RHP for Dating?

April 19 2018

Just curious on others views regarding finding a relationship on RHP.

I've had a couple guys, one today who said "he'd give me a tip, I'm on the wrong site", however it clearly state RHP is an Adult Dating site!

Another who completely ignored what my profile states, I think it's very clear!?!?



- Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    6 years ago

    Use the site for whatever you like, and in whatever way you like. Many unfortunately label it as a sex site and act accordingly. Ignore them, move on, use it the way you want to 👍

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    What I'm doing MsJonesy 😋
    Of course we all want sex, just on different levels.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    This is the only option to meet a partner of equal life experience. I have no intention of ever being in a conventional monogamous relationship, let alone with someone who hasn't had similar experiences to me. Where else would I meet such a person? 🤣😂

    But even if you are just after conventional dating with a view to a relationship, there are tons of men looking for their future Mrs here too. And plenty that are more than happy to do the dinner and drinks and sweep you off your feet stuff. Just because it's fuck site doesn't mean there's not some lovely guys here too.

    Tell the haters to sod off. Romance these days is more kinky than anal.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    6 years ago

    Is a great lesson why "here's a tip", can get people into a lot of trouble on this site.

    The best thing is, you didn't have to screen, he did it himself. So just say " thank you".

    Here's my tip of the day: the relationship with the tip is very sensitive. 😎

    There are plenty of people here (including myself) who have met amazing people and have formed some pretty amazing relationships. It works for me. Enjoy and have fun on this site (use it as you please)

    Ms Foxy

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Use the site for whatever you want to find.
    If men don't like it then it's their loss and move on to others.
    Like all things, do what makes you happy.
    Good luck xx

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Auflaurer

    After reading your post i just had to take a peek at your profile, and see who is this person.

    I like nipples, you've just managed to fuck up my night............In a good way

  • AKAHunk

    AKAHunk

    6 years ago

    You're not the only one here looking for as relationship OP, and if you're a highly sexually adventurous person you're more likely to find someone on the same page as you here as opposed to vanilla dating sites.

    So far I haven't found the right match, but there's plenty of fun to be had in the meantime 😊

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I think the best "dating" is what happens when like-minded people meet without too much pressure on outcomes. Hanging out with like-minded folk without the stressful mindgames of "being on a date".
    In that sense, I think this site is great if you want to meet open-minded sex-positive people.
    Though I do think that as a single female looking for a male, you're likely to have a massive noise-to-signal ratio around here. Even more so than on other sites. But then, if you're the sexually open minded type, it's probably worth giving it a chance. *shrug*

  • Rlee552

    Rlee552

    6 years ago

    Go for what you want. Your profile is very clear, and if people are not interested they will move past it. If they try and persuade you to change your mind, be firm as to what you want.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Why are you asking us to explain it you?

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    As an adult dating site. Ive had loads of dates with good men, most of who are still friends. Im looking for a sexually adventurous partner so this is the perfect site for me.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Arises a lot here in the forums. Bit like herpes really, keeps coming back....and it’s irritating as fuck for those who have it lol...

    However...

    You can identify these people’s behaviour as being questionable, you can also tell that their statements are unreasonable...

    So use that as your early dickhead prevention screening tool....

    In your case, your profile is clear(based upon your statement), their comments are clearly unreasonable....so it can be identified that they’re only saying it because they cannot achieve what THEY want....so they give in to their petulance, stomping their feet like a spoilt little brat and expect you to change your mind.....

    Spend less time questioning yourself, and more time blocking them and choosing only those whom tick the boxes YOU require and pander to only YOUR needs and you’ll soon see a shift in your experiences....

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    6 years ago

    The same guys on other dating sites as here.

    Difference is here they send you doc pics, on the others, pics of themselves with their fluffy dog.....

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    6 years ago

    .

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    As my profile says I'm not looking for the unicorn, I'm looking for the full blown winged Pegasus! I lady I can have a full relationship with and indulge in the lifestyle. I do pretty well with Tinder and in real life but finding a lady who wants to push boundaries is difficult in those situations

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Id love to make new friends if anyones interested. Snapchat= graftonlad kik= outforfun69r

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    From what my female friends tell me, the 'vanilla-ness' or otherwise of a dating site is noooo barrier to receiving dick pics...

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    As others have mentioned this is an “adult site” in which to meet whoever appeals to you in whatever manner you seek.

    I’ve been on other sites which are not as user friendly or community minded.

    I would much prefer to meet someone through here than a typical vanilla site.
    There’s really no difference, I’ve received just as much filthy talk on lovey dovey sites and formed some wonderful friendships and had some great lovers through RHP.

    The only shame in that is they may question whether you’re “relationship material” because you’ve played (just like they have) but things can change, people can change and evolve with someone special .

    It’s good you’re clear about which you seek, the right people will contact you.

    Good luck 😉


    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • egr2please69

    egr2please69

    6 years ago

    If anyone tells you otherwise the problem is theirs. Your profile is clear and not for others to judge how you choose to use this site. Clearly you are an intellegent lady with your mind focused on what you want. Go for it sister, haters are gunna hate. But in simple terms, who cares. You know who you are, you know what you want so use it the best way that suits your wants and needs. All power to you, enjoy your experiences with those that pass the test for you xx

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    6 years ago

    This is not a criticism but genuine question - if you are after monogamy what attracted you to RHP?

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    6 years ago

    Perhaps being monogamous should not limit your experience to average/vanilla sex.

    If you are wanting to fuck one person only, that sex should be with someone that knows what they are doing and blow your mind.

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    6 years ago

    Point taken. The only thing different I noticed was wanting someone younger. I figured I was missing something. The assumption is then, people on RHP make better lovers ?

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • unicorn_bubbles

    unicorn_bubbles

    6 years ago

    Im tired of hook ups so I too want to find someone I can have a relationship with but one that I can still explore my sexuality in. Someone to share those experiences with.



    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • honkytonk

    honkytonk

    6 years ago

    i only became a member of rhp cause some trickster told me there would be complimentary canapes.

    bastard

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    6 years ago

    You are evolving. Growing. That's great.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    This topic has been raised in the past, and some fairly lively discussions have taken place (reaches over, scratches absent-mindedly at the criss-cross of scarring on his back from where he was last whipped) . Very, very lively discussions.... (his eyes glaze as he recalls the hot pokers thrust at his pink bits the last time he commented on this topic).
    I won't say what I have said in the past on this topic, that you don't go to Dominos for gourmet pizza - I won't say that at all. It would just totally not be worth the anguish. I mean, my urine still comes out at a 45 degree angle for Christs' sake.
    In keeping with an evolutionary theme of changing my opinions once I have been publicly flogged and disemboweled however, I will say that you may just luck out at Dominos, some people on here have had some very satisfactory dining experiences and now eat nothing else.
    There seems to be two camps with internet dating - the ''long walks on the beach'' sites and the ''let's get freaky'' sites. It would be nice for those that are after both to have a service that walks the line. Perhaps RHP could do a sister site and call it RedMicrowaveablePie?

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Two couples were married in Perth, they met here on RHP. Meeting someone who is sexually as well as mentally compatible with you and shares your kinks would be amazing, I sure as hell would not be looking elsewhere if that were the case.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    6 years ago

    At least for a period of time. But as sure as the sun comes up, it will.



    And seeking younger? Because you can and it strokes your ego.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    For some people, a long walk on the beach followed by pegging action (for example) might be the perfect date. Still classifies as a date. The reverse order probably isn't recommended.

    On vanilla sites - looking at women's profiles anyhow - I've rarely read anything more daring an interest than "spooning".

    But still, spooning also interests me greatly because I would like a fellow single (if not a swingle?) who is affectionate and likes cuddles: vanilla interests perhaps. So no, while we (men) might seek on different sites ultimately we are seeking the same thing, a partner with some shared interests, including adult interests. It's just that adult site profiles contain more private, adult interests publicly listed than others sites.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    See what happens...

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I made vague mention of interest of sex or sexuality on my vanilla profiles, contact dropped significantly (to nil, from almost nil). :p

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    6 years ago

    I do believe with one of those couples (you mentioned), one moved across the country to be with the other.

    They are such a perfect couple.

    Anything is possible OP.

    Ms Foxy

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    If I was single, I would definitely use this site to meet guys - so tired of the vanilla variety

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'nightingale8'
    Point taken. The only thing different I noticed was wanting someone younger. I figured I was missing something. The assumption is then, people on RHP make better lovers ?

    - Posted from rhpmobile
    Because that is one assumption bound to make an ASS of U.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'countrytouch'On vanilla sites - looking at women's profiles anyhow - I've rarely read anything more daring an interest than "spooning".



    But still, spooning also interests me greatly because I would like a fellow single (if not a swingle?) who is affectionate and likes cuddles: vanilla interests perhaps.
    I've actually used "vanilla" dating sites to great success for finding people who eventually turned into cuddle buddies/FWBs.
    But somehow it seems that it's just not on to be toooooo open with your sexual interests on vanilla sites. Pretty much *any* direct reference to sexual interests in your profile and *crickets*....
    Not really sure why that is. And I'm not even just talking about "straight" profiles either. I guess sites that are geared towards romance just aren't all that conducive to too much sexual motivation being on display. Unless you're a hot female I suppose - then you get that kind of interest no matter the context! :D

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    My last two year attempt at Tinder was nothing short of soul destroying, however I have recovered enough now to begin being curious about a new attempt. Or call it a sucker for punishment!

    I have pictures of myself and my dog on my vanilla profiles, mainly because he is my world, a date cannot be part of it without him (as opposed to some kind of FB/play partner only). Some women state things like "I'm looking to date the person not the dog" so I'm still not sure what approach if any works best.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Mmmmmm ,,, interesting viewpoints from all .
    Personally , I love the art of conversation and getting to know ppl from all walks of life .
    It's a great 👍 launching pad for me to engage .
    Just go with the flow & roll with the punches , there's always a polite " thx but no thx "


    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    We would love to meet abi ladie to have fun times with brizzy or goldcoast so yeah drinks furst could be classed as a date git us up if u are keen

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I think it's about finding the right person at the right time!

    Good luck to all that are in search for a little bit of magic... it can happen

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Ucancounton

    Ucancounton

    6 years ago

    I reckon everybody on this site after to meet people ( even the people here just for the look!) When they have right encouragement they will meet ....best part of The RHP 80% you would know what you want to
    involve with and what your not ready for it .yet.
    And you will find people (some will call digheads) who are pushing for their luck to get something out of you that you don't want and there are enough of them to annoying us in every sites....

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    told you that this site was wrong for you, did his name start with kinky? I got told the same thing. No such thing as the person I want & that I'm wasting my time.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    It is essentially a sex dating site. Otherwise it wouldn't contain the content that it does.

    Eharmony is a dating site.

    That's not to say you can't use this for what you are after, just might be a little harder to find.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I guess like all conversations, it depends on context.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Did not expect to find love and get married. And we've been back for around 3 years.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    All great comments people.. why can’t you get what you want where you want... it’s all about respect something that people tend to forget.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I met my last boyfriend on this site. Like others have explained you can use this site whichever way pleases you. You’re being open with what you are looking for so it shouldn’t be of any concern to those who aren’t looking for the same.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • jualfun

    jualfun

    6 years ago

    If you are single than could be a great site for couples not so ,but that is our opinion.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I met a girl... We dated for ages. Was too stupid to know better. Can happen.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Gangbangs and other naughty stuff? Easy done. Coffee? Too hard basket :p

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I too seek a relationship yet I love sex too much to find a comparable partner so I’m here and elsewhere until I find and meet my match which is basically we are together with others that we know about on the side or we enjoy together. Very hard to find and I just do as I do in the meantime

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Minx99

    Minx99

    6 years ago

    I was scoffed at by some hot young thing for wanting a coffee meet before play. I don't want to date, but I'd like my takeout to have intelligent banter ;)

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Minx99

    Minx99

    6 years ago

    100% behind anyone seeking and finding anything here or anywhere OP. You do what you please :)

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    But no fuckin fish 🎣 !!

    If you’re four legged friend makes you what you are, they should be allowed on your profile pics!

    It’s heartening the amount of guys who write in the forums and they seem so dinkum! And a lot of the ladies seem to be happy with a glass of wine 🍷 or something.

    Sex site or dating site, that’s what you use as a beginning!

    M_D4

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    People who don’t read profiles. Sometimes I play with them, sometimes I’m rude, sometimes I ignore them. NEXT!! 😆

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Bazingal

    Bazingal

    6 years ago

    Use the site as you want. Your profile is very clear as to what you are looking for and there's no problem with that. People that don't fit what you are looking need not apply.



    I have met so many wonderful people from this site and have formed long term relationships/friendships with a few.



    If you haven't already, why not try some of the events in Perth? There is a very big social scene that would possibly open up more opportunities for you to meet like minded people.



    Good luck

    Baz xx

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Honestly
    I have had no real dating prospects on here! What I have had a is several scammers trying to fleece me of dollars to help them pay for everything from flights to medical emergencies to please help me I need a loan to even one asking if I’d give her $10k loan and never seen her real face ! Or personal meet!
    If I want to date I’d use a dating app
    Here it’s FWB or fuckbuddies thank you
    And FWB in my world is we meet and maybe a bit of social interaction and I spoil you a bit and booty calls!
    Money for fun is Sugar Dating and I’m on diet thank you
    😎😎🤣🤣

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    IT DOSENT MATTER WHAT DATING SITE YOU ARE IN, IT MIGHT EVEN BE A CHRISTIAN DATING SITE, ALOT OF PEOPLE MIGHT STILL ASK YOU FOR BOOTY CALLS. MY APPROACH TO ALL THIS IS THAT YOU CAN FIND WHATEVER YOU WANT ANYWERE
    JUST BE OPEN MINDED, YOU CAN SAY HI I DONT BIT

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    As long as you're not hurting anyone, then do what you want, I say.
    It doesn't say anywhere here in the rules or marketing that "This site is not to be used as a conventional dating site. Such behaviour may result in suspension from the site."
    And why would it. That'd be like opening your own convenience store, say, and then when a bunch of customers start asking, "Do you think you can order in Promite, I prefer it to Vegemite."And you replying, "No, not going to happen. This isn't a Promite store. Go to the Woolies down the street if you want Promite.."
    Err, why not?
    Running a business like that wouldn't be very smart. Meeting people like that isn't very smart.
    Everything is all about having options these days. It has to be. Whether we're deciding to build a house or go for a package deal, or what to have on a burger at Macca's.
    Or, where to find a companion.
    People who say different are living in the dark ages. Tell them to get back on their horse and cart.

  • mrnorti69

    mrnorti69

    6 years ago

    this site is for friends and naughty times just wot i think

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Earlier this year I married the great guy I found on rhp 7 1/2 years ago. We're still having fun. No reason at all that you can't find a serious relationship here - other than finding a bloke who'll actually meet up and not just want to chat and swap pics.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I met my husband on here 11 years ago... so u never know...we r now seperated and both back on here....

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • SandeGiny

    SandeGiny

    6 years ago

    Snap judgements, dictating to others how to use a website with A PROFILE OPTION THAT READS: "seeking relationship"... what a twat. LOL

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • SandeGiny

    SandeGiny

    6 years ago

    Everyone keeps referring to"vanilla" sex and sites. Christ, i must be more liberated than i thought... my outlook on what i consider vanilla and not must have changed because I do NOT put RHP anywhere near the range of a kink site!
    I have yet to meet anyone on here who wants anything more than a straight up fuck, a little light spanking or something put up their bum.
    That said, everyone here is a bit more open-minded when it comes to my being poly than the slut shaming double-standard-holding Tinder fuck-knuckles...

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I am agree with that.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • N4November

    N4November

    6 years ago

    And we were together for nearly 5 years.

    Be open, be honest and have fun! Like attracts like and keep the communication going about what you are looking for. Take risks but ALWAYS listen to your intuition!

    Good luck! Xx

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I’ve just delved in to this site properly and I 100% want to meet a person who wants to form a connection. I figure this is the best place to form a connection based on honesty and adventure.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • fitandhealthy72

    fitandhealthy72

    6 years ago

    If you fall in love what’s wrong with that 🙏

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    When looking for a monogamous partner, as opposed to a fuck, clear head-shots are pretty important. I wonder why you provide none at all? I haven’t looked at any of the single guy profiles, but I’d be curious to know how many guys on RHP state they are here for a monogamous life partner?

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Mctag9

    Mctag9

    5 years ago

    RHP has the dating/seeking relationship options and for me I'd prefer to meet my soul mate here rather than elsewhere - I love this lifestyle and I'd like to enjoy it with my future partner.... It is much easier to find someone into the same things as me on here than anywhere else...



    I'd like to meet my life partner on here but I don't treat every hook up as a potential partner I'm having a ball and if I meet "The one" on here that would be awesome!?

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    We met on RHP little over 6 months ago and we haven't looked back. Best relationship we have both had by a long shot, sure its had its ups and downs like a lot of people but I don't regret any of it.
    If you want to use it as a dating/relationship site, swinging site or just a site to come in the chat rooms and have a wank its totally up to you lol.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    If success is measured by being fucked around and led on; then this place is awesome!

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    I'm very new here, and came because a friend suggested it. For me, I've tried around a dozen dating sites this year, and found equal amounts of idiots everywhere.

    For me it's simple, if a guy will talk to me like I'm a person, rather than a vagina on legs, there's a much greater chance of us getting naked at some point. I'm also very much about in person, I don't do video, photo, sexting etc, I just want to hold him in my hands and stroke him to pleasure.

    Do I like sex? Hell yes, good dickings matter. Am I picky? Extremely. In the week-ish I've been here I've blocked a few, decided to not continue chatting with quite a few, and if they can't take the time to chat with me a bit before throwing me their invite for coffee, their number or Kik details, then they aren't someone I want to connect with. To each their own.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    For BBWPerth

    How you do things is entirely up to you.
    The world has moved online.
    Jobs have become long distance.

    It's like how you drive a car
    Eat at a restaurant
    Or get dressed in the morning.

    No 2 people are the same.

    So do your thing and don't worry too much about the negative.

    I hope you find what you are looking for.

    Teddy

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Yes you can form enduring relationships on RHP, when l listed myself as single, l met over a period of a few months, two guys that l have had play dates with, despite having herpes. And yes they knew!
    I am still communicating regularly with one of these guys however the dynamics of what l now seek is with my committed partner and so we operate as a couple.
    Funny enough l have discovered that whilst men accept my herpes condition, my bi male partner cops flack, not on here but generally in the outside world. The world is interesting indeed. I was lucky enough to meet my committed partner on another site, he's been both a swinger and bi for a long time, and will stay that way. l am blessed that we share a loving relationship and plan on being together for as long as we both decide is right.

  • wingman2014

    wingman2014

    2 years ago

    You’re not responsible for their lack of comprehension and judgement