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Singles at swingers clubs/parties.
August 13 2019
- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
5 years ago
Why the hell not. Do you, and no one else. I go on my own all the time. Yes it is cheaper for women (which I disagree with but think most women won't go if prices were higher).
I don't do couples. I'd love so much to see more or any single men at them (and ones that aren't a-holes by messaging me if I'd like to fuck somewhere else beforehand).
Unfortunately for me it's mostly social I go now. The single men, there if there are any, never approach me.
FeistyFatty
5 years ago
The single men arent usually there to fuck the single women. Id be happy for more men at the clubs, less single women and then the couples...... all in together..... bliss.
DynamicCouple36
5 years ago
Depends on the party or club
Some allow single guys and others are for couples & single females only.
Be respectful, don’t be pushy or predatory, and ask before you touch or move closer. And remember that no always means NO. Never question why. Just accept it and move on.
Check out the events section for further details of clubs & parties.
teamaj2
5 years ago
We love single men attending events . Sadly alot of events don’t allow it . They only allow single women and couples .
The etiquette is the same as anywhere . Always ask if it’s ok to join play . It’s important , not only for single men but everyone to have respect for others .
I feel it’s harder for single men than women and couples to approach people . Not easy for them ( I have been told ) .
The event we like to attend allows limited single men and it works well .
Good luck Sumfun .
GotTheSkills
5 years ago
I attended my first event recently and luckily met up with a few fellow enthusiasts before hand for dinner and all went to the club together.. I met some amazing people.. so friendly and welcoming.. I couldn’t have felt more welcome.. I had a great night lots of laughs, new friends made and I’ll be definitely returning soon..
Sawadee
5 years ago
I understand why only selected men are allowed. But what id like to know ' is how the selection process works ?
At the risk of sounding like l think im something special , i feel lm presentable, well groomed , respectful, courtious, mannered and not too bad on the eye ( or so im told ) .. ? So what does it take for a man make the cut and who decides if he's acceptable or not .? Curious ?teamaj2
5 years ago
Hi sawadee
I don’t run the event , we attend and yes sometimes I help host . I have no say in ‘selection’ process ‘ or with taking bookings .
From my understanding they must phone and speak to the organisers . This enables them to explain rules in regards to respect , boundaries , dress code and what to expect on the night . They must send a live face picture . The people that run the event find that they can get a feel for people via a phone conversation. It is basically a case of whomever books first gets to go to the event . Single male places fill up very fast . It works well and in the two years the event has been running I find everyone to be friendly , respectful and never pushy.
Like everything in life and on RHP we all like different things . We prefer an event that allows single males . We also find it good that the numbers that attend are well balanced.
sweetnsensual
5 years ago
When we run events we are lucky to ever get one single guy reply
Not sure why single guys never attend!risto123
5 years ago
Would like to know what parties are best for single guys in Victoria
RHP User
5 years ago
It's not weird or frowned upon at all
...in fact, at the voracious vuxrbs nights at chateau vino on the gold coast, ..where there are supposed to be lots of guys for the horny ladies to choose from, there are seldom enough single guys there!RHP User
5 years ago
I’m looking to go to swingers club in Brisbane kinda shy a snow scared any tips 🤔
Sawadee
5 years ago
Hi guys ' thanks for your detailed reply. You explained things very well. At least l now know what the process is if l ever wanted to be involved. Like you say ' we all like different things and id imagine this goes for the folk involved in the selection process also. The very fact that you feel your being judged is a little off putting but i do understand why. You live and learn... 🤗 Sawadee..
RHP User
5 years ago
sweetsensul ill be you single guy any day of the week - tie me up if you nee to :)
sweetnsensual
5 years ago
We have stopped inviting single guys to events now as they are generally no shows lol
sweetnsensual
5 years ago
We have run 5 events and had an average of one guy at each event despite lots of interest so don’t invite guys now.
Only two of the guys actually socialised the others didn’t or couldn’t engage despite being supported.
It’s so much easier not to have them there
Mask_007
5 years ago
Not to ling ago i did got talking with some people about the same subject and the conclusion wa that some couples(probably the majority) are not interested in sharing the girls with other guy, they there for more girls... I am sure is not everyones case.
I try to join in abd put my name down for some swingers parties and so far no reply a part of the very common "sorry mate the event is not for single guys"
All well i did give up after time.
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