Why can't I find someone suitable on here?

October 24 2023

I've been on and off this site and I am close to quitting it once and for all.
I want to find a FWB but all I'm getting is guys that want me as a statistic on their "fuckit" list.
I haven't put any specifics on my profile because I am sure not all guys read them. But as I am writing this it sure wouldn't hurt.
I feel invisible on here.. and it hurts so much. Anyone got any ideas of what I can do? Ive finally reached an age that I can enjoy my life but I need a partner in crime...perhaps build a friendship that possibly can develop into more....m

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MrandMrsEss

1 month ago

If this place is making you feel bad about yourself then get off it right away. This is a very poor medium for meeting real life needs.
Most (not just single men) are here to fantasise or to up their stats. The ones that want more are few and far between and the likelihood of a match is quite improbable.
My advice, get out and do what you love and socialise for real then you’ll more likely meet people to satiate your needs.

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FeistyFatty

1 month ago

Sorry to hear you're not enjoying the site. Work on your profile,be specific. I find the more specific you are, the better. Maybe consider getting along to some events/meet and greets.

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Supernova

1 month ago

@FeistyFatty Nobody owes you anything™️

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FeistyFatty

1 month ago

@Supernova Yeah, and 🤷

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YouTarzanMeJane

1 month ago

I agree with FeistyFatty... Put more on your profile about yourself and what you're looking for - some guys do take the time to read.

You can also adjust your messenger settings so that only matches can send you a new message. It doesn't work if you've already chatted, they will still slip through... But there's the ignore button now which can come in handy if they persist. Or block.

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Pangoli28

1 month ago

I think sometimes we don't test potential lovers enough before meeting in some cases. But I definitely agree with MrandMrsEss. I have been here several times over the years used to be a paid member but with the amount of males here and being away from the city got next to nothing out of it. Loved the forums so that is why I came back. But I used to give myself three to six months maximum as I would begin to dislike women and question myself. Both utterly ridiculous. I would say emphasise friendship in your bio and hope it makes some difference

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teamaj2

1 month ago

@FeistyFatty I agree with Feisty. This site isn’t for everyone . Meet and greets I would agree would be worth a try . Good luck , I hope you find what you are searching for . A x

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MsSuperFoxy

1 month ago

Hello,
Sorry to hear.
As per FFF
Add a little more info in your Bio.
Best of luck

Ms Foxy

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MsSuperFoxy

1 month ago

@Supernova Have you anything positive in reply to the OP's original post?
I'm sure you do. I'd like to hear it in a new post. 🙏

Ms Foxy
Ps: You are right, FFF doesn't owe you a thing. ;)

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Beatfarmer

1 month ago

Hi there, best thing you can do is meet socially , if you can click there and have fun out hopefully you’ll be able to do the same in . There’s plenty of decent people here also plenty of others too , just have to weed them out , I have a friend here and see the messages she gets, some of them are obnoxious, hang in there you’ll be ok 👍

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Reno50

1 month ago

I have the exact same problem on RHP. I love your profile, please contact me if you like :)

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looking25

31 days ago

Hi SexyMadam64
I actually feel the same I’m looking for the same as you wrote in your profile. Hopefully people will give us a chance.
Xxxx

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energizerbunnyxx

20 days ago

This site is for people with high sex drive NOT people looking for love ❤️

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Oysterman

18 days ago

Tell people what YOU want from a potential lover. You are in the most fruitful time of your life and its a shame that you are not able to share social times with respectful, considerate men. In the fulness of time I'm sure you will enjoy discovering a suitable partner in crime that meets your standards

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Felicitous

17 days ago

@energizerbunnyxx That's absolutely not true!
People are on here for a variety of reasons seeking all kinds of different connections and experiences.

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