Single men who won’t read profiles.

Single men who won’t read profiles.

    | Aug 31, 2018
SatyrandNymph  

Couple Man 40yrs Woman 39yrs
Why so many single men don’t/won’t read profiles?

Is it about sending short one liners to as many people as possible and expecting at least one of them to bite the fishing rod as opposed to the hassle of reading a profile then writing a proper message and not getting a response?

And seriously, does anyone really expect a couple to go the extra mile and ask a single man to give them access to his photos every time some anonymous dude messages them?

Because right now we are just erasing messages/flirts from profiles without photos regardless of the content of the message as they are cluttering the place so bad we are having hard time locating good profiles.

No face photo is fair enough, but nothing at all? Really?

And when you actually read the messages you wish you just erased them without looking.

Does anyone actually respond to messages like these?

-iamma put ma dik in ya, whatcha say?
-I AM KINKY AS FUUUUUUK!!!!
-Hey bro
-sandwich me
-I pack a lot of meat, want some?
-I am extremely horny so I can go all night
-I drive!

Someone, somewhere must be thinking these are acceptable opening lines?




- Posted from rhpmobile
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yourtoytouse  

Man 44yrs

one line crappy messages

Each time I read a topic on this, that almost always shows that clearly one liners don't work, and are usually offensive, I do really laugh ! Every single couple I have met, or chatted to say the same thing, so I really fail to get why the majority continue to do it ! Perhaps it's an age thing, be interested to see others thoughts on this.
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SatyrandNymph  

Couple Man 40yrs Woman 39yrs

“Perhaps it’s an age thing”

Well, most of these one liners are coming from under 30s, so it’s very likely.

Lack of life experience?

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The_Antichrist   Man 39yrs

Like everything that occurs these days....

People want a shortcut to their success...

For some it’s verified profiles....and in this case it’s one line messages without too much effort....

You cannot control how others act, you can only control your own response to the event that occurs....



- Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway   TV/CD 55yrs

Then

They put up a pity me thread..

I think they tap the keyboard with their dick.
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pipsqueak

I Think The Forum Title Should Read

People who won’t read profiles



I am constantly contacted , as I’m sure other single women are, by couples looking for a unicorn even though my own profile specifically mentions that I’m not interested but that’s ignored all the time. Mainly it’s the man writing, stating that his allowed to play alone and am I interested ? or alternatively this couple will state that they unique and different from every other couple on site and let’s talk. They’re not



So no it’s not just single men who won’t read as I’m sure it’s also single women and I know it’s couples who won’t read profiles as well. It’s not dynamo specific, it’s just people



Reading takes commitment and who can be bothered in this day and age where instant gratification and self entitlement rule ? People do what they want to do and damn the consequences



Yes I get the type of messages that you mention even though again I state specifically for no one to contact me under the age of 35 , but yet again they do because they believe they are the exception to the norm, they aren’t



It’s just part of being online, so just block, ignore, don’t answer or send a polite template and move on but please don’t make it just about single men



It’s people period
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Supernova  

Man 32yrs

At the same token...

Us guys can put a wealth of effort into writing well thought-out, articulate, and personal messages, only to get one-line answers back or none at all.

So basically sometimes we get lazy as we all know - chemistry is more important to 99% of people.

I know you're all going to say "OH BUT THATS RUBBISH!!! YOU NEED TO SEDUCE MY MIND BEFORE YOU GET TO MY BODY!!"

But at the end of the day NOTHING us guys write will get us ANYWHERE if there is no "SPARK" As many of you put it.

So in the end, simple, stupid one line messages can actually be just as ineffective as a well-written paragraph.

So, many guys sometimes just use messages as a way of drawing attention to our profiles to see if you like what you SEE.

If well thought-out messages were rewarded more often, we might actually bother a little more to put the effort in.

But as that "german lifter" experiment on tinder showed (google it, its absolutely jaw-dropping) The hottest guys can say the most deplorable things and the women literally don't care, and will still jump at the chance to meet or exchange numbers.

looks are absolutely the most important thing, what we say is undoubtedly second, and the better looking the guy, the less effort required 😉


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Mischeviouslad   Man 47yrs

.

Profiles have words too

The ones who don’t read them will often not have added words in their own

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FatFunFiesty   Woman 38yrs

Not only men

I actually get more messages from couples who can't even read past my first line in bold that states no couples. They shit me off a hell of a lot more than a bloke trying his luck, at least I'm interested in them lol

- Posted from rhpmobile
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Annie,



"I think they tap the keyboard with their dick".



Looks like I'm gunna need a bigger keyboard! 🤔

Obi1
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woody_pusscat   Couple Man 56yrs Woman 52yrs

I don't read

People dont read anything these days. It happens in real life too.

Pusscat xxx
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DynamicCouple36   Couple Man 48yrs Woman 39yrs

Nahhhhh

They only look at them pwetty pics.

Then when their little brains become engorged with throbbing, lustful blood, they send out lame self entitled and often disrespectful messages, demanding sex for the membership fee that they have paid

- Posted from rhpmobile
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deepestpurple   Man 36yrs

Pretty much




Quoting 'SatyrandNymph'
Is it about sending short one liners to as many people as possible and
expecting at least one of them to bite the fishing rod as opposed to the
hassle of reading a profile then writing a proper message and not
getting a response?



Yes.

When the probability of success is very low the optimal strategy is a low effort / high volume approach. Can you blame them for doing what works? It's about the pics, one could spam random characters in the message text and still get about the same result.
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Mischeviouslad   Man 47yrs

@ Pipsqueak

if youre going to keep liking my post comments.... ya gotta send me a message/unlock your mailbox.


its a rule


I don't make the rules


I ignore them

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OkeyDoke45   Man 48yrs

Wow. Just wow...

Supernova I googled that ''study'' you cited and I don't know why I was surprised, but I was. You could almost hear the underwear being dropped by the women, after some of the most blatantly explicit openers from Germanlifter. I googled to see if it was possibly ''fake news'' but it seems legitimate.

Takeaway wisdom? Lines that are considered ''creepy'' by most other ordinary men were lapped up by the women based on his profile pics alone. I could not see if there were any knockbacks (and I'm sure there were at least a few).

(Some) women demonstrating the very shallowness they would probably otherwise accuse more ordinary candidates of? Noooo… surely not...

Thank you for bringing at least some sort of balance to this very hackneyed argument.
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Meander   Woman 45yrs

Agree,

It's people, not just men.

Sadly for too many here it's too easy to forget they're dealing with actual human beings rather than mere pics and words.
They think the same rules for approaching a person don't apply; no introduction, basic respect or respecting of boundaries needed when it's just cyberspace, right?

And yeah, if I had a dollar for all the ones who did read my profile, but then wrote "I know I'm not what you're looking for, but...!"


Thank gods for the very many good people here who continue to make me smile.






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pipsqueak

Ha

Mischievous Lad, up until yesterday I was a member as I thought optimiscally that I would be messaging many Sydney men once I landed here, but, I’ve been a bit..... underwhelmed ...so I’ve let my membership lapse



Let me mull this one over



:-)



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SatyrandNymph  

Couple Man 40yrs Woman 39yrs

Supernova

“looks are absolutely the most important thing, what we say is undoubtedly second, and the better looking the guy, the less effort required 😉 “

Not really, at least not for everyone.

I am the male half of the couple and last two encounters my other half had with men were with two guys who had average looks and pretty average bodies.

My girl chose them over some stunning men with actual fitness competitor bodies and ridiculously good looks.

You know why?
She couldn’t have a basic conversation with those super good looking guys.

Nothing going on up there above the shoulders.

As a couple our approach to people here is this; if you are out hunting for deliciousness, do you settle for a stunning shell with no pearl or an average shell with a pearl in it?

We find people without life experience and substance to be turn off, regardless of how good looking one may be, at the end of the day it’s flesh and bone and five human senses still percep the experience as normal, whereas an intense intimate connection between people who connect on many levels light up senses like New Years fireworks.

That study reflects the nature of tinder environment, it’s not a universal case.

We are both at 40s now, we have seen age being with plenty of good looking boys and girls, and at this stage our approach is that, if we cannot have a pleasant chat with people about life, current affairs, different cultures etc, we don’t generally let them into our lives.

Each to their own but we want more from people than just be glorified mannequins in bed.

Our free time is also limited which means we prefer to find few selected people we get to know and keep them in our circle.

So yeah, those stunners from tinder with horrible lines would only last 5 minutes in a dialogue with missus.

Shallowness is a big turn off.
And it usually comes with people who are in love with themselves.

Narcissos is pleasant to look at but she drowned in a lake after looking at her own image.





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SatyrandNymph  

Couple Man 40yrs Woman 39yrs

Narcissos

Was a male, I don’t know why autocorrect did what it did.

- Posted from rhpmobile
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Snap_Dragon   Woman 40yrs

Same




Quoting 'SatyrandNymph'

So yeah, those stunners from tinder with horrible lines would only last 5 minutes in a dialogue with missus.





It's funny, single men whinge when people generalise about them, but some on here drag the 'all women are shallow and only care about looks and they all want Christian Gray waaaaahhhh' crap into just about every comment. Then not long after they brag about how they shagged a hot 22 year old last weekend and apparently see no irony there whatsoever
Tinder is an app that is largely based on initial physical attraction, it's how it's designed and it appeals to people looking for hookups and more casual encounters. Finding that the more conventionally attractive people - men or women - on there have a higher hit rate is like making the shocking discovery that the Pope is Catholic. Given the choice, when looking for a casual encounter a hell of a lot of men will go for the 20-something with perky tits and no cellulite over the 40-something with a c-section scar and a few extra kilos. To apply the same argument from above - it's a people thing, not a woman thing.
I was on tinder, and I swiped past many a 20-something showing off his perfect hair and ripped abs. I matched with quite a few guys who I suppose society would class as having average looks, but their profiles were much more interesting and I knew they would be much better at giving good conversation. Same has happened on here. I don't care how good looking you are, if you send a 5 word message you're going in the bin.

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AnnieWhichway   TV/CD 55yrs

I agree with Satyr

Plenty of good looking guys message and if they could hold a half decent convo in the messages then I'd let it go the next step. Mind you, it's not just good looking guys, it's people in general. But l get that many are not good with the written word and could be great with conversation in person. But who has the inclination to invest what little spare time we have to waste it with shit meetups.

It's an online world and people have to develop the appropriate skills to survive in the online world. You only get 1 chance with most contacts. Develop your skills and you will reap the rewards.

People who are perhaps challenged in the looks department will already have found the need to make up the lost ground by developing their personality and communication skills. Most will have an average looking male friend who absolutely rocks it when out at bars etc and easily chats up the ladies and is always scoring. His good looking mate is left behind, lost for words.

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