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A threesome consisting of two sexy girls and one very lucky guy is the ultimate fantasy for a good number of couples...
A threesome consisting of two sexy girls and one very lucky guy is the ultimate fantasy for a good number of couples on RedHotPie. For some, it is the only form of fun they are looking for. Unfortunately for many, what could be the most common couple fantasy is possibly the most difficult to realise. We look at why this is the case, as well as why couples want that coveted single girl. We’ll also suggest ways to make that fantasy a reality based on the real-life experiences of RHP couples who have successfully enjoyed FFM threesomes.

Why Do We Want Ms Single?

Three is fun but isn’t four even more so? In which case, shouldn’t a couple just meet other couples for fun? It certainly is easier to arrange foursome fun but some couples simply want to reserve their bedroom for themselves and Ms Single.

It may be because the presence of another male in the bedroom repels the male partner of the couple. This reluctance can stem from his discomfort with another male being in close proximity during a sexual scenario, or it can arise from jealousy he feels at the thought of his partner being touched or even seen naked by another man. Conversely, it may be the female partner who has no desire at all to be sexually involved with a man other than her own partner, and is only seeking an FMF to fulfill her bisexual leanings.

For couples who are new to the idea of introducing extra people into their sex lives, a FMF threesome is often viewed as being the safe, or soft option, before gaining the confidence to progress to couples and single men. For some others, they just purely want to experience the hot intimacy of a threesome, be it an FMF or MFM. In Kylie’s case:

”I didn’t have anything against meeting couples but I am definitely more into girls than guys so I loved the idea of having a single girl over just for me to focus on, knowing my partner was the only guy around and I could tell him when and how he could join in. It took me a while to meet a girl but once I did, it was amazing.”

Impossible Dream?

It probably wouldn’t be an exaggeration to say that for every actively participating single girl, there would be at least twenty couples looking for her. Why single girls are few and far between is simply answered by placing yourself in their shoes. If you were a single female, would you be willing to place yourself in a vulnerable situation with two strangers? Have a think about what you’re also asking from her: sex with one or both of you (preferably both) with no strings attached. It can be more than a little daunting for a lot of single ladies.

Also, it takes a woman who fantasises about being a ‘toy’ for a couple to consider a meeting, and more importantly, a whole lot of courage to go ahead with it. Take Tricia and Brad’s experience:

“Brad and I contacted a single girl called Janine who sounded hot. She was keen to be pampered and pleasured by two people and had no obvious hang-ups about sex. After swapping photos, we arranged to meet over coffee one afternoon. Just girls. The meeting went well so she agreed to come over to our place on the following weekend. Janine sounded excited about it right up until the night she was supposed to come over. But then, we got a text message from her saying that she couldn’t come around because of some problem with her car.”

After a lot of questioning by Tricia, Janine admitted that she was highly aroused by the idea of being in a threesome but as the reality dawned on her, it wasn’t something that she felt completely right about. Tricia and Brad’s experience is not unusual and not surprisingly, it leaves many people frustrated and suspicious of other single females supposedly looking for a good time.

When You Least Expect It The key issue seems to be the fact that when faced with the potential pressure of an organised a threesome, many people (not only single females) find it easier to not go all the way. It is therefore not surprising at all that many successful threesomes occur spontaneously with people a couple may have met prior to the event socially, which is what happened with Jo and Paul.

“Jo and I were at a wedding some time ago and we ran into an old school friend of Jo’s. I remember Jo enjoying the flirty catch-up and swapping numbers. She got a text from her a few nights later saying she was bored so Jo suggested she come over. Add a bottle of wine to that and the rest is history ”

How to Find Ms Single

We’ll assume that most couples don’t conveniently have a female flat mate/best friend/co-worker who they can get into a spontaneous threesome with. Naturally, if you do know someone who might be interested, then you can always investigate the possibility as long as your suggestions won’t cause offence.
For those who don’t know where to start, then RedHotPie is the best place to start. Many women are listed as seeking couples. If you’re replying to an ad, be mindful that you probably won’t be the first person to approach this single girl. Be friendly and honest about what you’re seeking, and with any luck, Ms Single will drop you a line back.

Parties and Events posted on RHP are also a great way to meet single ladies. Many girls enjoy a fun night out as a group so this could be the perfect opportunity for the female partner of a couple to mingle with singles. Get ready to jot down phone numbers!Alternatively, even if meeting couples is not the preferred option, it is still a good idea to network with other couples who may have a number of single girlfriends who are seeking to expand their circle of play friends. Finally, it is not uncommon for many couples who have formed close friendships to organise threesomes amongst themselves. Says Dean:

”My fiancee Emma hates being on her own while I am away overseas for work so when she told me that our swinging friends Mark and Michelle invited her for dinner one night (and they meant just dinner), I told her to go over on her own and get her own little party started. I trust Mark and Michelle so knew Emma would be in good hands. I got a huge hard on thinking about her being the centre of attention.”

What Is Ms Single Looking For?

It’s probably very important to consider the things that a single female is looking for in a couple. Since she has a fairly good selection of couples to choose from, it’s important to make your first impression last so you stand out from the rest.

A single female who is largely looking to explore her bisexuality probably won’t be too concerned about how the male partner looks (although I am sure she would like him to be a respectful, friendly person at least) in which case it is really up to the female partner to build a rapport with Ms Single. If there is a good amount of attraction between the two, there’s a good chance things will lead to a meeting and the rest can be worked out from there. Do keep in mind however that some single girls are not looking to play with the male partner of a couple at all but is happy for him to be present while she gets it on with the female partner. If this suits you as a couple, then it’s a win/win situation!

For couples who are ideally seeking a single female who wants to devour both partners sexually, you are in for some hard work. Without mincing words, unless Ms Single has an overwhelming attraction to one or both of you, she will happily move on to the next couple that approaches her for assessment. Take Nina’s experience:

”I was getting to know a couple on RHP with view to meeting up for coffee but without sounding shallow, I took one look at the guy and couldn’t go through with it. The girl from the couple was awesomely hot but other than her man being not my type, he also came across as an arrogant macho pig who wanted two women to pleasure him. I offered to meet her on her own or perhaps play while he watched but they didn’t want that. In the end I ended up meeting a couple who were less fixated on the threesome and treated me more like a friend.”

Try and be balanced in your approach with single girls. Do make an effort to find out what she is after from the beginning rather than try and sway her into your ideal threesome plans. Single girls also appreciate confident, friendly couples who don’t reek of desperation (yes, this seems to happen with couples as much as guys). Especially if she is new to meeting couples, she would feel more comfortable being guided gently by people who want to be her friend, rather than prodded and pushed like a play thing.

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I've enjoyed a colourful love and sex life which I share about from time to time on my blog. Other than blogging, I enjoy fitness and well-being. I love dressing up and going to a fun party such as Red Heaven events.

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Posted: Aug, 25 2019
Yeah, it’s definitely daunting trying to find that lady to join us!
Posted: May, 24 2018
Sexy couple looking for Unicorns. Please contact us
Posted: May, 19 2018
yeah we are looking for an attractive female for social outings and occasional sex ffm. we're in mandurah and a bit shy to approach anyone when out so here we are
Posted: Feb, 06 2018
“If this suits you as a couple, then it’s a win/win situation!“.
It’s like I read this before joining!!
Posted: Aug, 26 2017
it all comes down to connection first and foremost for the females
we have to be sure that the other female is genuinely attracted
Posted: Nov, 03 2016
hi all
we r also seeking a young bi girl to have fun with in the bedroom.
looking more so as friends not as one night stands as we would like to go out occasionally and have fun. we r in west of Brisbane if you girls are interested please contact us thankyou
Posted: Jul, 16 2016
My partner and I are looking for a bi female to have some fun with.
There's nothing more attractive then seeing my gorgeous girl get raunchy with another girl
This is NOT a situation where I'm just wanting two girls to look after me.
We like to make sure all 3 are on the same page and have an unforgettable time and wanting to come back for more. We are both shy at first but animals under the covers.
We're around the Gold Coast so if this sounds like something you'd be interested in feel free to send us a msg or friend request :)
Posted: Apr, 17 2016
Looking for girl to eat swollen pussy while husband watches
Posted: Jan, 13 2015
My husband and I have been extremely fortunate to have met several beautiful ladies in the short time we have been on RHP. We definitely are more slated towards the "friends" with benefits rather than treating a lady as a "play thing". Some of our friends were experienced, some not. All had loads of fun as we love to "date". Dinner, shows etc followed up with whatever we want back at the hotel. There is a wide variety of reasons why our Ms Single chose to experience a threesome. Some was their first time, others were more into women, or men. Each was unique and special experience in its own right. This article is very good summary of what we have experienced, and I would actually point to it as a great reference for those Ms Singles we meet in in the future to read. Very informative!
Posted: Jan, 11 2015
As a bicurious single female, I personally love the invitation to share experiences with a loving stable couple. I prefer all to play and I rarely go the one on one route. This is a great lifestyle for me as I enjoy the wonderful friendship that this threesome brings. I hope that if I do one day meet a lovely like minded guy, that the FFM can evolved into a couple FMFM.
Posted: Oct, 11 2014
Me and my partner are looking for a chick to join us for a 3sum in Townsville msg me thanks for a good time 😜
Posted: Sep, 20 2014
hello to all you lovely ladies,my missus is bi and hasnt been with a woman for a she thought it would be good to have a threesome with me and another woman who is either willing to teach her a few more things or learn and explore together....anyone keen drop us a line....
Posted: Aug, 20 2014
My boyfriend and I want a lady to join us any one out there?
Posted: Jul, 18 2014
i am looking for a bi single girl for a 3som, but would def meet and play alone prior to any 3 som.... so she can get a taste of what she is in for
Posted: Jul, 12 2014
I'm looking for a couple, tonight.
Posted: May, 10 2014
looking for a fun sexy ladey to come and have a scream of a time nothing serises
Posted: Mar, 28 2014
Great article. Hoping to take Ms Single status soon!
Posted: Mar, 11 2014
My Hubby and I are looking to play and explore with a willing Lady or ladies today. Open Invitation Ladies Tuesdays Between 9.30 and 2pm.
Posted: Jan, 18 2014
Hi im bi and new here but not to being playful with a hot lady who just knows how to have a good time, couples are hot stuff as well and hope to share my sexing partner who is also bi with the right couple who like to play.
Posted: Dec, 25 2013
We are also looking for a bi f for our first ff play with m watching on
Posted: Dec, 11 2013
it seems my gurl and i have had an endless supply of single girls willing to jump in , at one stage we had five girlfriends who would drink together then we would all fuck together , all were young sexy and fresh. in our experience its much easier being straight out friends who lay it on smooth over a few drinks but usually we do our fore work leading up to a three way straight to make sure its what the other gurl wants, we have had one on line success in 10 years and that was on red hot pie.... but we are keen and im more accepting of the fact it has to work both ways as i mature in life testing the waters with my wife going on sole adventures with other men hoping she gets awesome equal sex while we plod along on our single female search
Posted: Oct, 31 2013
We would love a sexy single or attached girl to be involved with us
Posted: Sep, 18 2013
My boyfriend and I are also looking for a single girl :)
Posted: Jun, 05 2013
hey im a 19 year old bi girl looking for a couple between 20-40 years old :) I have some experience but would like to learn more and you cant learn unless you practice :p
Posted: Dec, 11 2012
hey i am single cuddly insatiable female,, my rofile is mainly to fulfil a fantasy but hey,,,,would also love to meet a happy loving couple for regular friendship and fun
Posted: Dec, 11 2012
so true,,, i love to play with couples,,, but its not about pleasuring the man ,,its about all of us,,,,
Posted: Nov, 02 2012
Some people actually want a good friend not just a toy..
Posted: Sep, 15 2012
Marc and I are looking for playful girl in Perth I want a lesbian experience i want to play with a sexy chicks boobs and want to go down on her basically please me and the lucky girl ill try and please and make marc happy when we are done
Posted: Jul, 12 2012
Lexi we would both hav the enjoyment from u maybe suck me better than lick her either way we will both love it and guarrantee u will not believe the pleasure we wil return about 3 of us not 1or 2 that's why 3some get back to me with any ???
Posted: Jun, 23 2012
well we are looking for yummy girl to play with. how do we do it so we meet someone on that day night?
Posted: Jan, 17 2012
Hey, Whilst I'm not truly bisexual, I am bicurious and love the idea of being used as a 'toy' for a couple... however I find a lot of couples are really just looking for a girl to satisfy the female of the couples fantasies... I'm looking for a couple who would both enjoy my company equally...
Posted: Jan, 07 2012
I think everybody has their own opinion which is right according to their beliefs. I believe in the seeing and touching and I know that I love being naked, sexy, relaxed and enjoying a woman who feels the same (super sexy), also enjoying the male side to the scenario. My partner/best mate loves having fun as much as I do and we are into enjoying what makes us both feel good. There is nothing better than being confident in yourself enough to know what you want and also be able to have people around you that feel the same. My babe and I are this lucky and can't wait to come accross another woman or women who get that. We are also just not pushy, desperate people. Everyone is different. It is a bummer that people can't just do what they want and not play games or be honest. Straight up! Isn't life already full of enough bullshit! Think about other people as welll and just have a good time, be yourself or keep to yourself and respect each other for what we see in each other.
Posted: Nov, 26 2011
We play with a few single particular one is here every wednesday night every friday night and most saturday nights we are all together.......hubby just loves it. But in the time we have been playing ..most men cant keep it up to two woman....they normally cum and its all over red rover basically...sad really LOL. We also play mfm which I just loveeeeeeeeee but finding the men that can perform in front of other males is also a diffucult task i assure you :)
Posted: Jun, 11 2011
......................that is a sigle bi fem (who plays with couples) In the last 12 years we have met many, but only 4 have ever eventuated to anything, 2 were from chat rooms, 1 was an old friend (spontaneous unplanned event) and one was met through a dating site like this one. We are lucky that all but one has remained a good family friend, but unfortunately they are all 'off the market' after finding long term relationships.
Posted: May, 05 2011
Great article guys!!!! I'm really happy to read why we should continue to pay for membership with very little results.....if any. Our tip to couples after and extra lady in the bedroom- find a club or group (Friday Frolics is Adelaide is a good one ) holding meet and greet nights or clubs like Hellfire in Sydney. Were not stunners but have had much better results (100% hit rate) at these events.
Posted: Feb, 15 2011
And I quote: "Single girls also appreciate confident, friendly couples who don’t reek of desperation...she would feel more comfortable being guided gently by people who want to be her friend, rather than prodded and pushed like a play thing." So true! Is it too much to ask that we be looked at as more than a fantasy-fulfilling toy? I met one fantastic couple off here - the first meet we hit it off like we were old friends and every meet after that (for a month or two we met almost every weekend) the friendship just continued to get even better! Put yourself in our's daunting enough going on a 'blind date' with one person, let alone being ganged up on by two of them! I was originally on this site as a couple so i've seen it from both sides and realise how frustrating it is that for every 50 females you make contact with, 1 might reply but that's the nature of the beast unfortunately. Some of us aren't here just for an ego boost!
Posted: Sep, 23 2010
I'm a genuine, single female who has now met a few lovely couples off RHP. Of course not everyone that fits your 'seeking criteria' will be attracted to you, and will reply Hot_Horny, but keep at it I say! Maybe there should be some kind of automated reply you can choose, ie. "Thanks but no thanks, good luck in your search"... intsead of feeling awful you're not attracted to the person/s, and no wanting to offend or hurt them in anyway, so you just don't reply. Oh yeah....and thanks for yet another interesting article RHP! If you're near me, contact me, I say I'm genuine, friendly... single and ready to mingle... and REALLY am!! X
Posted: Sep, 23 2010
I'm real! I saw you on webcam, spoke on the phone, was at your house within the hour, and left ten hours later. See people, it does happen, all the time! Don't give up hope just yet!? Hope you don't mind me telling everyone guys... :P It couldn't be further from the truth in my case. I find it a very special thing to share with a couple, them inviting you into their sex life. As much as I am just a 'toy', I enjoy every bit of being used as one! The thought of going to meet a couple as a single girl was a little daunting to begin with, but with each naughty text or call, the nerves slowly faded and the thrill, anticipation and endorphins started to take over!
Posted: Jul, 19 2010
after read this article some is true, but by our experience most is not sadly for some REAL couples neither of the 2 are considered good looking enuff by any females on this site we have have a few girls interested but never want to make the jump and arrange anything so what are the unlucky, unblessed couples to do?
Posted: Jun, 03 2010
i love threesomes with other couples (being a single bi-girl) however i like it when both partners are into me, not just being used to fulfill some fantasy. however i dont feel comfortable just playing with the woman while the man watches, i like everyone to be involved or else meet her on her own. so have faith we are out there! xx
Posted: Apr, 23 2010
wonders if any real girls exist on here? most claim to want a couple but really only want a guy. apparently a girl stating she wants another girl is just to get the guys looking. We are looking for a girl, no luck yet but fingers crossed
Posted: Feb, 17 2010
We have been looking for a female to join both me and my husband, i (female) would like to explore my bi curious side further and of course if at all possible have a FFM. Reading the article certainly has given us different aspects to both sides of the coin so to speak. We are still hopefull though that we will meet the girl for us and vice versa.
Posted: Jan, 16 2010
Great story!! Ive got 2profiles on Rhp & one of them i use 2 be single on it & yes i am bi-sexual & honest. The 2nd profile is a couple one ive been with partners on & off on there sending out flirts & msgs 2 many chicks. Before i send them i always read their profile clearly as my man & i are after a bi-female they either change their profile & take it off. Loads of them dont reply very rude but they say they are friendly LOL!!! I think when it comes 2 the real thing do they know what they realy want ??? Ladies it mite look gd on your profile just 2 pick up the guys Mmmm!!! but can you realy do it cause i can :o) Guys & couples dont like fakes. As 4 me im sweetcandy69 i always try 2 reply back 2 my flirts & msgs even if its a NO just be pilite & honest.
Posted: Jan, 13 2010
thank you for that..were new here looking for a girl....and we enjoyed the read :)
Posted: Oct, 21 2009
i'm a single who plays with couples- never thought of myself as a 'toy' for them...sounds so passive!

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