Strangers in your home...

Strangers in your home...

    | Jan 24, 2018
freogirl66  

Woman 51yrs
There's hardly a day goes by when some random guy on here suggests he comes to my home, without ever meeting me. It's always "I can come to you", or "I can drive" or "I come over, you are in your lingerie waiting for me.." or "


how about invite me over answer door naked i kiss you hard then feel you
all over and kiss you all over and take you to your bed and ravage you
and make you cum?"

I'm sure EVERY female has had similar messages like these - sometimes even the first message from a guy! I love it when they get surprised when you knock back such an outstanding offer.

Do women really take up these dangerous offers? they must if so many guys seem to think this is ok.

Even the guy suggesting this is putting himself at risk.

I'm off my soap box now :)
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Meander   Woman 45yrs

Yes, all the time

There is no way I'd invite a stranger into my home without having met in a public place first.

Guys, I'm curious: Have women ever taken you up on these offers?

I'm aware some gals here are into the so-called ninja fucks, where they are blindfolded the entire time and never even see the man, but I can't imagine there'd be many of them?

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norush66a  

Woman 51yrs

I agree

It's such a stupid risk to take for both parties. Who is to say that there is a sexy girl waiting for a guy and not a bunch of guys up for a gang rape.

Nah if you can't be bothered meeting and chatting a bit, just move on, I'm not putting myself at risk. Even when I think I know someone a little bit, first time at their place I always ask for the address first and let them know it will be given to my daughter or friend. That way police know where to start looking if I don't make it home 😲
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CandyDelicious   Woman 31yrs

Ha!

No fricken way would I do that!! I always to go their place. 🤣


I’ve offered people a place to stay at my place before, just on knowing them on an online forum. Men and women. But, I guess that’s a bit different to doing that based on one message.
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Lovechild17   Woman 47yrs

Never a good idea...

To let someone in like that.



LC.
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jayme2   Man 54yrs

I'm the opposite...

I always encourage a lady to meet over a coffee first up.. I figure if I can see and chat with them before anything , we both have the opportunity to find out if it's worthwhile or not..

If I'm not attracted , and vice versa ? No point... If we click '. Happy days..
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HappyGoLucky70  

Woman 47yrs

Yeah I've had some

Say can I come over? I am happy to travel to yours and I'll tell them that my kids are here and they've said that we can meet in my garden. WTF!!!. Also one asked me what are you doing? Told him I was cooking tea for the kids. He said can you come over anyway?
I get that there are horny men with lots of spare time but I'm a mother first and foremost and would never dream of having anyone over when my kids are here or rushing off for a quick shag with a stranger.

- Posted from rhpmobile
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countrytouch   Man 35yrs

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Quoting 'Meander'

Guys, I'm curious: Have women ever taken you up on these offers?

No, not after a lame first message like the OP suggests (which I have not sent regardless). However I have met more than once a single woman at her house for the first face to face meet (platonic or otherwise), however, that was after a fair number of messages and talking on the phone.
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PeachyPearL   Woman 54yrs

Speaking as a couple,

That's a no for me, and meeting up so we can do it in a car because the guy were meeting can't host doesn't work either. It was theirs and hotels.

I'm wary about giving out any details in regard to me and a lot of people we know don't even know where we live, lol. Fewer still have visited.

Haha, oh sorry, that's not what you asked. No, I don't remember getting messages like that, but we are a couple so a bit different. Peachy
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PurePeony   Woman 43yrs

Perogative

Safety is paramount for me. I will never trust a stranger, much less let him into my home.



Good topic, freogirl! 😉
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Eroslovechild   Man 51yrs

Yes

Ive met a girl at my place for first meeting but after numerous txts and a couple of phone calls...wish i met her on nuetral ground first because i probably wouldnt have taken it further...normally meet in public and will do this in the future...just not worth the risk

- Posted from rhpmobile
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freogirl66  

Woman 51yrs

The car..




Quoting 'PeachyPearL'

That's a no for me, and meeting up so we can do it in a car because the guy were meeting can't host doesn't work either. It was theirs and hotels.

I'm wary about giving out any details in regard to me and a lot of people we know don't even know where we live, lol. Fewer still have visited.

Haha, oh sorry, that's not what you asked. No, I don't remember getting messages like that, but we are a couple so a bit different. Peachy



That's another awesome offer lol
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freogirl66  

Woman 51yrs

The garden..




Quoting 'HappyGoLucky70'

Say can I come over? I am happy to travel to yours and I'll tell them that my kids are here and they've said that we can meet in my garden. WTF!!!. Also one asked me what are you doing? Told him I was cooking tea for the kids. He said can you come over anyway?

I get that there are horny men with lots of spare time but I'm a mother first and foremost and would never dream of having anyone over when my kids are here or rushing off for a quick shag with a stranger.

- Posted from rhpmobile


That's a new one! I've had "could we do it in your garage"?
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MsJonesy   Woman 50yrs

Do women take up these offers...

Yes some do. I have heard of it before, my memory says I have read it on here at some point a few years ago.

I've heard/read of women having men over (total strangers) whilst their children are asleep....in the house.(Let me just say if I knew these women my fingers would not be able to dial child protection services fast enough!)

Would I do it?

Nope, no, nah, fuck no, are you kidding, hell would freeze over first.
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inspirit   Woman 54yrs

Yeah...

I've done it and not just once. Probs half a dozen times. As another poster said after chatting a bit. Yeah yeah call me as you will. I have had some very luscious memorable times. 😁 Im a risk taker though not STUPID.



- Posted from rhpmobile
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PeachyPearL   Woman 54yrs

Freogirl

There have been some horror stories over the years. And how much have we not heard... Women, and the men (as you say), not saying anything because of the shame and the judgement. Good thread... Peachy
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megz85g  

Woman 33yrs

I’ve just

Gotten home from a guys place, that I started talking to on here just this afternoon. We met at his Home oops 😳

- Posted from rhpmobile
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justbecause  

Man 41yrs

dodged a potential bullet this week

I had a lady just this week who wanted to come straight over to my place.... I said no lets meet in public, go to a hotel the first time. She said ok lets meet at the hotel.... I said no lets have a quick coffee or drink first to make sure we are both comfortable. She kept refusing to meet in public first, at best she wanted to meet outside the hotel room. She told me she was too nervous to meet in public.
I didn't feel comfortable at all, alarm bells started ringing even though her language and photos suggested she was indeed genuine . I pulled the pin on the whole thing and she wasn't happy at all .
I'm 6'1 , 85kg and can generally handle myself but it's not worth the risk.
I always meet in a public place first



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Bananaboy_76   Man 41yrs

Nope

Definitely meet first play later for me. I like to think respect goes both ways too. I’ve shunned some because I was in the area but had never met, stick to your rules. Full respect to those women who do meet and play, that’s some serious self awareness and confidence that the right choice has been made.

BB

- Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway   TV/CD 54yrs

Yes

Maybe different as lm stronger and easier to look after myself but the risk is very real. I've been exposed to that reality of violence many years ago.

Risk is scalable through intuitive contact / communication.

But if you think by meeting for a coffee first is removing that risk then you are setting up a false sense of security.
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OkeyDoke45   Man 48yrs

Make sure you wear a high-vis vest....




Quoting 'CandyDelicious'

No fricken way would I do that!! I always to go their place. 🤣



I’ve offered people a place to stay at my place before, just on knowing them on an online forum. Men and women. But, I guess that’s a bit different to doing that based on one message.
How do you go from a safety standpoint with that? Do you let someone know the address you are going to?

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