man other than her own partner, and is only seeking an FMF to fulfill her bisexual leanings.

For couples who are new to the idea of introducing extra people into their sex lives, an FMF threesome is often viewed as being the safe, or soft option, before gaining the confidence to progress to couples and single men. For some others, they just purely want to experience the hot intimacy of a threesome, be it an FMF or MFM. In Kylie’s case:

”I didn’t have anything against meeting couples but I am definitely more into girls than guys so I loved the idea of having a single girl over just for me to focus on, knowing my partner was the only guy around and I could tell him when and how he could join in. It took me a while to meet a girl but once I did, it was amazing.”

Impossible Dream?
It probably wouldn’t be an exaggeration to say that for every actively participating single girl, there would be at least twenty couples looking for her. Why single girls are few and far between is simply answered by placing yourself in their shoes. If you were a single female, would you be willing to place yourself in a vulnerable situation with two strangers? Have a think about what you’re also asking from her: sex with one or both of you (preferably both) with no strings attached. It can be more than a little daunting for a lot of single ladies.

Also, it takes a woman who fantasises about being a ‘toy’ for a couple to consider a meeting, and more importantly, a whole lot of courage to go ahead with it. Take Tricia and Brad’s experience:

“Brad and I contacted a single girl called Janine who sounded hot. She was keen to be pampered and pleasured by two people and had no obvious hang-ups about sex. After swapping photos, we arranged to meet over coffee one afternoon. Just girls. The meeting went well so she agreed to come over to our place on the following weekend. Janine sounded excited about it right up until the night she was supposed to come over. But then, we got a text message from her saying that she couldn’t come around because of some problem with her car.”

After a lot of questioning by Tricia, Janine admitted that she was highly aroused by the idea of being in a threesome but as the reality dawned on her, it wasn’t something that she felt completely right about. Tricia and Brad’s experience is not unusual and not surprisingly, it leaves many people frustrated and suspicious of other single females supposedly looking for a good time.

When You Least Expect It

The key issue seems to be the fact that when faced with the potential pressure of an organised a threesome, many people (not only single females) find it easier to not go all the way. It is therefore not surprising at all that many successful threesomes occur spontaneously with people a couple may have met prior to the event socially, which is what happened with Jo and Paul.

“Jo and I were at a wedding some time ago and we ran into an old school friend of Jo’s. I remember Jo enjoying the flirty catch-up and swapping numbers. She got a text from her a few nights later saying she was bored so Jo suggested she come over. Add a bottle of wine to that and the rest is history ”

How to Find Ms Single

We’ll assume that most couples don’t conveniently have a female flat mate/best friend/co-worker who they can get into a spontaneous threesome with. Naturally, if you do know someone who might be interested, then you can always investigate the possibility as long as your suggestions won’t cause offence.

For those who don’t know where to start, then RedHotPie is the best place to start. Many women are listed as seeking couples. If you’re replying to an ad, be mindful that you probably won’t be the first person to approach this single girl. Be friendly and honest about what you’re seeking, and with any luck, Ms Single will drop you a line back.
Parties and Events posted on RHP are also a great way to meet single ladies. Many girls enjoy a fun night out as a group so this could be the perfect opportunity for the female partner of a couple to mingle with singles. Get ready to jot down phone numbers! Alternatively, even if meeting couples is not the preferred option, it is still a good idea to network with other couples who may have a number of single girlfriends who are seeking to expand their circle of play friends. Finally, it is not uncommon for many couples who have formed close friendships to organise threesomes amongst themselves. Says Dean:

”My fiancee Emma hates being on her own while I am away overseas for work so when she told me that our swinging friends Mark and Michelle invited her for dinner one night (and they meant just dinner), I told her to go over on her own and get her own little party started. I trust Mark and Michelle so knew Emma would be in good hands. I got a huge hard on thinking about her being the centre of attention.”

What Is Ms Single Looking For?

It’s probably very important to consider the things that a single female is looking for in a couple. Since she has a fairly good selection of couples to choose from, it’s important to make your first impression last so you stand out from the rest.
A single female who is largely looking to explore her bisexuality probably won’t be too concerned about how the male partner looks (although I am sure she would like him to be a respectful, friendly person at least) in which case it is really up to the female partner to build a rapport with Ms Single. If there is a good amount of attraction between the two, there’s a good chance things will lead to a meeting and the rest can be worked out from there. Do keep in mind however that some single girls are not looking to play with the male partner of a couple at all but is happy for him to be present while she gets it on with the female partner. If this suits you as a couple, then it’s a win/win situation!
For couples who are ideally seeking a single female who wants to devour both partners sexually, you are in for some hard work. Without mincing words, unless Ms Single has an overwhelming attraction to one or both of you, she will happily move on to the next couple that approaches her for assessment. Take Nina’s experience:

”I was getting to know a couple on RHP with view to meeting up for coffee but without sounding shallow, I took one look at the guy and couldn’t go through with it. The girl from the couple was awesomely hot but other than her man being not my type, he also came across as an arrogant macho pig who wanted two women to pleasure him. I offered to meet her on her own or perhaps play while he watched but they didn’t want that. In the end I ended up meeting a couple who were less fixated on the threesome and treated me more like a friend.”
Try and be balanced in your approach with single girls. Do make an effort to find out what she is after from the beginning rather than try and sway her into your ideal threesome plans. Single girls also appreciate confident, friendly couples who don’t reek of desperation (yes, this seems to happen with couples as much as guys). Especially if she is new to meeting couples, she would feel more comfortable being guided gently by people who want to be her friend, rather than prodded and pushed like a play thing.

Are you a single female seeking couples? Or a couple seeking a single female? How have your experiences been so far? Let us know below in the comments!


  • KittyBare

    15 Dec 2023

    I'd love to become a unicorn. I've chatted with many couples but nothing's progressed to date. I'm sure it'd be a different outcome if I lived in a capital city. Interestingly, it's usually the woman who's bi-curious and keen to explore yet it's the man doing most of the messaging.

  • jacqu69

    10 Aug 2023

    A bi couple here like to meet a bi female to pleasure at our hotel all our shout contact direct and lets get naughty

  • Letsgetfreaky273

    16 Apr 2023

    Couples looking for a male to join hit me up only a message away

  • LiL_Miss

    30 Mar 2023

    Couple looking for 3rd female to join the party tonight! 🥳

  • Juicylips69

    24 Mar 2023

    I’m looking for a woman that can join me and my FWB guy in the bedroom I’m from Perth

  • U4us4fun

    20 Mar 2023

    Hi we are pretty new and looking for a female to join us in the bedroom as a female l love what a extra female can add to the bedroom I am so turned on by the sexy female body and touch

  • HN7877

    17 Mar 2023

    Melbourne couple here looking for more then just a ons. Something ongoing where we could all get the best out of each other. We are 2 givers and no one gets left behind !!

  • SydkinkyCpl

    15 Mar 2023

    we are a couple from Sydney, seeking another female to join us for abit of threesome fun, or if she's not upto it just girl on girl play is fine also. hit us up any girls seeking the same thing :)

  • DIVA123

    14 Mar 2023

    Hi We are indian couple 37/34 new here. Looking for another like minded couple. Prefer are from Newcastle or nearby Hornsby. We can host.

  • bhumru11

    13 Mar 2023

    Couple from sydney we are looking for a female to join us we can hosting or travel whatever’s ur choice 🫶🏻

  • KaarajKiran

    12 Mar 2023

    We are also looking for out third partner preferably a Female we are located in Sydney 😍

  • HiddenVixen

    04 Mar 2023

    I’m a 🦄 and I have a real focus on communication. I need to feel like they are a team, adore each other and I’m am the extra. I want my presence to be a bonus, I don’t want to be there causing discomfort or angst. I want the woman to desire me equally or more so than the man.

  • Llovic

    27 Feb 2023

    I'm a single horny female that love being with other people. I'm located in Newcastle if anyone is interested

  • couplefun30s

    10 Feb 2023

    I’ve been a 🦄

  • CRM1422

    09 Sep 2022

    Beenleigh/Eagleby area couple M32/F30 looking to have another female in the bedroom with us

  • PreferRach

    24 Aug 2022

    Perth WA We are a very new couple but both really want this in our relationship so we are going forward wanting to bring a beautiful lady into our life straight up for me when he works away but to indulge further when all together. We are both very sensual and respectful. I’m starting to wonder if this is going to be more difficult then I thought

  • SandeGiny

    15 Aug 2022

    "You're a present". Wow. What a garbage person.

  • SandeGiny

    15 Aug 2022

    Single bi chick here. I agree: it's a huuuuuuge turn off when the guy just expects that FFM = 2 women please him. Realistically, it's the other way around - FFM = 2 women for HIM to please. Personally, I'm initially attracted to women as well, so the husband's involvement is based on a) MY comfort and b) HER comfort before any schlongs come near me. I generally won't bother playing with couples unless mutual satisfaction for ALL is ensured. Nobody wants a disappointing experience, and I certainly don't want to waste my time if I'm not going to enjoy myself. And then there's the flipside of the coin... As a single woman, I'm still yet to experience MFM/MMF. Nothing turns me on more than the though of 2 men high fiving while they spit roast me 🤤 That's GirlLogic for you: "Don't treat me like a piece of meat unless I ask you to." LOL

  • Becandgrant

    07 Aug 2022

    Looking for a unicorn to play around with and ride to find mind blowing rainbows that we all dream of euphoria

  • Greeneyedcypriot

    07 Aug 2022

    Same seeking two single by girls are there any around?

  • Greeneyedcypriot

    07 Aug 2022

    Same here

  • 2freakznz

    31 Jul 2022

    We are looking for a unicorn 🦄🦄 M41 F26 brisbane. Message us x

  • tempygirlforme

    30 Jul 2022

    Great article.. Yes the joys of being BI and being in a long term committed relationship. I’ve meet and had some amazing times and friendships with the some amazing women. They are a true rarity.. Can’t wait to meet another, BI friend..

  • sexylilly

    26 Jul 2022

    I am in Melbourne looking to meet a couple , I’m 49 and curvy bi curious

  • bonnienclyde74

    25 Jul 2022

    Hello I'd love to show U some of my dance moves so let's chat

  • Dani_dee

    23 Jul 2022

    I am a unicorn and I really enjoy the company of couples! They are so much fun, and I love how we can all please each other. For couple wondering why unicorns don’t always respond, I Receive about 80 messages a week. So it’s impossible. Enjoy the search unicorns are out there! xx

  • Bigpenist

    23 Jul 2022

    So true

  • NoVanillaHereOK

    23 Jul 2022

    Enjoyed every one and bit of my experiences as bi sexual unicorn. Love the role of seducing someone else's godess. Always ask, talk and plan if possible some of the expectations all involved have. Permission help from the start. Raise anything your not keen to see happen and most of all The Unicorn is not your slave she is your guest and is very eager to help, support and fulfil most fantasies most couples have as long as there is open communication, set rules and the couple have really thought about how the experience should be for both, what they don't want the other to do or maybe see. I'm a very open Unicorn and can switch roles at anytime and can be spontaneous as long as everyone is on the same page.

  • Hellbunny

    22 Jul 2022

    Being a single girl ( Unicorn!) myself, it's simply not that easy to meet two guys keen on a 3 sum... Most guys are keen but when it comes to meeting they either cancel or find it difficult to keep an erection... Any tips?

  • GorgeousGirl

    22 Jul 2022

    I too, am an elusive and rare Unicorn! There are so many choices and you are slammed with so many messages/requests that I prefer to meet a couple at a group/party and see if we click. We all have to be on the same page and want the same things!

  • Boolama

    21 Jul 2022

    Wow this was a great read and I’ve pretty much definitely experienced all this from a single girls POV!

  • wanderlustQLD

    21 Jul 2022

    Speaking as one of those elusive unicorns, I totally prefer to meet couples at social events rather than through RHP chatting. There's nothing worse than when they're not both 💯 on the same page and doing it for all the shared fun. It's usually pretty easy to pick up on that vibe when it's a social scene and you spend some time together first. Through RHP, I've also experienced being approached by a number of couples that seemed to be treating me like I am providing them with a 'service' rather than we're all equally looking for shared fun. Which is really uncool. As an aside, meeting at socials is also more effective for me bc so many MF couple profiles either omit or barely include photos of the M half.

  • YouandIletsplayx

    21 Jul 2022

    Excellent article!! X

  • eligiblejames

    20 Jul 2022

    Great article

  • classcoastcouple

    20 Jul 2022

    Such a good thought provoking article Alison. Single women or unicorns are definitely out there it's just that they have so many choices of couples. The ones we have been fortunate to meet are looking for more than just sex but a fun overall experience where they feel like they will be respected and treated exceptionally well. As they should be. The single women we have met tell us they prefer couples rather than single guys as they don't want the complication of a relationship, especially as quite often they have left an awful marriage. Couples can offer single women NSA fun while allowing them to explore their bisexuality while also having sex with the guy in a safe environment with another female present.