No Condoms Please

No Condoms Please

    | Apr 14, 2018
EarthQueen   Woman 47yrs
Literally 80% of men I meet try to convince me that they shouldn’t wear a condom.
Reasons are varied. I don’t like them, I’m safe, I’ve been tested, I haven’t had sex in a year etc etc etc
I get that they don’t always feel the greatest but has safe sex gone out the window?
Do they really feel that bad?
I clearly state this before I meet anyone that if it’s not on, it’s not on. But they still ask in the heat of the moment? Why takes risks with your health like that?

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unicorn_bubbles   Woman 37yrs

I’m finding that too

I always try and turn it back on them. How do they know I haven’t got something? Or any of the people I have slept with?

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swingalingson   Man 37yrs

Just stick to your guns

If it is not on...it is not in!

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twotootouch  

Couple Man 64yrs Woman 54yrs

Condoms

Some forget it is a two way street and they should be thinking of every ones protection including their own ...this is why you don't find a lot of men in the smart queue when it comes to sex

written by Mr
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curiouscpple  

Couple Man 44yrs Woman 39yrs

It’s just wrong

If it’s not on, then it’s not on.

Or to quote Swingalingson ‘if it’s not on, it’s not in’ .....

Never ever compromise your own safety. If they try to then they don’t respect you.

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FatFunFiesty  

Woman 38yrs

OMG YES!

I've noticed a massive rise in men requesting bareback too. It actually terrifies me in the moment because my mind then wanders to how many times they have been unsafe. And if they're going to Houdini the condom when I'm not looking.

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MsJonesy   Woman 51yrs

The desire

To plant their seed must be strong lol.

I have come across this over the years, every excuse under the book! You sound like you are going through a rough patch though EQ. Personally, I reiterate right before play that condoms will be used (and I make sure the condoms are out on the bedside table/ coffee table... wherever needed in fact) .... and add that if they ask to play without them that its enough for me to pack & leave. I soften that statement with the suggestion I am more tham happy to help out putting it on...delivered with a salacious grin and a wink and they get the idea they could be in for some fun. 😉 Alterior motive at work..if I help, then I know it is ineed on!
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No insult intended...


...although how does the man know that the woman is safe and won't be sending on the way with more than a grin?

Shizen...get over it, kids!

⚡️

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aussian43  

Man 47yrs

Not just men

I have had a lady ask that we not use condoms, but I expect she would have been in the minority.
Of course unprotected oral in both directions is quite risky, though at least no chance of pregnancy.

Seeing the stories of stealthing going around must be pretty scary for the ladies.

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VivalaKoko

Condoms

So many profiles have "if required" which makes me pass them over. Honest, yes, but I read that instances of STDs keep climbing in WA and its not worth risking your sexual health for a lusty session. As for stealthing..... When I was with my ex we both got tested and went condom free, its the best feeling, but only in an exclusive relationship. Agree with MsJonesy, you can slip on a condom and make it sexy, with your mouth or after a nice cock massage ......
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If required

I think this has come up before but there are different interpretations of "if required"

I don't insist on condoms or dental dams for oral but do for penetration. So "for all activities" isn't appropriate. The amount of people that say for all activities but then so they don't use them for oral is pretty high.

For me "if required" means depending on the activity not "I'll wear them if you insist they are required".



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VivalaKoko

Temp...

Sorry, I was meaning for intercourse but should have stated that. I have actually had guys insist that they will not wear condoms, the thrill to them is maybe worth more than their health.
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HotNightsPerth   Couple Man 47yrs Woman 45yrs

Couples also

We’ve been rejected purely because we won’t play without condoms. Even though it clearly states we play safe always in our profile.
I’m sure some people think they can change your mind upon meeting them. 🙄
Can believe that so many people risk their safety these days.


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Mischeviouslad   Man 47yrs

Equality

It’s not only the guys who don’t seem to get the safe sex message


My experience is that numerous women have been a bit carried away in the moment and thought they should try and slide on down

And I understand that desire and mood.... but it’s not going to happen

😎

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SuperFoxxxy  

Woman 46yrs

They may try to convince you

At the end of the day, its your body, your choice.



I blame a lot on technology (too easy to pick up), the "fuck buddy"/friends with benefits" that goes on, because people are too trusting and vulnerable. So when they do meet others, they think its " normal" to forgo. People forget, one night of hot steamy passion (without a condom), equals a many sleepless nights of a crying baby and a lifetime of dollars. I think people forget that. The cost of a packet of condoms is way cheaper than that.

Ms Foxy
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Pommyfucker   Man 34yrs

Thats crazy!

I was tested the other week and given the all clear (yey me) but I'd like it to stay that way!

I mean who knows where you have been you little tramp x
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Rlee552  

Man 42yrs

Literally 100%

... of the people I meet up with I insist on wearing a condom.



And yes, they do reduce pleasure but that is a very minor price to pay for safe sex.
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300Orgasms  

Couple Man 45yrs Woman 49yrs

Swinging clubs

I was saying to Mrs 300ORGASMS just the other day how it’s strange that the overwhelming majority of people in swinger clubs where condoms, but in private, people are much more relaxed about using them.

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pipsqueak  

Woman 34yrs

Each Saturday Night

I work a part time job at a escort agency in Melbourne . No I’m not a escort, but I have no problem or shame in saying if I was



I work as a phone hostess, so when you contact the agency you are talking with me either via sms, email, phone or live chat about a potential booking



The money is great but man I have learnt more about men from my 12 hours shifts,there, than my many years of dating



Anyway



The most common request made by clients is bareback, either oral, intercourse or both (second most common request is for anal and third is will the escort perform sex in car ? that would beno, as it’s illegal)



We always advise the client that the escort performs safe sex only (if the escort decides to perform unsafe sex that is their choice however they will charge additionally for this and from what Ive heard the client is alway willing to pay) however rarely does the escort agree to this for very obvious reasons. All our escorts are tested each 3 months and must have a clean bill of health in order to work with us



As I said, the most common request is sex without a condom. I would say that request is made by 80-90 percent of potential clients. On the other end of the spectrum we have potential clients, fanatical about whether the escort will wear condoms. It’s very extreme, the two requests



When I first started working at the agency, this request for bareback stunned me given that HIV, hep and other nasties are still prevalent. Now I just roll my eyes and shake my head. I continually inform the potential client that no, the escort only practices safe sex and this point is argued over with the client more than price. We always inform the client that it is sex safe only. Most will relent and book but I’d say that 20 percent tell us they will go elsewhere and they do.



If the escort arrives at their appointment and the client requests no condom and the escort agree then that’s that. It happens and it is entirely up to the escort and whether they charge more, however by law we must advocate safe sex and to me it is a given. If the escort does not abide, we have no control over this once the escort is with the client



So from professional experience I would say that condoms are not being used widely and men seem to not care. This shocks me even more given many clients inform us they are partnered (yes they do tell us or the escort) and yet they are still prepared to take the risk. And I know exactly how many clients one escort can see on any given day



From my personal experience I’ve only just recently encountered this. I spent 3 years in South America where even though birth control, is still frowned on, being predominantly Catholic countries , condoms seem to be quite acceptable and encouraged



It’s only since coming back to Australia have I encountered issues with potentially lovers. I’ve heard every excuse both professionally and personally as to why men won’t wear them . Not one excuse has ever cut any ice with me. Not on, it’s not on. Not negotiable



I still don’t understand the mentality of those whose are prepared to risk their sexual health and those of any of their partners present or potentially



Do you jump out of plane without a parachute ?









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OkeyDoke45  

Man 48yrs

To flip the coin...

It has been my experience that women hate condoms as much as men - I am struggling to recall a woman who has not baulked at me slipping one on (''do you really think that's necessary?").

I think now with the new-fandangled HIV ''PEP'' thing, or whatever it is, that everyone has become blasé about protection; "most everything is pretty much treatable these days so live now and deal with it later'' - and I am in no way endorsing this attitude.
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CandyD   Woman 32yrs

Temp

Sorry, for most women when a profile states “if required” equates to you will go out without a condom when ever you can get away with it. Too many profiles too look through, so an “if required” is an immediate swipe next regardless or what he means by it.



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