What do Women think of Young Inexperienced Men

What do Women think of Young Inexperienced Men

    | Mar 18, 2018
Ty6417   Man 25yrs
What do Women think of Young Inexperienced Men? I have been unlucky enough to have never had sex. I'm 24 now :s I was too focused on my studies, working, job hunting etc and used to be really shy growing up. I also did nearly get lucky when I was 20 but my dickhead father ended up fucking her lmao. Now I've moved to a new city and have a really good job, I'm looking at having all the fun I missed out on growing up. I'm attractive, a good conversationalist (except at bars as I can't fucking hear anyone) and I'm not even the geeky type you would expect (into MMA and stuff - most people wouldn't believe my situation if I told them...not that I would) but I'm not really that good at approaching so I guess in that sense I'm not completely over my shyness. A lot of women and couples on here are not interested for obvious reasons but is it really that much of a turn off? Would you suggest a hooker? I mean I may as well have bought one with the money I've spent on some of these subscriptions haha. Anyone interested? lol
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CucknShells   Woman 50yrs

I would




recommend you watch the series


Luke Warm Sex by the comedian Luke McGregor.

It is really interesting and educational. It might give you some insight.


He was in a similar position to yourself.

I think knowledge is empowering and also can improve your confidence.

At the end of the day it doesn't matter how experienced you may or may not be the sexiest thing about someone I feel is them believing in yourself.


Hope that helps even though I didn't really answer your question.


Shells xx

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SuperFoxxxy   Woman 47yrs

My answer

Welcome and best of luck. I'm sure you'll find a good teacher.

As per my profile: If you have unfinished Baggage, emotionally unavailable and your shit is not together, I am not interested, as I do not want to be placed in any awkward situations that will make me, you or anyone else uncomfortable.

Ms Foxy
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curiosityx

One suggestion

Work on your profile a bit. Write something interesting, and try putting up some pics that aren't a messy background. A lot of people will instantly dismiss you with the bathroom pic as it's so common and, honestly, a bit off-putting. Details are everything.

- Posted from rhpmobile
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MrMojoRisin   Man 65yrs

Well

If this thread doesn't attract any offers, I would suggest booking two hours, or more, with a working girl. Make sure you are upfront about your situation from the get go.

Good luck, pop that cherry and never look back.
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inspirit   Woman 55yrs

Suggest..

You see a lady of the night.. Once you get your dick in, you'll know what the hell you've been missing out on. Then you'll be a horny bul at a gate and no stopping the confidence then..

Nawwww Meander,
You are too nurturing.. 😍

I'd probably bend him over and spank him for being untidy. 😈





- Posted from rhpmobile
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Ty6417   Man 25yrs

...




Quoting 'Meander'

You're a man. A Grown-up. So present yourself as one.

Your profile says you want someone to show you things in the bedroom, and frankly right now all I want to do is show you how to make your bed and put your clothes in your hamper.

Do better and you will attract better, in my opinion.


lol didn't even think of that haha thanks :)


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Ty6417   Man 25yrs

thanks




Quoting 'curiosityx'

Work on your profile a bit. Write something interesting, and try putting up some pics that aren't a messy background. A lot of people will instantly dismiss you with the bathroom pic as it's so common and, honestly, a bit off-putting. Details are everything.

- Posted from rhpmobile
thanks for the advice. What type of photos would you reccomend for this site? Full nudes are a turn off it seems? just a nice body shot plain background? In terms of profile I didn't think this site required a full on write up like a dating site about your hobbies and interests etc. maybe I should add those in?
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Ty6417   Man 25yrs

Might have to




Quoting 'MrMojoRisin'

If this thread doesn't attract any offers, I would suggest booking two hours, or more, with a working girl. Make sure you are upfront about your situation from the get go.


Good luck, pop that cherry and never look back.
Yea I feel part of the problem is I feel too old to be inexperienced, so this way I may not experience true intimacy but at least I can learn the motions so to speak and gain a bit of confidence in that regard; knowing that I'll know what to do when the time comes. Still feel like a bit of a loser losing it that way though haha.
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pangolin28

Ty

Been in your shoes before, all I can say is don't just go and fuck anything you may regret it as I did. Be selective and patient it will happen but if the sexual tension is too much and you can afford it look at the professional side. In some cases these women will be more understanding of your situation than some others will be. All the best bud
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MrMojoRisin   Man 65yrs

Ty

Up until fairly recently I was able to say I knew more working girls personally than professionally.
Since the wife lost interest in sex I get it where I can, I have a couple of girl friends who I can see by appointment and sometimes I see a working girl because it's easy to just walk in and get on with it.
People often under estimate working girls, they are people just like the rest of us and they have their own lives, ambitions and goals. Most of them are nice people and I think you will find that you will be shown great compassion, so be up front with them. They are used to men being nervous about visiting them and will do their best to set you at ease.
If you go down that path plan ahead by finding who you want to go with and, on reflection, I would recommend that you book as long a time as you can afford. The more time you have the more you can have a second or third round...
After there's only one first time and then there's the gaining of experience. If you choose the right girl she will teach you a bit about how to give a girl what she wants, and it really is about the mutual scratching of "itches".
Do yourself a favour and make it memorable, don't rock up for the 30 minute quickie, you will regret that later.
Best wishes and do tell us about it later, remember you've already broken the ice here, there's no turning back now.
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MrMojoRisin   Man 65yrs

Oh Ty welcome to RHP

People like me often give you their two cents worth even though you were specifically asking women...
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The_Antichrist   Man 39yrs

Hmmm....

You only see your inexperience as an obstacle because you believe it to be one....

Someone that’s had lots of sex isn’t always a good fuck....

The sex is a physical act....

A connection that amplified the experience is NOT physical...it’s mental....

Which makes even the most experienced fuckers at no real advantage if the connection is missing.....



- Posted from rhpmobile
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Ty6417   Man 25yrs

Cheers




Quoting 'pangolin28'

Been in your shoes before, all I can say is don't just go and fuck anything you may regret it as I did. Be selective and patient it will happen but if the sexual tension is too much and you can afford it look at the professional side. In some cases these women will be more understanding of your situation than some others will be. All the best bud
Thanks man. Will see how I go. Nice to hear from someone that's been in my shoes in the past. I'm assuming sex life has been good since? I've heard leaving it till late can cause erectile disfunction...'studies' have been done apparently. I also sometimes feel it may affect future relationships and that I will always be inexperienced in comparison to others my age; though I suppose it's like driving a car. Some people can pick it up quick and be better drivers (fuckers) at a young age, compared to those that have been driving (fucking) for years.
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Ty6417   Man 25yrs

Private Escort vs Brothel




Quoting 'MrMojoRisin'

People like me often give you their two cents worth even though you were specifically asking women...
Thanks for the advice and appreciate the 2 cents. Might end up going down that route as I doubt I'll meet anyone soon and don't really want to make it to 25 still in this situation.

Would you recommend privately advertised escorts or like an actual brothel? Brothel seems a bit daunting
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Lovechild17   Woman 48yrs

No matter

How it happens or comes about I hope it ends up being everything you are wanting and hoping for.

Good luck.



LC.
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EarthQueen   Woman 47yrs

Personally its not a turn off

You aren't that old and your candid honesty is refreshing. Hopefully you will have some interest here.
Also I'm sure the experience with your Dad doing that to you must have been very difficult ....and also its really fucked up.

Sorry that happened to you.

Don't have much to add just that good luck whatever direction you chose and hope its good for you.
When you are out and wanting to chat up girls don't think about lack of confidence. Go with the old fake it till you make it. Just ask questions and be a good listener and compliment them in authentic ways. Just go for it. Whats the worst that can happen?


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Ty6417   Man 25yrs

what i want




Quoting 'Meander'


I like some nice upper body and full body shots, ideally not taken in the bathroom mirror. But no gym selfies please.
Background matters to a lot of women, so make sure it is not distracting, and clutter free. No towels on the floor, dirty toilets or mirrors, or general mess. And please make sure your bedroom looks inviting!
I like pics with animals (though they're supposedly not allowed) but photos with the catch of the day suck, imo. So do pics with tongues out, gang signs and raised middle fingers.

Always have face pics available, put them in PG1 if you're afraid of being recognised. If you have x-rated shots I suggest you keep them in your PG2, and only show them on request. Cock shots are an acquired taste.

As for what to write: what do do want to attract? I saw you checked out out my profile. I've been here a while, and my profile is long and detailed because I am now looking for one man for something more long term. So it's important we are compatible on many different levels. If I was looking for my next fuck, five lines might suffice ;-)
Get my drift?
My 2cts: Be clear, be upfront, be honest. Be firm about what you want and don't back down. Don't make promises you can't keep. If you respect your own boundaries and the other person's at all times, you can't really go wrong.

Thanks Meander appreciate it. Will have to work on my profile and tidy my room haha. Body shot without a mirror may be difficult though. Hard to work those angles ;)

As for what I am attracting, well I didn't think you could get a long term relationship off a site like this, but I guess it does seem less pervy than some of the others sites so I could be wrong. But yeah I get what you are saying. My few lines I thought was sufficient for that 'next fuck' lol. Will have to just completely lay my situation out on the table.

I'd like to attract a long term girlfriend but also at the same time something just friends with benefits, or even a one night stand. I'm at the point where I'm up for anything, but at the same time I wouldn't want to have sex with only one girl in my lifetime, so I guess the smarter option would be a friends with benefits arrangement, as it's nice to still have some kind of connection... but then with that just got to be careful that I don't start to think it's something more, so I don't know maybe a one night stand would be smarter haha. Maybe just mention up for any possibility lol
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Ty6417   Man 25yrs

:)




Quoting 'EarthQueen'

You aren't that old and your candid honesty is refreshing. Hopefully you will have some interest here.
Also I'm sure the experience with your Dad doing that to you must have been very difficult ....and also its really fucked up.

Sorry that happened to you.

Don't have much to add just that good luck whatever direction you chose and hope its good for you.
When you are out and wanting to chat up girls don't think about lack of confidence. Go with the old fake it till you make it. Just ask questions and be a good listener and compliment them in authentic ways. Just go for it. Whats the worst that can happen?



Yeah messed me up for a while but algood now lol. But thanks.

Yeah I'll have to keep working on it. Hard because in those situations i tend to run out of conversation, partly because nerves I guess...like because the intent is there if you understand? And even though I can be quite talkative when I want to be, I'm still an introvert and have always been known as quiet and mysterious. I like being known as mysterious but not quiet. Most the girls I have met like the really loud cocky wankers, which funnily enough I would put them in their place very easily if push came to shove.

Yet when I'm put into a situation where I meet a girl outside of a club etc like through a friend or them being a housemate, I'm pretty good with the convos (and since moving here these woman have all been taken unfortunately haha). Because the intent is to just chat and not pick up...just gotta some how rewire my brain to think that I'm not trying to pick up
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Ty6417   Man 25yrs

true




Quoting 'The_Antichrist'

You only see your inexperience as an obstacle because you believe it to be one....



Someone that’s had lots of sex isn’t always a good fuck....



The sex is a physical act....



A connection that amplified the experience is NOT physical...it’s mental....



Which makes even the most experienced fuckers at no real advantage if the connection is missing.....





- Posted from rhpmobile
Hey mate. Didn't see this but yeah I get what your saying. Refer to my reply underneath yours about driving the car. Same deal yeah...I guess experience is nothing after all, it's just what's in your head and how quickly you can learn and the emotions behind it. Thank fuck I'm smart haha
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gazpacho   Man 57yrs

No mystery.

Mate you’re under thirty.

Everyone under thirty looks absolutely drop dead gorgeous. We just don’t realise that factuntil we hit our fourties. Get out and about, meet a pretty young thing your age who is likely just as shy, and if so, probably just as innocent, and let nature take its course.



I wouldn’t spend money on a pro, looking the way you do... you can easily pick up.

Hugs

Gaz

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