Strangers and No protection

Strangers and No protection

    | Mar 21, 2019
Ty6417   Man 25yrs
So basically I have been chatting to this MILF for a while. We get along well. Have not met her yet and will get to know her more when I do. First time we meet we aren't going to do anything but meet. Now the thing is she has already told me she hates condoms. She is just out of a long relationship and she says she is clean. Thing is...How do I know...Can't trust a stranger? What if she wants me to cum in her...what if I do and she secretly wants me to so she can make babies hahaha.

I've never had unprotected sex. Would love to try just not sure how people go about it if you're not in a relationship. Do you get them to provide proof of a sex health checkup and driver licence to prove the name matches? Is this overkill? I just don't want HIV haha
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Chriscat   Woman 49yrs

Sexual health is No 1. You don’t know who else everyone you sleep with, is involved with and then their lovers. Etc. Who says her ex didn’t cheat on her?
All way to risky. I always have regular testing, new relationships only with protection, if more, both get tested.

It’s NOT worth the hassle. Someone who cannot respect your boundaries,also not worth the hassle. What other boundaries will they overstep next?
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Ty6417   Man 25yrs

Also, oral wise. I wouldn't want to but do you avoid oral sex with strangers? I mean it's part of the whole foreplay thing so you cant really skip it.. I mean you can but that's no fun lol. I'm just cautious when someone says they don't want protection... Means they could have done the same to another in the past and gotten an STD.
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luvu2

Why you are here then looking looking for a root????
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Ty6417   Man 25yrs

^what do you mean why am I on here? Lol. I have condoms? Haha
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luvu2

Sorry I never used them
Only once about 40 years ago and end up left inside her when we were finished 🤔
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FatFunFiesty   Woman 39yrs

Ignore the old troll OP.
Run a mile from this woman. Its never acceptable to have unprotected sex with casual partners. Once a person even mentions "bareback" to me... red flag..... i immediately start fading out.
Oral sex is a risk we all take i guess, but its also an option for you to NOT give.
Good luck to you x
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PassionFreaks   Couple Man 43yrs Woman 49yrs

Did you seriously get to 25 with your only concerns being HIV and making babies 😳

Results of health tests are only good if you plan on having sex in the doctors office, once you walk out the door they're worth squat.

You may want to play Russian roulette with your health but people in this lifestyle take their sexual health very seriously.
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EarthQueen   Woman 48yrs

Who does like condoms?
Nobody.
Who wants to catch an STD
Nobody
She should respect your choice and not push you to change your mind. You don’t know her history . But, at least she’s been up front , so you know her thoughts on it.

As for oral ... here’s the double standard... I wouldn’t give a BJ with a condom and I would strongly appreciate reciprocation.
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Ty6417   Man 25yrs

made me laugh




hahaha
Quoting 'luvu2'

Sorry I never used them

Only once about 40 years ago and end up left inside her when we were finished 🤔

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Ty6417   Man 25yrs

True




Quoting 'PassionFreaks'

Results of health tests are only good if you plan on having sex in the doctors office, once you walk out the door they're worth squat.

You may want to play Russian roulette with your health but people in this lifestyle take their sexual health very seriously.

Yea that's true. It's only tempting as I've never tried but I don't want to play russian roulette at all lol. And I'm not sure I understand your headline. STDs and getting a girl pregnant is everything that concerns me about unprotected sex...what else is there?? lol.

An I take it general consensus is oral is usually pretty safe?


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SuperFoxxxy   Woman 47yrs

Absolutely, you can not trust a stranger.

What if she wants me to cum in her...that is you choice. Do expect consequences.

When someone says they don't want protection (prior meeting)...it is a red Flag!

If I had these conversations with someone prior to meeting them, it would turn me right off. It is too much, over the top pushing boundaries. I mean you are over thinking things without meeting her. That alone would do my head in.

Ms Foxy



PS Pity condoms do not come in body bag size for Trolls. ;)

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Kokoflamingo  

Woman 56yrs

No




Its not worth it. Herpes is rife in Perth atm, thats another thing you dont want to catch. Ive been chatting to guys and then they say they dont wear condoms....then its tattie bye. No one likes the dratted things but we do respect our health
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AnnieWhichway   TV/CD 56yrs

Luvy




Quoting 'luvu2'

Why you are here then looking looking for a root????
Why are you here.?
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Rlee552   Man 43yrs

Mr google

There are plenty of government websites that can give you definitive medical advice on the risks associated with unprotected sex and also the risks associated with oral. TBH, do not ask the question of us. We cannot give you reassurance and this is not something you take a poll on to work out.



Please, please research it. It scares me when you ask the question that the general consensus is oral sex is okay? I am not scared about whether oral sex is okay or not, I am scared you are relying on the consensus to form a view.
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Ty6417   Man 25yrs

I've done my research but was also after what people generally consider to be ok to do as I don't know if I'm going over the top by considering not doing oral. I know there's risks associated with it all and I suppose you can get to know the person a bit and go with your instinct but I think it's best to at least keep the condom on. And that seems to be general consensus as well.
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Ty6417   Man 25yrs

Was mainly asking the question if you get your casual partners to provide evidence of sex health check ups. Seems there's not much point in that anyway as they take 2 weeks to provide a result so they are 2 weeks old anyway...and best to avoid no protection altogether
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AnnieWhichway   TV/CD 56yrs

You should be worried about other than hiv

With the now nearly untreatable forms of superbugs of gonnoreah and syphilis, there are many reasons for protection. Death in a very unpleasant way is now a reality.



I know someone that came back from Asia with one of these. 6 months in care, many of those in a mental stupor. He was lucky to make a complete recovery.

In coming years, the sexual lifestyle is going to change drastically.
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SuperFoxxxy   Woman 47yrs

Ty6417

If you are that anxious and concerned go out but your own condoms, dental dams, and get tested. That way you have your own supplies.

Ms Foxy

PS buy a raincoat, snorkel, wet suit, find and goggles too. Like a boy scout - Be prepared, just in case the flood gates open. 😂☔

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SuperFoxxxy   Woman 47yrs

TY

You do realize not all the responsibility lays with you. The lady has to be accountable for her part too. She's a "MILF", so she should know better and be aware of the risks etc. If she hates condoms, that is not your issue. That's hers.

Ms Foxy

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The_Antichrist   Man 40yrs

Here’s how I see it....

I’m responsible for MY health...
They are responsible for THEIRS....

If I WANT a particular outcome that’s not compatible with THEIR health, than WE as a couple aren’t compatible..

And vice versa...

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