"Age is just a number"

"Age is just a number"

    | Feb 05, 2018
maturecock4you
what a bull shit!!!!!
I am in my late 70is, I have been on this type of sites for 3-4 years and how many woman did I meet? One and when I text her for another meet? "Thanks but no thanks"
She was in her mid forties and "I love older man, the older the better" BS.
I was nice to her and she sims to like it.
I am not financial just joined a few days ago, I don't think it will worth for me.
Did anybody say to "Wait you will find someone" yeah right, somebody prove it to me!!!!
OK "Make my day" and tell me why I am wrong!!!!


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noeleena   Woman 70yrs

only in the 70.s

Hi ,

Age is a different set of details for us . if your younger you.ll have a far better chance of being with someone ,

Been to many swinger meets and quess what your on your own unless you have a mate with you, your an out sider ,I,m a unicorn or a wall flower most guys age,s range from 35 to 40 and 53 to 57 in the main and I have not had one bit of interest. that's here in Kiwi land

I have tried to join two groups both don't wont outsiders or if your 70 they ....DONT .... wont you near them and this has been over 12 months, so I wont bother asking to join again whats the point ,in one case your ignored,

age is just a what ........it,s who you are that counts its what makes you ....you . if your not accepted for who you are then age becomes the issue or in my case am I different to the point of not acceptable .

I,m involved with over 2000 people with our Orchestra and Brass Bands 5 of and our communitys and other groups and don't have any issues . so I,m well accepted ,

Yet sexually I,m written off by most with in the swingers groups at 70 im just not worth their time to get to know. because I,m 70 plus,

...noeleena...
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I_touch_myself2   Woman 54yrs

How does that feel?

Better now after the rant?

Wake up call. Whether you're 34 or 104, you need to show yourself. Who's going to want to date an old dude on a blind date? You would of course know this with your online experience and your lack of vision is hiding what you look like, again by your own design. Yet you expect a sympathy fuck because we women are here to serve you, free hookers?

lmao
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Lifes_great   Man 49yrs

It could be...

Your warm welcoming demeanor. Maybe the girls out there are really looking for a more resentful angry type of guy? Anyway, I hope this post works well for you. Good luck in your search

LG
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Mischeviouslad   Man 46yrs

Buckle up..... this is going to be a bumpy ride

Ok.... so.... I've read your topic, and also your profile, and heres what I see


Topic....... whinge.

Profile.... minimal effort, and no photo.....But you expect results in a very crowded buyers marketplace?

And you expect results from a rather limited pool of potential people who may be accepting of your age within their general preferences?


But really, the proof of the pudding is in your topic.
You state that you DID manage to arrange a meet with one lady (in 3 or 4 years on these sites.... that itself may tell you something about what you're doing/not doing... but you keep doing it?! For the same result?!!).

So clearly for her, age wasn't an issue.... but on meeting you..... she wasn't interested in taking things further for whatever reason.

That happens. Don't be such a petulant whiny child about it.
Christ man, youre 77.

Surely you've had occasion in your life where you met someone you weren't into!

You, were that person for her.

Yeah, I get it.... it wouldn't be as easy at 77 as it would be at 27, where the pool of people is significantly higher, but from what I've seen the handbrake isn't your age.

Attitude is (almost) everything.

That, is why you're wrong


Tough but fair love.

DG





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lovebitten  

Woman 40yrs

I love older men

I have dated men 20 years older and that seems to work for me. That said, they have to have all the other attributes too. Intelligence, education, kindness, humour, good grooming. Perhaps your age didn't bother her, but something else did. It's not fair to pin it on age. She may have been sincere about liking older men, but she just didn't click with you!



- Posted from rhpmobile
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Meander   Woman 45yrs

Nothing to prove

I think you are right, OP.

The "Age is just a number" line is bullshit in my opinion as well. That is about as helpful as I can be, I'm afraid.
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AnnieWhichway   TV/CD 54yrs

Op

Sorry your post really hit the mark and not in a good way.

Just because someone states they like older does not give you the presumption that you are a shoe in or rather a leg over. You still need personality and charisma to some degree but from what l read here, you are just a grumpy old man.

No wonder she didn't pursue the opportunity. With attitudes like yours, it's just another reason to disregard the older ones that you are in competition with. Tuck in your manners ffs
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inthemarket  

Man 39yrs

I disagree

But with a caveat. Age is just a number, if you're talking about mental age.

I know older women who are amazingly fun to be around and I know younger women who are about as exciting as a fence post.

In terms of physicality though, I think it is bullshit. Age is almost certainly not just a number.




- Posted from rhpmobile
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OkeyDoke45   Man 48yrs

If this is legit...

Then I feel sorry for you. I have wondered if I would ever just give up on sexual pursuits at a certain age, due to the diminishing prospects as the years tick by.

Having said that, reading your profile, you are after a rather specific thing (hotwifing) which narrows your potentials down to near-negligible levels. Oh, and your profile is spectacularly unremarkable. I normally think profiles are up to the individual but there is really nothing on there at all to entice.
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Lovechild17   Woman 47yrs

Another bloke...

Who wants a woman to just trip over and fall on his dick.

You're profile isn't good and you have no photos to personalise it.



LC.
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Freaky_Fun  

Woman 47yrs

Woah 😳

Well l bet your fun at parties 🤔
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Livingandloving2   Couple Man 47yrs Woman 47yrs

Oh Dear

It’s your comments that aren’t attractive :(
Exactly what are you offering a woman besides that giant chip on your shoulder?
Mrs LAL

- Posted from rhpmobile
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PurePeony   Woman 43yrs

My last long-term FWB...

... was in his 60's when we met. He did look old-ish but in terms of fitness, energy levels and his winning, positive attitude and joie de vivre, he'd win others much younger than himself hands-down.



I think most times, we are attracted to people with similar values, outlook, "style", etc. as well as how they present themselves.



In my early RHP days, I did meet one old-ish guy in his 60's but oh my gosh... he dressed like a frumpy granddad who hadn't updated his wardrobe since the 80's, looked older than his real age and he talked about grandkids, retirement, etc. He also didn't walk with a spring to his step. In his presence, I can feel my inner speedometer go from 80 down, down, down to 20. Wake me up when it's time to leave! 🤣😝



I am a very visual creature and I spend time grooming myself and would like to be associated with people who also groom themselves and take pride in their appearance. My ex-FWBs all looked presentable.



It's also important to run with a fellow horse who has a similar pace. I might be battling illnesses, but anyone who sees me would never guess because I put up a good fight and hide it well. I have adopted healthy lifestyle habits to put the spring back into my step and I like to brisk walk with my ponytail bopping or with my hair blowing in the breeze. I'm not young-ish but everyone I meet thinks I am and most importantly, I feel younger than my age.



Would I date someone older with a similar spritely mentality? Hell, yeah! Conversely, would I date someone who is a frumpy and grumpy old man who has let his appearance go? Hell, no way, José!



It's not about coming into the site, expecting to meet people. This is simply a platform allowing people to contact those we are attracted to and those we would like to befriend.



Sure we all have needs - sexual, companionship, etc. But it's not solely about meeting your needs without putting in any effort - what do you have to offer to attract anyone to you? And that's just the first step. It's not about entitlement - it's about mutual compatibilities and shared aims.



It isn't about the age so much as the demeanour.

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deepestpurple   Man 35yrs

ROFL and they call me a troll.

I loved your post OP.

I reckon you just gotta hang in there, maintain the rage. Don't let these soft cocked know-it-alls bring you down to their level. You don't need to be personable, you don't need a poncy profile, you don't even need pics. You just need anger and a penis; get hard, get angry and they will come. Trust me. Stay with it old man, I hear 80s is when shit really kicks off around here anyway.



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sweetgem   Woman 38yrs

I merely comment because of this line of yours...

...[OK "Make my day" and tell me why I am wrong!!!!]...

Your attitude is why you are wrong, Wanabibull! And by attitude, I don’t mean your whinge, but rather your poor handling of other people’s preference of age and other traits, and your belittling attempt at the said woman, whom you have met, by making this line:

[She was in her mid forties and "I love older man, the older the better" BS.]

To say that she was bullshitting in her words and/or preference, you’re actually showing disrespect towards her! Sure, I don’t know the full story and I don’t know what reason, or reasons, she gave you when she declined your invite for a second meet. But is it necessary to go down that path and get yourself so worked up like the way you did, Wanabibull? 🤔

At your age, you should be someone that younger people would want to look up to for advice/guidance, not the other way around! 🙄

Life is too short to dwell on the failures, Wanabibull! Embrace what you have picked up along the way and that will change your vibes, which will change your luck, no doubt!

- Posted from rhpmobile
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CandyDelicious   Woman 31yrs

UU

Go hang out in the bingo joints or join a knitting circle. Bet you’ll find lots of pussy your age there.
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AnnieWhichway   TV/CD 54yrs

Deepest

Lol. You make me laugh. You and the OP have so much in common. Both angry through failure to score. Grumpy old frustrated man and grumpy middle aged frustrated man.
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maturecock4you

Thanks for

the comments everybody, well I have stirred up something, but yeah it is a bit frustrating people saying "Age is just a number" thing and it is BS.
Oh yeah I have changed my online name, when I wrote it at first didn't like it wanted to change it but it gone wrong, this time it did work.
My profile, I have just joined today and I just put something down quick.
As I said before I have been on other sites similar to this one with all different way of writing a profile but it didn't make any difference, wouldn't you be pissed of?
On one site a woman (girl) looking for a man from 30 to 80 and she said to me to go play lawn balls.
If this time nothing happens I may have to go and play lawn balls.
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mango69er  

Couple Man 51yrs Woman 61yrs

D.

Gee what about noeleena comments. She in her 70s. And kinda agreed with him. Nothing wrong with her profile. Must be very frustrating for them.

- Posted from rhpmobile
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deepestpurple   Man 35yrs

Another troll




Quoting 'AnnieWhichway'

Lol. You make me laugh. You and the OP have so much in common. Both angry through failure to score. Grumpy old frustrated man and grumpy middle aged frustrated man.
When I take pot-shots at the Dark Queen it's because I need to grow up, and I have admitted this to myself and everyone here. It has nothing to do with my ability to score, actually I had to shut my profile down because I was drowning in pussy.

Recently though I feel like you are me and I am Meander so what is your excuse? You seem pretty mature but your profile is still up ...

I'm glad I could make you laugh though Annie x

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