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Are your sexting techniques not getting your desired end result? Maybe you are doing it all WRONG.

Here we’ll provide some sexting tips on how to become the sexting legend you know you can be.

First, build it up, don't go for the kill straight away.

 #1. Don't get ahead of yourself. Warm Up To It.

Women, unlike men who are very visual creatures, enjoy a slow build up. They’ll enjoy hearing compliments on the lines of how much you like them. How interesting, exciting, attractive or beautiful they are.

Yes, flattery will work wonders, but ensure it’s genuine compliments; women have an incline to distinguish between genuine flattery and BS.
DO NOT send that DICK pic yet, save it for a bit later, when it’ll work in your favour. It’s all about the right timing.

Use instead subtle messages:

       “I get excited when I think of you…” or “ You were the first thought I had this morning.”

Wait and see what she’ll do.

#2 Let Her Take The Lead

Wait for her next move. If she comes back with “I was just thinking about you too” then move on to a bolder response.

It's all about timing, wait and see what she’ll do next. She might decide to just stay in that ‘space’ where you are all turn-on but haven’t talked about details.

#3 Focus On Her

This takes control because you’re urging to just go full-steam ahead. Tease her some more and compliment her on her assets – beautiful breasts, long sexy legs, lush lips, etc. Women love compliments it turns them on because you are focused on them and how you appreciate their bodies. Build it up till she can’t take it and will be in the same wavelength as you. You are getting close….

Ensure you know what she likes by now. If unsure ask, you’ll score extra brownie points because you are showing her you care what she likes. Sexting is great when you’re into online dating and just want to test the waters before you decide to have sex with someone.

#4 Build A Rapport

Depending on whether her responses are enthusiastic, you could take sexting a notch up and again let the conversation move on naturally.  If she bites, sexting can be a great way to express darker, more hidden impulses and fantasies. Be explicit and playful and try out texting more detailed and explicit scenarios and let both of you minds into fantasising. Be realistic. You also don’t have to talk about everything you have ever fantasized about doing to a woman before you meet. Some things can wait until you are together.

    “I was thinking about sucking those gorgeous nipples of yours.”

Sexting, explicit and raunchy thoughts at this stage should feel easy and comfortable.

#5 What About The Dick Pic?

For most blokes, the exchange of visual pics or videos is sexually enticing. Unfortunately, most women are not as visual; this is not the case with every woman. Some women enjoy a pic or two for you to showcase your prowess. It’s exciting and also they can have a look at what to expect. True to note, some women love a well-endowed man and nothing else will do. If you are left wanted in the eyes of a lady, at least the journey was fun and no hard feelings.
Send a dick pic only when you have gotten far enough in your sexting and it seems appropriated. No one likes to receive an unsolicited dick pic.

Hoping that every sexting experience ends like this:

Sexting follows the same rules as in all sexual activities; communication with consent is the key in sexting. Sexting is a great way to indulge in your desires and fantasies. Anonymous or committed, sexting is popular because it’s easy and gets you mind going. Sexting is all about having fun and a great way to spice up your relationship, or spark up a new flame.

Do you have any good or bad sexting stories to share with us?  Share your stories with us in the comments section below!