F28
When you don’t get a reply...
September 16 2019
Do you send another one? Or do you send another 5? 🤦🏻♀️
Do you READ their profile to get a clue why you don’t get any reply?
Also lead to another question, do women send messages first on rhp? Since I heard they are bombarded with messages all the time?
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RHP User
5 years ago
If I don't get a reply, I take it as a no. I will look back over the profile, though I did read it through before the message, to see why. My trouble seems more that my messages are not even read. Maybe I pick out the ghost profiles. But, that's life on line. Different for the girls I guess. G
RHP User
5 years ago
If I send a message and get no reply that is that for me, simple. It could be that they are not interested in me, they receive too many messages to respond to, they could just be on holidays and not have RHP on their phones - doesn't really matter. I'm certainly not going to send another message, and I check my ''sent'' messages before I send any out to make sure I haven't approached them already.
The line between being enthusiastic and being a bit creepy is simply too thin, so I elect to just not go there at all.
MsSuperFoxy
5 years ago
Strange statement. Are you sure you're a woman OP? 🤷♀️
Ms FoxySawadee
5 years ago
.... my messages are all polite. ? Im not a rude person by nature .
If someone doesnt reply and they have judged you without knowing you , thats thier problem .. l just figure some people are just born rude and judgemental so they are probally doing it to others as well , you can't deal with that kind of person no matter what ... So the only possible senario is : Next ?
fweebs_perth
5 years ago
Majority would have to be single men not reading profiles or simply disregarding what is in a profile. Ours for instance clearly says "straight single men need not apply" a nice way of saying we're not interested. Yet every day theres 20 msgs from straight single men "trying their luck" they dont warrant a response
MissRedFox
5 years ago
They usually complain about it on the forums
honkytonk
5 years ago
i start sobbing uncontrolably then i find the nearest corner, curl up in the foetal position, rock back and forth and all the while hyper ventilating the words ' mummy, why dont these mean people want to have sexual relationships with me'.
oh its way too much to handle bahahahahahaMsSuperFoxy
5 years ago
Come to mumma. Sounds like you need a sugar hug.
Ms Foxy x
inspirit
5 years ago
I send a message if interested..
Sometimes I just forget to reply, tho I have intentions to do so. I use my phone, so fingering back a reply is ummmm fingered.RHP User
5 years ago
Most of you here are nice. Then why do I get annoying messages from people I don’t even reply to.
It shouldn’t bother me but it does. Bcoz I reckon I have OCD. I HAVE TO check notifications, especially when it’s so read. And I’m too lazy to go block people. So msg from the same people I’m not interested keep coming up 🙄
“They” are the popula female on here. Not me 🤷🏻♀️ so yeah, they.RHP User
5 years ago
It’s so red*
fweebs_perth
5 years ago
Who the hell is tony robbins btw?
RHP User
5 years ago
Tony Robbins is an American self-help guru whose guidance has helped a lot of people all over the world. Usually by separating them from the extremely heavy wads of cash stuffing their wallets....."wow, i feel so much lighter after the $2k Tony Robbins seminar!" 😁 .. though I'm sure there are some others that have genuinely benefited from his guidance. You know the type, "join me at my seminar and I'll show you the keys to success"......there have been many gurus of his ilk but he is probably the most successful, he's been peddling the boards for decades...
RHP User
5 years ago
Zoobo,
Thanks 😍😍😍
You’re ABSOLUTELY RIGHT!
Money is the enemy. There are sooooooo many things that money and fame has stopped me from doing. Things that I really love. Things that I’m dying to do. But bcoz I was afraid of spending money or not earn money bcoz of those things, I never get to do it.
So now, I’m giving money away in exchange for his seminars. He would know what to do money, wisely.
I also am more generous with my family & friends. Giving them gifts and money so I get their love & friendship back.
EarthQueen
5 years ago
Then I forget. I'm like Dory on Finding Nemo. Oh look, here's another pretty shiny thing....
I'd rather no reply than an explanation of why someone doesn't like me.Seachange
5 years ago
It comes down to preferences (physical and sexual) and time. Both factors that determines whether I reply to a message. The latter a bit on the scant side as post graduate studies on top of full time work leaves me with very limited time and exhausted at the end of.the day.
Don't fret and take it personally. Just move on as there are lots of other opportunities out there.
When I was a paid up member, I really didn't send out messages to prospective playmates. Again time was a limiting factor.
But be patient, it's a numbers game for all parties.
One door closes, 4more doors opens.
Best of luckRHP User
5 years ago
Been on this site for a little while. Sent out quite a few messages. Not many replies just a couple of thanks but no thanks. I appreciated the honesty of these people.
I reckon it’s a bit rude not to reply, however I understand that some people would get a lot of messages and it would be very difficult to reply to all of them.
I just think, ok their loss, and move on to the next profile.
Shouldn’t judge a book by its cover as they say though.😊honkytonk
5 years ago
i am a comin!
can i do a reach around during the hug?
moohahahahahaRHP User
5 years ago
Can I eat you Pixie :)
RHP User
5 years ago
Earth Queen,
Love your thinking ;)RHP User
5 years ago
Not judging the book by its cover.
But there’s sth called “standard requirements”
abcplus1
5 years ago
As a couple we maybe get 30 to 40 percent reply rate, and we always accept a no reply as a no.
As for getting a message from as female as the first contact, in more than 10 years on multiple sites that has never happened for us.
FeistyFatty
5 years ago
Derrick...... what a load of rubbish. Sorry but EVERYONE judges a book by its cover here.... that's what you connect it straight away. I certainly wouldn't engage in chat or back and forth for a length of time with someone i was NOT immediately physically attracted to... would you?? If so, why?? I just find that bizaar. I haven't got the time or inclination to meet everyone in the hopes of Maybe making a little spark..... and I really wouldn't want anyone doing that to me either.
RHP User
5 years ago
FFF,
Why are you speaking on behalf of EVERYONE?
I don’t judge the book by its cover. There are WONDERFUL men without displayed pic on here who have reached out to me and they are given a chance to talk. And I found out they are amazing!
So much better than some dickheads who are physically attractive but have no brain.
And I have met a lot of people on here who fall for personalities rather than appearances too.FeistyFatty
5 years ago
I doff my hat to thee Pixie😋..... you've clearly got more time to waste than I do. Have fun with that.
RHP User
5 years ago
Back on track...
To answer your question OP, if I have sent one message with no reply, then I just assume that is a thanks but no thanks... or they are too busy or there may be other reasons for them not to respond right now. Either way, sending one or five extra messages is impolite and putting unnecessary plus unwanted pressure on the recipient. There’s no point in sending more messages because they got the first one and have chosen not to reply. Continuing to send more will not be welcomed, and there’s no positive outcome for myself or the recipient if I did.RHP User
5 years ago
FFF, that I agree.
Why can’t more men be like MrPlayful ??!RHP User
5 years ago
I'm only new to the RHP scene but I also slightly don't understand the disappearing messenger.
If I flirt/msg and don't get a reply I sort of take the hint and give up.
But after a reply that seams interested and actually asking a question I reply and try to continue conversation but then it just stops at that.... not sure if they're fake profiles.
I'm still new and learning but I'm sure with time I will be able to tell who is real and who is fakenavs69
5 years ago
It does get disheartening when there is no reply, I do try again, incase they may be having a quiet day/night, and maybe they might see my message this time.
I message someone who has asked for a particular criteria, in particular NSA fun and casual hook ups, and I fit it perfectly, then no answer, or "Sorry not my type". But such is life. Would be nice to know what "type" is. I am better in person than on a keyboard, but people judge on covers, they are only human,
Just have to pick myself up and keep trying, lol. Would be nice if RHP could show a symbol for people who are not interested in me, so I don't read their profile again, usually after a few weeks, and then if I like the profile, I will message again, forgetting they already said "no" in a flirt or message. SORRY in advance and to those I have already done this.
Also if they say age they want is 35-49, I am 50, and don't feel like 50, so I give it a go.RHP User
5 years ago
The ones that reply are fake profiles. Ive checked the profiles of girls that have sent me flirts and they don't exist. The ones that sent me a flirt and when I respond back I never hear from them again. . If you live a little remoter im sure 90% of the female profiles are fake
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