NSA

NSA

    | Jul 01, 2018
AnnieWhichway   TV/CD 55yrs
No Strings Attached.


What does that mean to you?





A lot more guys use it than women. Women have pointed out that it can be a red flag for them, even if they are not after a relationship.


Is it because you women deserve the right to change your mind?


Or because you see the guys that use the term as players?





The subject has prob been done before but haven't they all.....?
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boxestotick   Couple Man 46yrs Woman 45yrs

Don’t read too much into it.

Simply means - “just fun sex without a relationship and emotions attached”.

- Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetjen1

NSA means guys put no effort in

If a guys ask for NSA I walk away

There are working girls to do that lol

Prefer couples now as they actually spoil you

Dinners drinks massages

I don’t do NSA
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countrytouch

...

I don't use it because of the various connontations involved. However, if I was to use it, it simply means I am making no demands that the other person MUST see me again, let alone offer her wedding ring finger :P

So I would be thinking about the other person, as opposed to myself.
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nightingale8   Woman 32yrs

NSA

To me means sex without emotions or expectation of relationship.

Red flag because it's emotions that make sex worthwhile. I don't want another committed relationship but enjoy the company of someone who is emotionally available and who values me.

- Posted from rhpmobile
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Rlee552  

Man 42yrs

SRA.

Silk Ropes Attached. Much much better than string.
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PeachyPearL   Woman 54yrs

🎀 They don't want to be...

"Like a puppet on a string"... Peachy 🎀
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deepestpurple   Man 36yrs

not a "relationship" and not exclusive




NSA = Don't expect to follow the socially conventional relationship progression program and therefore don't expect exclusivity which is typically the first stage of said program.

It seems to me to be a bit self defeating for women to view it as a red flag if they themselves are not looking for a relationship either. Of course if they do want the potential of a relationship, even if they haven't fully admitted it to themselves, then it should be a giant red flag.

Women often state that they want guys to be upfront and honest about what they are looking for but if it's become a heuristic for identifying lazy, entitled and selfish men then that would be understandable.
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Mischeviouslad   Man 47yrs

@nughtingale

Rather well put.



- Posted from rhpmobile
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PeachyPearL   Woman 54yrs

They...

Don't want to get caught up in any entanglements? 🎀

As a couple... NSA is something we used to have on our profile... Peachy
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PeachyPearL   Woman 54yrs

They're new...

and haven't realised yet that they will be judged and pored over for every letter on their profile. Don't worry about pictures being worth a thousand words... Peachy
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Xxalex   Man 37yrs

Nsa can have too much read into it..

If I was to use it, it wouldn't mean no effort made on my behalf.. It would simply mean no demands or expectations for future meets.. I wouldn't treat you with less respect or even in a less personal or effortworthy manner.. More a once off is fine, I'm not going to be Txting or hounding you for more meets..

- Posted from rhpmobile
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Hawt1   Man 41yrs

FWB




Quoting 'nightingale8'

To me means sex without emotions or expectation of relationship.



Red flag because it's emotions that make sex worthwhile. I don't want another committed relationship but enjoy the company of someone who is emotionally available and who values me.

- Posted from rhpmobile
I prefer friends with benefits myself.
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2new2screw

Gawd! .......

Fucking without feeling,non commital cum sesh only......?

- Posted from rhpmobile
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Meander   Woman 45yrs

Mine

No Spooning Afterwards
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sweetjen1

Fibs fibs fibs

You protest to much
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nightingale8   Woman 32yrs

Thanks Mischievious

😙

- Posted from rhpmobile
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The_Antichrist   Man 39yrs

Nightingale....

I agree with your definition...

However...

I can’t help but wonder about the emotionally available component. You’re attached and make no secret of that, but I’m curious as to why a potential needs to be emotionally available when you’re actually not due to your emotional investment in your primary relationship??

I’m sure you’re not the only person that prefers this, and I’m not knocking you at all, I just find it a hard concept to grasp that one party could ask that when it’s impossible for the asking party to reciprocate to the same level...

- Posted from rhpmobile
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Rlee552  

Man 42yrs

Connection v commitment

You can still have a connection with the other person when nsa - and still take pleasure in their pleasure. However, there is no expectation or demand for a commitment. So nsa can still have emotions attached to it, but they are non-demanding emotions.
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AnnieWhichway   TV/CD 55yrs

Emotionally available

Can be meaning just friendship?

But is friendship a string in the context of it all?



We seem to want to label our sexuality to the infinite degree, labeling our interactions/relationships is going along the same way.

Straight to Gay and all the bits in between

NSA to Marriage and all the bits in between.

So on that basis, NSA is drop your duds, get it done and see you later
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MrMojoRisin   Man 64yrs

Quite clearly

NSA means different things to different people.

Using NSA in a profile is a no win option, using a label for the sake of brevity will get you labelled.

Thanks for asking the question Annie.

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