The droughts

The droughts

    | Feb 03, 2018
Alien_Sex_Fiend   Woman 39yrs
So, it's been over a year now since I've had sex, making this my longest drought ever since I've been sexually active.

What's your longest sex drought?
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UnicornPair   Couple Man 29yrs Woman 33yrs

How?

How are you in a drought? You are smoking hot.
My longest drought was probably about 2 months give or take a week.
My condolences though lol.

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davek75   Man 43yrs

Drought

Almost 2years of self harm. It's not a good thing
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OkeyDoke45   Man 48yrs

Seven years...

Seven long bloody years. This was back when I was younger, I was a very unsexy, skinny thing with no confidence at all. You know that oft-used phrase "I see you more as just a friend''? That was my life. Seven bloody years of it.
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KJ1971   Man 46yrs

Drought

It sounds like FNQ is in need of a cyclone to break the terrible drought being suffered up there. I am guessing that the drought is by choice as you are an extremely attractive woman. Hopefully your transformation gives you a drought-breaking experience.

Mine would be 3-4 months when I was still with my ex but that wasn't enjoyable anyway so I would have been better off not bothering. Hasn't improved much since then but at least I am happy and in a better space on my own.
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the_antichrist   Man 38yrs

For me...

Easter 2 years ago......

- Posted from rhpmobile
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the_antichrist   Man 38yrs

Unicornpair...

I don’t it’s fair to assume that just cos someone is hot m, that they must be having lots of sex...

The reasons for the OP’s drought I think are her own....

- Posted from rhpmobile
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Agree with AC as to...


...personal reasons and reasonable to assume it isn't due to any physical attributes.

A few years ago and by choice, I needed and wanted to take a well-deserved break from it all. Focused on myself and had a blast catching fish on three continents and training up my dogs!

More to life than...dating naked!

CM now out of retirement and declaring war on celibacy!

⚡️👍🔫💣

- Posted from rhpmobile
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inthemarket  

Man 39yrs

:/

2 long years.

Lots of reasons of which i'm not willing to go into here.

But it suuuucccckkkkksssssss
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Alien_Sex_Fiend   Woman 39yrs

anti

Quoting 'the_antichrist'

I don’t it’s fair to assume that just cos someone is hot m, that they must be having lots of sex...



Very true. Can't count how many times I've had the 'but you're hot how can you not be having sex?!' thing now.
Without going into gory details, my drought is a combination of:
- a few quite stressful life events which have meant that sex and chasing sex is very low on my priority list
- having a lot going on in general - finishing my degree, job hunting, starting a new job, associated issues with job, and more job hunting
- living in a small regional city in a conservative part of the country, where my choices are quite limited and finding compatible people I actually want to shag is not an easy thing

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Lovechild17   Woman 47yrs

I can't

remember.



LC.
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Meander   Woman 45yrs

About

16 months, during my last relationship.

Knowing he didn't desire me or wanted intimacy was soul destroying.

Never again.
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Joie_deVivre   Woman 34yrs

Virtually sexless marriage

I just left one.... prior to that, longest drought was a year mostly by choice I think. Btw @ OP - love your pics! Those body stockings are gorgeous and that necklace 🦄👌🏼

- Posted from rhpmobile
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pangolin28   Man 47yrs

Don't fall of your chair, bed .......

I chose to be celibate while undiagnosed with my bipolar as I could not give to myself let alone someone else and I'd seen way to much shit people had put on each other and refused to do so myself. It lasted for around 12 years. Oh thank goodness for sleeves and pocket pussies. I knocked back many opportunities and copped heaps of shit from friends as sadly a man is not considered a man in a lot of cases if he isn't putting his dick in some woman. Oh and the one that pissed me off the most was people saying to get over what was going on with me I just needed a good root. Just pure lack of understanding, compassion and empathy.

Also relate to Okey's comment kind of. As I have always been a gentleman and grew up with a lot of female influence I would stand by the girls when they were getting harassed or treated badly so I was always every females go to male friend, if only they knew how hard that was for me at times
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lovman8   Man 66yrs

20 Months.......

and counting. Due to prostate removal and on going hormone treatment ,the equipment is non functional and masturbation is even off the agenda and I'm finding it one of the hardest things to accept about my situation. So its lucky I'm a bit of a wanker anyway!
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Alien_Sex_Fiend   Woman 39yrs

Joie_deVivre

Thankyou very much
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lovebitten  

Woman 40yrs

4 years

I left an abusive 5 year marriage at age 25. I had a 2 year old and a four year old, and honestly, I was scared of men.i went back to post grad study and met a very kind man. Drought broken lol.that relationship long over but I'll always be appreciative to him for helping me get my confidence back.

I'm typing on my phone, please excuse typos ☺️

- Posted from rhpmobile
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Sweetpunk   Woman 43yrs

Jeez let’s see

4yrs & 2 months, nada! I knew that I had to be a strong, independent woman and build a life on my own. No man was worth just getting involved with for the hell of just having a relationship and a false security. I had much more important things in my life to focus on.
It was a long, long period of self discovery 😂

- Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36  

Couple Man 47yrs Woman 39yrs

Alien sex fiend

Your profile is unavailable ? Certainly is to us. Can others see it ?

If not then this might be why you are having a drought

- Posted from rhpmobile
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Alien_Sex_Fiend   Woman 39yrs

DynamicCouple

My profile is available to most.

See above for reasons behind my drought. I didn't post the topic to obtain advice on how to break that drought, am just interested in others' experiences so if you have something to add in that respect please feel free to share.
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OkeyDoke45   Man 48yrs

I knew it!

ASF, when you said you had moved to a very conservative part of the country I though ''Queensland''. I was bloody well right!

An ex-Queenslander myself, I was amazed when I moved away to find broad-minded people and thinking (and this in the NT of all places). I went back a couple of years ago and it was like a time capsule, still the same old narrow thinking with a lot of people in NQ.

Sorry to all Queenslanders, I am not suggesting that you are all like this at all. It is just quite prevalent in Katter country.

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