Should I just give up?

Should I just give up?

    | Mar 12, 2019
KalaToyBoy   Man 18yrs
It seems no one wants me due to my age? Should I just come back in three years when I’m 21?

- Posted from rhpmobile
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MrMojoRisin   Man 65yrs

Yeah fair call Xanthea

I was 3 years old when my father died, a few other bad things happened before I turned 18, and some more later.

I stand by previous post as I worded it, you're free to hate it as much as you like. You can even argue with the validity of that post if you want.

I think that the fact that young people experience adverse circumstances early on actually increases the chance of having further adverse circumstances later in life.

The fact is some people have charmed lives and some don't. There's little we can do to change that.
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Gr8distraction   Man 46yrs

Xanth

I feel there might be a misunderstanding.

My reply was purely about me, in that i clicked the like button on Mojo's post.
I still agree with what Mojo writes, as it was probably what i was thinking at the time.
Please don't think there was any reference to yourselves otherthan the fact that made a good point, that made me think a little more.
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LetsFrolic   Man 41yrs

Nobody wants me and I'm 42 this year..all u wanted was a liver to share life with amd have kinky sex with. Even a family would be nice. At least you have your life ahead of you.. because I'm a nice guy women judge it as a crush or fake or whatever they choose. Anyway point is basically my time is up, you have your whole life ahead
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Xenaesque

Ffs there’s are lot of pity posts in here mixed in with sincerity.. all for the sincerity posts as for the pity posts well.....

If I gave up every time I was ignored or logged on and didn’t have any views or messages or flirts or gave up for every time we’ve been stood up

Life sucks sometimes.. we don’t get what we want.
We have to wait on the sidelines.
We also have to create opportunities so we get ourselves off the sidelines..

There’s nothing to say it’ll be easier in two weeks, 6 months or 3 years time - stick it out or give it up.
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Kokoflamingo  

Woman 55yrs

At the other end of the spectrum...

I joined here at the age of 50, with not much expectation. Ive had an awesome 5 years. Made good friends and had some gorgeous lovers. Going to events and meeting people did it for me. Try and get out there and socialise. Good luck!
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horneycouplewa   Couple Man 53yrs Woman 52yrs

Enjoy the real world first




I'm sorry but it does my head in seeing young 18-21yr olds here. (let alone my stomach turns at getting flirts from them)

How the fuck did you all end up on these sites. Google pussy at 10 (because your cat is misbehaving) and boom...you've discovered porn.

Go to pub's, clubs, sports clubs, beach ffs and learn how to interact with others and others of all ages. Build confidence, get some experience and use your imagination for when your truly ready for this.

I must be getting to old (only in times are changing of course) :)

MrsH xxx and this is just my opinion and my feelings


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The_Antichrist   Man 40yrs

You’re 18....and you’re asking everybody else to make decisions for you??

Yep...that’s confidence 😂😂
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twowithnolimits   Couple Man 53yrs Woman 38yrs

there's room for both




Quoting 'horneycouplewa'




I'm sorry but it does my head in seeing young 18-21yr olds here. (let alone my stomach turns at getting flirts from them)

How the fuck did you all end up on these sites. Google pussy at 10 (because your cat is misbehaving) and boom...you've discovered porn.

Go to pub's, clubs, sports clubs, beach ffs and learn how to interact with others and others of all ages. Build confidence, get some experience and use your imagination for when your truly ready for this.

I must be getting to old (only in times are changing of course) :)

MrsH xxx and this is just my opinion and my feelings



At 18 (many yeras ago) i was attending and even organizing swingers parties. I utilised the media of the day , all the adult contact "magazines" , most were not even in colour then, and many were locally printed and bound... the other popular avenue were the weekend paper personal columns with their private mailboxes...thing is we all utilised the media of the day to meet new swingers, promote the parties etc etc I'm not sure this is too different as this generation naturally sees sites like this as the "media of the day"...
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HappyGoLucky70   Woman 49yrs

The guy is asking for genuine advice. It really is annoying when some older people can quite easily discard young people's feelings and situations. I remember many many moons ago when I left school how I was treated by some in the workplace. My son experiences it now. He has been treated like a piece of crap because of his age. Yes they are young, inexperienced and have a lot of years in front of them but they still deserve respect as we did and do.
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XantheaHunter  

Couple Man 45yrs Woman 45yrs

I saw my typos and jumped to conclusions.




Quoting 'Gr8distraction'

I feel there might be a misunderstanding.

My reply was purely about me, in that i clicked the like button on Mojo's post.
I still agree with what Mojo writes, as it was probably what i was thinking at the time.
Please don't think there was any reference to yourselves otherthan the fact that made a good point, that made me think a little more.

Sorry, it was a long day and I was over sensitive.


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XantheaHunter  

Couple Man 45yrs Woman 45yrs

I saw my typos and jumped to conclusions.




Quoting 'Gr8distraction'

I feel there might be a misunderstanding.

My reply was purely about me, in that i clicked the like button on Mojo's post.
I still agree with what Mojo writes, as it was probably what i was thinking at the time.
Please don't think there was any reference to yourselves otherthan the fact that made a good point, that made me think a little more.

Sorry, it was a long day and I was over sensitive.


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GetMePlease   Woman 48yrs

In the words of Winston Churchill and Thomas the Tank Engine 'never, never, never give up'.
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countrytouch82  

Man 36yrs

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Quoting 'horneycouplewa'


Go to pub's, clubs, sports clubs, beach ffs and learn how to interact with others and others of all ages. Build confidence, get some experience and use your imagination for when your truly ready for this.

Lovely advice, wouldn't it would be nice if everyone was able to magically find what they are looking for that way, we wouldn't need any type of site at all :P
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Pussy




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horneycouplewa   Couple Man 53yrs Woman 52yrs

Ya'll are missing the point




The guy asked for advice and I gave it...yes I think he should come back in a few years.
He has he's experienced in swinging on his profile ......wow

twnl: well good for you, I would think you would have had your own site by now !
HGL70: Are you kidding, how was he disrespected? because I believe kid's these days are exposed to way too much way too young, that was not a personal attack.
CT: We all? bit generalized, once again he is 18

I love interacting with younger ones at the pubs, clubs etc and this where I see them their happiest, Perhaps a forum on why they are here and what do they expect with replies only from that age group.



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dexter0007   Man 44yrs

18 is a bit young champ come back when your 21 way more chance in saying that some mature aged female would love to take you under her wing and train you up good luck champ.
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badboyhere   Man 41yrs

Quoting from a geek sci-fi movie galaxy quest “never give up never surrender” I have been on red hot pie for 41 years and have had to resort to playing with mrs Palmer and her five daughters across those entire 41 years but I still going and still hoping. I say to you champ” never give up never surrender”

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