Why don’t they return the favour?

Why don’t they return the favour?

    | Feb 16, 2018
WildRide99   Woman 23yrs
I have met with a few guys on this site (mostly bad encounters) and I always generously give oral sex first, it’s fun to give and fun to get. I go as long as I can, whether I’m gasping for air at the end or until they cum. And out of all the encounters I’ve had, only 1 person has ever returned the favour (and they will hear from me again!) but am in the wrong to expect them to return the favour?

I just had a fella over for some Friday night fun (I’ve been messaging him for a bit, and he apparently loves eating girls out so I was keen to meet him) and it went the usual way again. Started kissing, then I move down to give him head for about 10 minutes, then he gets me to hop on while I’m dry! He didn’t touch my breast or butt, or anything during kissing or oral sex so it feels like I had no stimulation what so ever!

In the end, he couldn’t keep it hard so I just said let’s stop and I got dressed, He got so shitty he spat his gum out on my floor when he left! I’m puzzled!?!? I’m a little over weight but he’s seen my pictures and it’s the first thing listed in my description. I have good hygiene, I shave my pubic hair and I just had a shower before he came over. I don’t understand why they say they love give Oral sex and then don’t do it!?!?

I guess this is a little bit of a rant (I’m so angry about this guy spitting his gum out on my floor! Like what a dick!) but I’ve been wondering for a long time if I’m the only one this is happening too? Where you give and don’t get back.

- Posted from rhpmobile
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perthmale92

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Im not sure why blokes dont. I love it

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Twisted_Mister   Man 48yrs

He did what?

Was chewing gum at the time? And spat it on the floor?

Classy.

Pick better blokes would be my tip.
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mango69er  

Couple Man 51yrs Woman 62yrs

D.

Let the guy know what you are wanting. Not just when messaging or on the phone talking. Face to face. For alot of guys, a woman asking a man to go down on her, would be a big turn on. Its not your weight. . And next time let the man please you first. Dont put up with that rubbish again. All the best

- Posted from rhpmobile
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davek75  

Man 43yrs

Returning the favour

A gentleman always returns the favour without question.

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licktilate  

Man 57yrs

You need to get them to eat you first....

The problem is if you give them a good head job first, and especially if you make them cum, then they’re satisfied and you miss out.......no excuse for them being rude though!
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megz85g  

Woman 33yrs

Yes!

So much yes. I agree 100%. I had the same rant the other week. Guys are always going on about how much they love it , but when it comes to it are selfish and leave you hanging ☹️

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IntelligentSex   Man 36yrs

Ladies before Gents

Honestly it makes a lot more sense to demand the guy eats you out before you return the favour. Let us be honest guys orgasm at the drop of a hat. Make sure you get your pleasure first.

- Posted from rhpmobile
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FatFunFiesty  

Woman 38yrs

What a cock

Spitting gum.on your floor.... class act there. I'm with someone previous; pick better blokes babes.
Also, have been here a few years now and can't say I've ever had a someone not return the favour. And return it with enthusiasm. In the messaging prior to a meet its always well established that I'm a huge lover of oral (giving and receiving) and my filtering has improved over the years so that sorts the wheat from the chaff.
Be more choosy and more verbal face to face would be my best advice.

- Posted from rhpmobile
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redrouge

You sound lovely

I feel your pain. But.
Maybe he’s has to do all the hard work. I wouldn’t give a blow job till at least the third date. Slow down. Make em work for it.

Aim higher as well.

- Posted from rhpmobile
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EarthQueen   Woman 47yrs

Girlfriend

Kick these wankers arses to the curb. Get yourself a real man who is a sharer and carer. They are out there. After some searching I have found myself a generous lover. It’s about pleasing each other not just using you to satisfy their needs.

Tell them straight up what you want and also put it in your profile and don’t compromise. No foreplay sex for women is the worst. A pussy that’s dry is screaming no deal. It’s painful and uncomfortable for you and you don’t have to put up with it.

I’ve also had some shitty experience on here and it’s taught me not to be discerning.
A guy who won’t go down on me is a dealbreaker. Don’t sell yourself short you deserve better. 💕

- Posted from rhpmobile
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MrBeach10   Man 46yrs

Thats just plain wrong

That's just bad manners, and not only selfish, but also foolish. I think the biggest turn on is getting the person you are with to get hot, horny and to come. Where is the fun in not doing that. These guys might as well just stay at home and jerk off. I hope you find what you are looking for.
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The_Antichrist   Man 39yrs

The problem is...

Hard dicks have no conscience....

Men will say all that you wanna hear and it’s hard to pick those who are true to what they say...

I’m sorry but all I can suggest is that you’re gonna kiss a number of toads before one turns into a prince so to speak.

Else you could try using the validation system despite my belief it’s a flawed and useless method, but it MAY help a whisker....



- Posted from rhpmobile
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Eiliethiya   Woman 41yrs

It's the quality

of the men you're choosing. Sorry, but no man is coming into my bedroom chewing gum during sex. Didn't happen when I was younger, ain't happening now.
"You teach people how to treat you by what you allow, what you stop, and what you reinforce" (Can't remember where I saw that quote...but it's appropriate to everything, not just sexually)

And that's not me being all judgy and bitchy...cos I've had men treat me like crap over the years too...I won't put up with shit anymore. I'd rather be single AND celibate lol
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swinger007  

Man 53yrs

Proves my point

Well this post proves my point.

I have commented on some forums on here about how when a bloke puts up a post only similar type subjects he gets torn to shreds by some extremely nasty vitriol.
If a bloke had written how he always goes down and eats pussy 1st but doesn't get a blow job in return i can only imagine the 'advice' he would have received.

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CandyD   Woman 32yrs

Young guys ?

Hi Wildride, that is shithouse! You shouldn’t be treated like that, and I agree with comments above. It’s hard to find a good man.... :(



Can I ask, what age group have the men been in?



I think older men are more considerate lovers usually. They have more experience.
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MsJonesy   Woman 51yrs

Sounds like you

Are a generous lover, which is a good thing. Maybe dont keep giving for so long... tell them there 's more of it after they return the favour. A bit of a tease is always fun.

Also, if you are not ready to jump on, don't. Nothing worse than being dry....it means you....oh you know what it means. We all know what it means! 😁

Be open, be honest, and tell them what you want.
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jbradley79  

Man 39yrs

You deserve better

Don't put up with it. You are beautiful and deserve better

- Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway   TV/CD 55yrs

Charming gent

Gum chewing.... How did he kiss with chewing gum? Push it back and forth?

Oh no kissing?

Well he wouldn't have got my undies down. Sounds like a bogan. A soft cock one at that.... Ticking so many boxes
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EarthQueen   Woman 47yrs

Nope Swinger




Quoting 'swinger007'

Well this post proves my point.

I have commented on some forums on here about how when a bloke puts up a post only similar type subjects he gets torn to shreds by some extremely nasty vitriol.
If a bloke had written how he always goes down and eats pussy 1st but doesn't get a blow job in return i can only imagine the 'advice' he would have received.

I rarely lose my shit on here but this guy came into her house, gives her no foreplay, shoves his dick into her and spits gum on the floor. Surely thats disrespectful to you male or female?
As an older man do you condone that behaviour?
She is a young woman who is asking for advice. As older experienced women we are trying to help her. Also please note plenty of men are offering support as well.
No vitriol in that just letting her know she is worthy of more. The mechanics of sex are taught at school but not the heart and soul and emotion involved. There is nothing taught about foreplay and pleasure. The other side of this is teaching people how we want to be treated. Young guys watching a lot of porn may not know about foreplay. But isn't it better that we teach each other how to have better more satisfying sex.

Painful sex is traumatic for women. I guess the only comparison is if you as a man would be entered anally with force and dry. How would that make you feel? How would that change your future feelings about sex?

Also typo in my first post I meant the bad experiences have taught me to be more discerning.


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Bob012018   Man 43yrs

I'm a giver

I love giving. I luv receiving but prefer giving esp once they get wet and start to move. I luv to get a face full

I use the line i always finish second

- Posted from rhpmobile

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