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5 tips on how to UP your sexting gameSexting can be a fun, flirty way to keep the passion going and to tease your love/lust interest

Christina Miller | May 24 2017

5 tips on how to UP your sexting game

If you have a mobile phone and a pulse, chances are you have engaged in some level of sexting. If not, you have at least considered it. 


Sexting can be a fun, flirty way to keep the passion going.


As a precaution, initially steer away from exchanging photos straight away, unless it's your long term partner. Stick to naughty messages and if and when you want to send some raunchy pics, use clever angles that don't give too much away.

Lads, if you need some pointers in improving your sexting game, read 5 tips to become a sexting legend 


1. Start off slow and leave room for more




Sexting doesn’t have to be triple-X to be sexy. Sometimes being less explicit can actually be more of a tease. Tempting and teasing your partner is half the fun with actual sex, and the same can be said for virtual. It all depends on you and who you’re sexting, depending on the mood, it might start full on or build up to it.

"I can't stop thinking about what I'm going to do to you"

I thought of something I want to do to you tonight.”

I just got out of the shower.”

I’m too busy tonight. You can’t have me until tomorrow.”

These sexts will get your partner thinking about it as well. If they ask for more details you can follow up with:

"I'd rather show you in person."

Sexting, like sex, is all about comfort zones. Don't do anything you aren't ready for! But if you feel comfortable trying new things, go for it.


2. Use words of encouragement




Not sure where the conversation is heading? Words like "mmm" or "I like that" are effective at expressing interest and it will egg them on to continue. A classic "tell me more" goes a long way, too.


3. Keep it simple


Don't worry about being polished or proper. If you're just starting out, sometimes it's best to just be blunt. Some examples might be:

"I want you to go down on me"

“I’m going to make you beg for it

I’m going to make you come so hard


Blunt is the name of the game girl; you are after all warming the engine up for a later meet up, or a solo session that is going to be STEAMY.


4. Let them finish your sentences


Let him finish your sentence

"I got out of the shower, dried myself, went to the bedroom, then you came over to me and.... "


Trick with any sexting is to keep it short, it doesn't need to be all in one go. Play the game of teasing and flirting and keep him keen.


5. Send some naughty pics




If you haven't met the person you're sexting with yet, it's probably not a great idea to exchange photos with your face in them. You just… never know. Use your imagination and send some that do not divulge who you are.

When sexting keep this in mind. Sending dirty text messages, just like dirty talk, is all about what feels natural. Don't try to be someone you're not. Sexting is great because it allows you to be creative, but if you project a completely different personality over text it's going to be a tad awkward later.  


Happy sexting!


Do you use sexting to tease and flirt? What are your best tips to make this a tool to heat things up?

Comments

  • Allnightrider

    29 May 2017

    Agree with LickMyAss 86 - a waste of time . Just do IT for God's sake !

  • LickMyAss86

    29 May 2017

    God I HATE sexting! I used to find it a lot of fun at first, but after a while it feels like a chore and is a waste of time. After a while, I realised the endless hours I spent sexting I could have been doing all those sexual things I sexted about in REAL life which is 1000X more satisfying. What's worse is when I'll put a lot of effort in writing back a long and sexual message with a lazy 'Oh god yes you're really turning me on keep going!' Reply. It also annoys the hell out of me that sexting is so one sided. I'll send all these pics, spend lots of time getting the 'right' selfy and I'll only get one or two dick pics in return, yet they demand more and more and it never ends. Doesn't seem fair or any fun after a while. Now I just cut to the chase and reply, 'Let's make a date to meet up and I'll tell you all my sexual fantasies in person'.