Impotent But Still Horny
August 13 2024
BUT .... still have same desires to want to give pleasure.
I believe there are lots of ways to pleasure a lady, without intercourse.
Just curious... are some women OK to seek being pleasued that way, or is havibg cock still important.
Just curious
Comments
NeoAndTrin
a month ago
That must be frustrating for you mate. Commiserations. I'm sure you can do things to work on getting it back though.
Like you I prefer to give pleasure than receive. Even to the extent that I don't care about my own orgasm. Had plenty up til this point so I'm happy to watch and provide...women can have so many.
I think the vast majority of women would be just disappointed they couldn't bring you to orgasm as opposed to just flat out wanting a raging boner from you. Good luck in your search for a woman that is happy to only receive...they're probably rarer than unicorns!
RHP User
a month ago
I'm sorry to hear that the surgery came with a risk. Kudos to you tho for not letting it affect you too much.
Id say many woman are of with out the cock. I'm sure many would of been at some stage too when cock was trying to dive in.
Sex is not just about the eggplant imploding in a juicy peach. Nothing more boring tbh. 😊
Gooduck.
FeistyFatty
a month ago
Thats sux. Sorry to hear that.
For me personally, I wouldn't enjoy all the focus at all. Never have, never will.
I like to make my husband (or playmates) cum as many times as they can...... Its like a reward.
boobsandbusted
a month ago
Cant add anything to much to help the subject matter ,except maybe group play might be a thing where the ladies have some fun with your skills then of for some dick if needed ,i wish you luck and good health in your future reguardless of sexy fun or not ,
Mr b
ElectricDreamers
a month ago
Maybe the kink scene is a better playground to find women whose desires lie outside of convention?
Sinfultease68
a month ago
So sorry to hear . Hopefully things improve for you . What your raised was a very important topic with ED and the like . I’m sure if you do some research you may come up with a solution
gazpacho
24 days ago
A host of people are hung up about penetration but frankly, all that heavy breathing is for the youngsters. There’s nothing attractive about daddy wheezing up a fur ball, am I right? We like to take our time, us older lovers.
Personally I’m not in the bit concerned about eating the sex crumbs off a hot horny woman that’s being shagged vigorously by a sweaty young stud.
I’m sure you’ll find your crowd.
Oh, and as they say in the film industry “honey, open your mind and your arse will follow” So he can bang her butt and stick it straight into yours.
Plain60
13 days ago
Know the disappointment, mine caused by anti depressant medications. Discovered after partner passed away and started dating again, a bit embarrassed about it, however been lucky to find ladies that like intense foreplay, oral, massage, gentle digital stimulation. So all is not lost, I have found being honest and up front about your issue is appreciated and you will be surprised. I am in process of changing meds that will help with libido, or confirm whether I am in that percentage of men that lose the ability naturally as part of aging.
Ellala
7 days ago
More common than you think. Lack of wood. Especially in men taking antidepressants.
As long as I know before things get hot and heavy thats part of the deal its ok. I will just have fabulous oral sex and plenty of erotic massages, please answer thankyou. And then be fucked by a dildo or vibe. Or course it’s different but better that, than shite oral
FantasyForfil
5 days ago
Hey there, firstly sorry to hear about your surgery. I’m F46 and I’m currently entertaining a 62yr old male who recently split with his wife and didn’t have much sex for well over 10 years. As such he too has ED. Although it’s been a challenge for him, it hasn’t for me. Don’t get me wrong I love sex and love a hard throbbing cock but there are most definitely other ways to please. I think for him, it does play on his mind pleasing me. I reassure him every time we meet up for a session that its no problem at all. In fact Im loving all the foreplay and various different toys/props we can use. He was worried I was going to never return but if you listen to your mates body and get guidance you can tease and please any which way. Just go with it and have fun. Knowing what they like and the art of building tension and teasing is the key to any good foreplay/sex. Most good lovers get off on pleasuring the other. If they’re selfish say goodbye. Enjoy 😄
Boards
Forum help
Something related with that
Going somewhere & want to hook up?
Hasn't that topic been posted before?
RHP's popular dating tool
Where the heck did that topic go?
Discover what RHP is doing offline
RHP member's RL secrets
reply
like
report