M45 F33
First mfm
November 23 2021
But we just don’t know how do you recommend from going from point A to B. How did you start the ball rolling of that makes scenes.
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RHP User
2 years ago
In my case I was the single person and absolutely bricking it. I had never done anything like it before and I was as nervous as a cat with two tails in a room full of rocking chairs.
I was thankful that the wife in the couple took the lead and started things of with a nerve settling kiss. Things just flowed naturally from there.
I’m sure everyone is different and every situation is different.
I’m hardly an old hand at it but my advice is to not overthink it and go with the flow and what feels right
Obi1kenietzsche
2 years ago
It would appear that one should now start with signed consent forms all round! 😳.
But that small matter aside, not everyone is experienced and not everyone just jumps right in.
In that case, how about each party arriving bearing a gift of the other parties’ favourite drink (sucks for the single guy if the couple like different drinks of course!).
Each party then prepares the other party their drink and presents it to them (very important), then everyone sits down in a circle (also important that it’s a circle mind) for a quick naughty game of “have you ever” whereupon every one gets a little insight into everyone else (as well as giving everyone ideas at the same time!).
Maybe a bit lamo these days I know, but it worked well when I was in Uni!
Xx Obi1
SpicyKale
2 years ago
The best way we’ve ever found to ease the nervous into it is a massage after a couple of quite drinks. Whatever you do don’t get wasted, it never ends well. It’s a simple way of doing it without overthinking things. Good luck
FeistyFatty
2 years ago
Don't overthink it for starters. A few drinks and let the rest unfold organically
teamaj2
2 years ago
Every situation is different . It can be a bit awkward or slow going if the chat doesn’t stop and it doesn’t move on into the bedroom .
I’m not that confident but I have been known to excuse myself and ‘slip into something more comfortable’. On returning things seem to move quite quickly .
Whilst enjoying a drink, you ( the couple ) could kiss passionately and the F could ask if he ( other M) would like a taste of the same . I’m sure things would progress nicely .
As has been said , try not to overthink how events will unfold . Hoping you have a sensational time . Good luck . AxRHP User
2 years ago
So we just experienced are first a few weeks ago ( was amazing). So the guy come over and we had a beer. Chatted for a little then it was all started by the Mrs when she was comfortable. She went out of the room and come back in with a sexy outfit on and ask if anyone wanted to join her in the bedroom. And that was it
NewVicCpl
2 years ago
We took the nerves off by meeting at a nice bar the first time, had a couple of drinks whilst we all chatted and got comfortable, then headed back to our place for a fun night with lots of sex.
lildick49
2 years ago
Are you devoting all your time to the woman or playing with the guy as well?
DonnaBrett
2 years ago
Just do it..don't overthink it. You all know why you're there...all that said, the women rule this scene so in the case of a MFM the lady should just take the bulls by the horns...so to speak ;)
lildick49
2 years ago
Hardest part is finding two guys who you can trust
HappyHedonist
2 years ago
In my experience one of the couple should take the lead as the single doesn't want to appear to be sexual aggressive if parties are unknown to each other.
Playf69l
2 years ago
Happening tonight for us. Love them especially if DP is involved
wombats
2 years ago
Make sure she is into it before you do it. Start with lots of talk about it. Maybe watch a 3 some porno and talk about it. Make sure you pick the right third person. Someone you both want to be with and make sure the guy is bi
2funtimes
2 years ago
My wife is the one to take the lead. After all it is up to her if she is comfortable with the guy. Normally takes them by the hand leads them to bedroom. I often leave them alone for a while so she can comfortable/guy naked and relaxed. Most times when i walk in she has the cock her 👄.... It starts from there. Goodluck
RHP User
2 years ago
It has to be one of the most enjoyable times I/we have experienced. The nerves and thoughts that we experienced prior to playing just added to the excitement. It seems there s plenty of good advise here. It s all about the lady who has to have the connection with the guest/s. Having an experienced guy. Couples reviews will help. Have a great time guys. Make those fantasies real...
RHP User
2 years ago
@nqcouple how was it ??
RHP User
2 years ago
I was in a mfm a few weeks ago. It was really cool that she just removed her top then got on her knees and said. What are you waiting for? About 3 seconds later she was very busy lol
ozmelbcpl4cpl2
2 years ago
Just get out of your comfort zone and just do it..what could go wrong right 😂
ozmelbcpl4cpl2
2 years ago
The only thing that most likely will not work is maybe other guy not going up
RHP User
2 years ago
I knew the couple. I was the single. A few drinks and a chat over how it will go. Then as the single i let the woman make the first move as she was very flirty. It flowed from there.
RHP User
2 years ago
It can be a bit daunting the 1st time you are with " the other guy" but if you just have a bit of a drink and a chat to break the ice then take things to the bedroom and there is just 1 leap... the kiss, once kissing things will lead to " a" "b" "c" "d" and more😜😋
naughtytintin
2 years ago
I’ve been a first for a few couples. As I totally respect the couples I meet and their dynamic I tend to hold back and wait for them to either make it clear that want me to do something or they choose to. So my suggestion is to either like said before as the make you have invited to give you a massage, or if you have the nerve approach him and give him a kiss or make it blatantly clear you want him to touch you. Play with the situation and the dynamics. A blind fold on him or the female. Have a agreed signal with your partner to come and kiss you or touch you as a show. A d/s touch would be to make him not move till you say he can!
Kate267
2 years ago
I have two now. I'm single, so finding two guys can be a juggle. The first time, the second guy walked in on me with my friend, put his child hand on my arse... (it was raining). Second time I honestly can't recall how it started but I do remember a lot of oral performed by me. If you are the woman in this scenario, I suggest taking the lead and asking for what you want. You are not there to service two men... Make sure you get what you want.
I don't drink, so drinking is not an option to start for me.
My fantasy start? Two men, all of us standing, one in front of me, one behind. Crowding me. Hands on tits and arse, kissing mouth, neck, feeling two hard cocks brushing up against me...
david0607
2 years ago
I found if, once you are settled in with a few drinks, if the male of the couple excuses himself to go off to the toilet for 5 minutes, by the time he gets back, the other guy will have made his move.
QueenAndHerMan
2 years ago
For us like so many before this comment, it just happened. We were sitting and having a drink and you could feel something in the air. We all know that sense one gets. My queen then made a comment about the other man wanting to touch her breasts. I smiled and gave consent. I trusted him and that he would respect her. I proceeded to sit back and watch them do what a couple does when they first decide to get it on. Clothes being thrown off, kissing and oral. Soon enough my queen made eye contact with me and that was my time to join in. “WuLLA” MMF successfully navigated and enjoyed.
Giff15
2 years ago
At the end of the day it appears that the cadence and intensity is really up to her, which sounds exactly how it should be!
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