Frrankie91

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Body question..

October 20 2023

So I’ve had a baby months ago, c-section, and have become quite self conscious of my body these days. Do men car about scars and all that?

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  • Pangoli28

    1 month ago

    Can't speak for all men but I don't think it concerns any of us. We just love females bodies and the body is not the only thing we are interested in

  • Sawadee

    1 month ago


    Not really ... l would see this as one of the things life throws up at us ... Your still the same person regardless.
    So no , it wouldnt put me off .. just one of those things..

  • allfouradventure

    1 month ago

    I would think a huge number of men wouldn’t care less about things like that .
    You go girl and enjoy .

  • Sensualnewbies

    1 month ago

    Not at all don’t stress about it the scars will fade in time hundreds of women have the same scars

  • FeistyFatty

    1 month ago

    Nope. We've all got them. Being self conscious is more unattractive. Rock what you got 💕

  • Margo_Lover

    1 month ago

    Most men are not concerned at all. Those that are can f@#$#@ right off.
    Women tend to be much more concerned with a potential partners look, than men do :)

    - Alex.

  • Viccpl

    1 month ago

    Not at all - more concerned with a connection than anything else.

  • MrandMrsEss

    1 month ago

    After being present to see what women go through to facilitate the continuation of our species I find birth marks an absolute turn on, not altogether sexually but very much cerebrally and that makes desire stronger.
    That said my wife is constantly down on herself for a few less than perfect bits and that makes me sad. She’s a fucking hero as our boys both tried to kill her on the way out, she’s a soft sweety but those marks show how much of a hard arse she can be - love all of her to bits and also find those bits feel so great to touch.
    So don’t you worry and if anyone doesn’t like you for only that reason then that’s a bullet dodged!

  • evo67

    1 month ago

    L has had two c sections and nobody (guys/playmates) have even commented on her scar, not even sure some of them have even noticed hahaha

  • Patrick2510

    1 month ago

    Motherhood is a special thing Frankie, don't let the result of that experience affect your self esteem, you look great now own it!!!

  • Mrs_Deep_Love

    1 month ago

    The scar will fade! Most women have some birth related battle scars. I am super proud of mine and my beautiful children. Learn to love it! Honestly men don't care and those that care don't matter x

  • Mrs_Deep_Love

    1 month ago

    If you want a practical solution a cute pair of crutchless undies hides it nicely

  • carol18

    1 month ago

    I have 3 m worth of scars around my body after skin removal surgery. Still very body conscious but most guys do not even notice (not sure it is a good thing...). Some ask about it but it has never been an issue for any of them. I think we worry too much about these things, guys usually do not.

  • Frrankie91

    1 month ago

    Thanks guys, appreciate the positive responses and reassurance!

  • peter196921

    1 month ago

    I have a few scares, and I always say they are part of my journey in life, if people don’t like them then that is there issue , wear them with pride as they are who’s you are and tells your story ☺️

  • MsSuperFoxy

    1 month ago

    We all have perfect imperfections.

    Ms Foxy

  • Sawadee

    1 month ago

    @Mrs_Deep_Love
    Good thinking 69 😊

  • EarthQueen

    1 month ago

    If they did would you even want to have sex with them? Someone that superficial would be a turn off.
    Scars tell a story of who you are and where you have been in life. I've got a few and no man has ever been bothered by them.

  • Shyfungal22

    1 month ago

    @Sensualnewbies Does the extra bit of weight cause concerns for men?

  • pirate66

    1 month ago

    Men don't really notice or care about C-section scars or just find it interesting and generally the scar is mostly a very thin neat line that will take a few months to fade over time and a lot of women rub Bio Oil into the scar to help it fade and it is nothing to really worry about.

    Think of a C-section scar as a battle scar and be proud of it and don't worry about it.

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