What messages work best for you?

What messages work best for you?

    | Feb 12, 2018
IntelligentSex   Man 36yrs
Obviously different people will have different answers to this but what sort of first message works for you? Do you prefer people to start with something simple or are you looking for something that turns you on?

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pangolin28

Enjoy

A conversational message as if we were chatting just easy and free writing
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I_touch_myself2

IntelligentSex

Depends on the guy, his age meaning if he's potentially a keeper lol

You wouldn't have to say much at all, given my interest would already be there 😉 Some of what you wrote is exactly what I like, outdoor stuff etc. Probably politics wouldn't appeal lol but after a quick read, the sexy talk would quickly follow, or I'd be happy with that.

The biggest mojo killer for me on here is guys either asking for my pg or trying to rush me off the site. If they're happy to chat first to get to know me a little, and me them of course, they keep my attention, time to build trust and see if respect is there, in the early stages, important for me now more than ever. Also now losing interest in generic messages like 'loved your profile', prefer they personalised it just a bit, enough to have me believe they actually read my profile. Oh and if they ever sound relieved or express any kind of mention of the length of my profile spiel, I usually don't reply. If they can't take 5 minutes to read a profile, what kind of lover are they going to be?

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jayme2   Man 55yrs

First impressions ?

I need something that contains a bit of light hearted humour... sexy or straight' it doesn't matter as long as they're not too serious. So for me , it's simple stuff to start off with...
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CD_Alison   TV/CD 41yrs

Yet to find one

Still haven't found one. Zero luck so far, so interested to hear some.

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The_Antichrist   Man 39yrs

I look and aim for...

Genuine....

If the tone of their message matches the tone in their profile, I’ll be interested to talk further...

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MissRedFox   Woman 42yrs

I've now taken to the practical approach

When I recieve a message I'm looking that location, can host and face pic are ticked off.

If you ask to see my non existent PG, asked me about my "RHP experience"- please don't ask this it's not pretty, or ask me questions covered in my profile - you're out.

Messages need to be longer than a line to get me to read your profile- I know how sexy I am and yes I put up nice pictures on purpose.

I want to connect with you - I love a giggle either from the message or profile but basically you need to show me you understand this basic principle about women - our biggest sex organs are our brains and your little brain isn't enough to seduce us

Show me you get this and I may think you know what to do with a woman once you have her in your bed

XX

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DynamicCouple36   Couple Man 48yrs Woman 39yrs

We prefer

messages that show that the sender has taken the time and gone to the effort, to read through our profile wording fully.

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Lovechild17   Woman 48yrs

Yes...

Some indication that they have read my profile while still being able to provide me with a sense of who they are themselves.

Something a bit meaty and substantial interests me. With good spelling and grammar. Not too long.

Flaky, generic and empty wording or just a 'hi' doesn't get my attention and sexual references in a first email actually put me off.



LC.
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CandyD   Woman 32yrs

Lovechild

Oh me too. I love anything meaty.



First messages that hit you straight up for sex usually come across as desperate and seems like those pple will bonk any hole. Know what I mean?



So for me, charming and nice, mention something about the profile, flatter me a bit (flatter me shamelessly) whilst coming aCross as a little hard to get - like you’re not too fussed if I reply to you. Then you’ll have me hooked... I’ll want to chase you. It it has to sound genuine though. Don’t know why. Easy guys don’t turn me on much.



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Free_spirit_72   Woman 46yrs

Friendly but cheeky ...

... gets my attention in a good way and makes me smile. Straight out dirty doesn't work for me. And the minimalist 'Hi' is ho hum.

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CandyD   Woman 32yrs

Turns me on ? How would you know what turns me on? That approach never works.

The guys that write essays on all the ways they are going to

1) pleasure you and/or

2) ask you to get ready to be treated like a princess while they wine and dine you and paint your toenails and/or

3) go into great details how they will go ABC (tongue action) on your pink bits and/or

4) offer you money - offer to fly you interstate or overseas on wonderful holidays

5) offer to pound your arse to dust

6) tell you how they will dominate you

in the first message





Yeah

.

.

nah... I say. BORING!
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I_touch_myself2

MissRedFox

and what you said 👍
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HedonismSugar

This should be common sense

The best ones show they've read and understood your profile. They write to you personally, not just copy and pasting to everyone in their vicinity.

The worst initiate with an "erotic" story without even exchanging normal messages first. Not once has this ever been welcome or remotely arousing. It's usually much older men doing it, and I'm not sure how they haven't worked out by now that most women don't appreciate it

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Eiliethiya   Woman 40yrs

More than

one word or line. Those just ignore.
Comments on my profile (not just pics!), or humour and lighthearted cheekiness will always get a reply.
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Pommyfucker   Man 34yrs

In fairness

With the huge list of contradicting opinions on here wouldn't it be more logical if you ladies contacted us?

Just saying
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Simples


If they can't spell it, they aren't going to be able to do it.

Too, I prefer complete and grammatically correct sentences that are sensual and seductive. We can get down to it when we're finally nose to nose and toes to toes!

🙃😉⚡️

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I_touch_myself2

HedonismSugar

The erotic stories cringe, can't stand them either



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Mischeviouslad   Man 47yrs

What’s that?

You want to be told how to behave and communicate?

Hmmmm

😉

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Deep_Passion   Man 42yrs

Right on Pommy!!

Something to look forward to. Except most ladies need to upgrade first. 😝

Now where’s that run for fucking cover emoji... 😂

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Pommyfucker   Man 34yrs

It's pretty bad that more women don't cough up a bit

It's literally the price of one drink in a bar! Per month! Seriously you chicks bang on about equality all the time yet most of you are so tight that when you fart only dogs can hear it.

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