non smokers

non smokers

    | Apr 25, 2018
Xena2750   Couple Man 44yrs Woman 40yrs
Hi we are non smokers and love fitness (I am a PT)but come up agsinst quite hostile responses when we get a message and we reply saying we arnt smokers. (from smokers)
We like people but is it bad to say no thanks to smokers?

Its a personal dislike of us both and in this day of PC are we wrong to be honest?

Love your comments from non smokers and smokers?
Mischa



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cavey50   Man 58yrs

my personal notion is...




"If you smoke, I will never get into a relationship with you"


Reasons:

Because that is how I want to run my life -

call me a cunt, I don't care.


Mishca - your choice... (AND it is a good one too, I might add here) and I hope you just move on to people who respect you guys enough to settle for that...


Hell... After seeing your photos.... IF I was a female/couple who smoked, and had a chance to play with you guys.. FM... I would just give smoking the fuck up ..



Good luck and good choices.

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crux32   Couple Man 44yrs Woman 42yrs

Choices

Mischa

Everyone has a right to their own choices. Your choice is not to kiss a smoker. Some smokers think that with a bit of tooth brushing and some extra deodorant that they eliminate the smell, but non smokers can smell and taste the difference.

We are with you - smokers are not for us.

Crux32
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DynamicCouple36   Couple Man 47yrs Woman 39yrs

No, it is not wrong at all

It is your choice and personal dislike, and you are quite entitled to say no.

We too dislike cigarette smoke and will not come into close contact with anyone who smokes.

We too have received hostile responses when turning down smokers. But then we have also received hostile responses when turning down bearded males and those males who are not circumcised.

We feel that it’s not so much about why (smoking) you have turned them down, but more about the fact that you have turned them down. Many people just cannot handle rejection and became quite abusive.

- Posted from rhpmobile
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scarlettensimon

Nope not wrong

I'm a smoker myself, and respect those who don't smoke, it's a personal choice, you shouldn't be made to feel bad because of your preferences, I go by a little saying from my father in law, "if they don't like it, then that's there problem" so chin up love, your not in the wrong here xx

- Posted from rhpmobile
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libbylou2   Woman 55yrs

Mischa

If I get a flirt or message, I look at th profile. If it says smoker or even social smoker I don’t bother answering. I clearly state NON SMOKER in my profile. If you choose to ignore that, that’s your problem.
I detest smoking, the smell on your clothes and breath. Let alone the brown teeth.
Stick to your guns and simply don’t bother replying.

- Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway   TV/CD 55yrs

Preferences are preferences

I agree OP. Smoking effects smell and taste of Male and female. If someone chooses to poison their body, their choice. My choice is to generally avoid them
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pipsqueak   Woman 34yrs

I respect the rights of smokers

And I respect my right and choice not to interact with them



No OP , your choice, your right, swipe right, click next, move on



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usrightnow_Again   Couple Man 100yrs Woman 100yrs

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You're perfectly entitled to have what ever preferences you wish, as everyone has mentioned. Over the years, we have chosen to only play or have relationships with other non smokers, just our preference. Some people don't like not being a part of everyone's equation. If you say no, perhaps block them, whatever, they take that as a personal attack on their belief of entitlement, that they are so special, no one has a right to deny them what they want. There are a lot of us, no one is that special and you are entitled to personal preference. Keep up the PT work and enjoy life.

Mr. urn. .

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Xena2750   Couple Man 44yrs Woman 40yrs

Non smokers

Thanks for your comments,
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HotNightsPerth  

Couple Man 46yrs Woman 45yrs

Nothing wrong with it

Mr HNP is a smoker. We clearly state this on our profile and are not offended if that’s a deal breaker for others.
We accept the many will just keep scrolling......

- Posted from rhpmobile
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Pommyfucker   Man 34yrs

I used to smoke

But quit quite a few years ago but if someone else somkes it doesn't bother me. Just make sure you have some chewing gum on you at all times
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boobs_or_bust   Couple Man 51yrs Woman 43yrs

some smokers

are better at others at covering it up ,we prefer non smokers but have met some that passed go ,and quite surprised us that they were smokers but also put in a good enough effort, will breath mints deodorant , so once upon a time we would have blanket banned. smokers but have learnt not to tar everyone with the same brush

mr b

- Posted from rhpmobile
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Lionsdoll1   Woman 38yrs

High horses 🐴

I’ve been both a smoker, and a non-smoker.

I’ve always been respectful and courteous.
Perfume, mouthwash, mints, open smoking areas and step outside or away from others and always washing my hands throughly.
Most smokers prefer the 5 mins time to themselves anyway.

I respect people’s choice to smoke or not, like it or not. But I detest judgy non-smokers on their high horses. Especially if they claim to be open minded and love thy neighbor. Hypocrisy is a pet hate of mine.

Hows this;
“ I hate rum!
The smell, the taste, the behaviour of people under the influence of rum and the bogans that drink it.
I choose not to go anywhere near them and will block them straight away.
Personality and looks don’t even become a factor as I choose not to associate with “those people” in my life!”


Yes I’m being a smart ass to make my point.
Some of the comments above sound very similar 🙄
Let’s just be a little less rude and judgy hey?

And I’m entitled to feel this way too 🤔
I know I’ll cop an ear bashing for this, but in an age where people sprout on about equality and tolerance...... just saying 😉


- Posted from rhpmobile
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Lionsdoll1   Woman 38yrs

I will add

PS. I will add, I don’t really care if you drink rum. My bestie loves it. Her drink. I drink bourbon or whiskey 🥃
Just being a smart ass to make a point.

PPS. I’m also one of the only smokers in my circles.
I’ve dated smokers and non-smokers. I’m more interested in personality and connection.
Each to their own, but we can be polite about it either way.

- Posted from rhpmobile
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Naughty14u   Woman 36yrs

Don't care if you smoke

Don't care if you burst into flames.

I just choose not to go there.
Its you're call. Why lower your standards to raise your percentages
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I_Crave_You   Woman 30yrs

Each to their own!

Each to their own but end of the day you have to respect one another for who they are and what they choose to partake in. You can ask them not to smoke while around you , that’s something I would be offering if I wasn’t into smokers there is a compromise for everything. For me I don’t care if you do or don’t I love my fitness too — but I see it as it’s their life who am I to say what’s right or wrong I bet they disagree with some choices in my life too.

- Posted from rhpmobile
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I_Crave_You   Woman 30yrs

And to add...

I mean your a PT you don’t go to every client that smokes and say you won’t train them because you dislike their lifestyle choices. I’m sure you would end up with no people to train.

- Posted from rhpmobile
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Xena2750   Couple Man 44yrs Woman 40yrs

smokers

I dont judge them nor preach to them about it
I just say no thanks as its something my partner and i arnt happy with
It generally is the hostile response we get from being too judgemental or choosy lol We are always polite.
My partners mum smokes and she is super sensitive about it as well
As for training smokers i havent come across one yet in my gym. Its part of the questionaire i do with them before trasining them
I agree some smokers you can struggle to tell but then others reek of it and seems to permeate out of every pore lol

As for rum guilty as charged
I love rum so i guess we arnt meant to be lionsdoll1

Was just interested in other peoples thoughts
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PeachyPearL   Woman 54yrs

Honestly

I prefer not to give a specific reason so as not to invite anger in return. There is no need to explain yourself. :-)

You could try to cut them off at the pass with a disclaimer to your profile.

Peachy
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Gr8distraction   Man 45yrs

Nah

Smokers smell
Cant stand rum either, its a drink for peasants.......Ooops there i go judging again



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