Lies on your profile

Lies on your profile

    | Aug 29, 2018
Sweetjen7
Why do people lie on there profile

Met this couple recently for drinks and when I hugged her hello could smell cigarettes

Their profile said non smokers but they excused themselves to go and light up after a few drinks.

I politely declined their offer to go back to their hotel room and left.

I messaged them about it and they said they only smoke when they are nervous.

Has anyone else had a similar situation?
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FatFunFiesty   Woman 38yrs

Lost count

How many times this has happened to me. Smokers especially seem to be quite wiley in their evasive maneuver. The moment I smell it on someone, usually within the first few minutes, I'm outtie🏃‍♀️
Same goes for druggies. Zero tolerance for it.
Ive also been fooled, in my early days on RHP, By "old pics". Meet and realise they're actually 15 years older, considerably different shape and with significant less hair lol. When quizzed as to the disception; common responses have been, "Well its worth a shot because you wouldn't have met me otherwise and I knew you'd like me once we were face to face anyway".... yeah but nah....... seeya 😂
Never understood why people lie on their profiles, it always gets uncovered. Ive always been more of an oversharer with my faults. Lay them all out there via pics and the written word and if someone is still interested enough to contact me in an informed way.... game on.

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FatFunFiesty   Woman 38yrs

Typo

Deception*

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Redmustang   Couple Man 44yrs Woman 40yrs

Smoking and lies

Same thing happened to us

Met a couple at a bar in the afternoon then arranged to meet and go to our room. As we were walking to the hotel they lit up despite their profile saying they were non smokers!

We had another couple say they were non smokers but in the pics we exchanged they were smoking in them!

There excuse was no one will meet us as we smoke wtf?
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The_Charmer   Man 41yrs

Guess you don't meet the right people

Well, guess you haven't met the right people then 😄😄😄😄 cos there are many who write the truth and so people chose not to meet them 😄😄😄😄

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FatFunFiesty   Woman 38yrs

Charmer

No one here has stated that the "Profile Embellishers" are the only people being met. But we've all had dud/failed meets for a myriad of reasons. I know in my case, those meets have been rare and moreso in the early days (6 years ago).
These topics are always good to know that it happens to most people and to share experiences etc.

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Redmustang   Couple Man 44yrs Woman 40yrs

Liars

There is one guy on here who lists his age as 42 but is really 62 and he thinks no one will notice lol

He seems to be on a lot of friends lists though

Maybe old age has taught him wisdom perhaps lol
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boobs_or_bust   Couple Man 52yrs Woman 43yrs

our is the opposite

no lies and works well for us ,the very odd message and flirt is nice to know we don’t come across as mouldy old salmon ,id rather be honest and go no where, than almost about to touch something, get caught. and be disallowed ,nahhh honesty is key

mr b

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Sweetjen7

Embellishers

I love the profiles where they have taken a picture of a picture in a frame

That’s not going to old is it lol

But smokers as soon as I smell it I shut down straight away

I do get the messages from smokers saying they will clean their teeth and chew a mint but I still am seriously not interested

It shows a real lack of insight
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oceandreaming   Man 39yrs

20 years & 20 kilos ago

Smoking &.old deceptive pics has always been a huge turn off for me. All of my pics do me a big discredit I've been told, but some people must be absolute wizards with filters..

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Red_liquorice   Couple Man 46yrs Woman 52yrs

No lies here

I used to lie about my age as I don't look or act 52, but I'm now loud and proud about it.
I reckon 90% of the couples over 40 lie about their age or post photos from a decade ago.
We're not fond of smokers either and haven't had that problem...yet.

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DynamicCouple36   Couple Man 48yrs Woman 39yrs

Smokers

One whiff and it’s an instant turn off for us

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MrMojoRisin   Man 64yrs

18 - 99

Yeah right...
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Deep_Passion   Man 42yrs

Yep, smokers

No fucking way. Biggest turn off ever.



Some profiles have very odd ideals on athletic and slim body types. Happy to say I’m average. As for lies.. well I should update my endowment to 8” and thick make you squirt.



🤦‍♂️

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OkeyDoke45   Man 48yrs

Sheepishly raises hand...

I am one of those filthy smoker things. Have it on my profile as such though - I know it is an instant cross against my name for most but oh well.

It would be frustrating to encounter the opposite though.

How do people feel about ''vapers''?
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MrMojoRisin   Man 64yrs

You're as old as my grandfather...

Yeah right, again.
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Sweetjen7

Mrmojo are you ok

Just because I turned you down as I explained in my message you then said something rude and blocked me lol too funny

I appreciate it must be hard(or not so hard) but manners don’t have an age

I may have said you remind me of my grandfather

I am allowed to say no



Vapers are still out for me it permeates the lungs and still is a chemical

I listened to a scientific study that vaping increases your risk of heart attack still!

I have never had a smoke nor never wish to and really don’t understand the appeal!



Okeydoke do people say no to you politely?



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Lionsdoll1   Woman 38yrs

Yep

Over time I’ve encountered a few.
💋 Age is always common. Not a bid deal if it’s only a few years. Usually 40-45 when they’re closer to 50. Whatevs.

I did spend some time with a man who had 40 and was in fact 52!
But I’m sooo glad he lied. He had the body and stamina of a 35 yo and sexy AF!

💋 Single!!! I’ll only date open relationship or single only! Then you find out they’re still married or have had a girlfriend almost the whole time 😱 Don’t drag me into that shite unknowingly!!

💋 size. It’s not a major factor, but man. We will find out.

💋 Dom - now just cos you’re bossy and like to spank does NOT make you “A Dom” massive difference. If one more wannabe messages me I’ll scream 😝

💋 fake photos once again, we’ll find out.

💋 location- I’m guilty on this one. I won’t have my real location for safety . Small town, and for my childrens safety and my reputation.
I only travel for meets anyway and always state the truth in the first or second message. Never encountered an issue.

The only guy I meet locally is very discreet, trustworthy and respectful to my situation. Met in the old fashioned RL scenario.

Just be honest and upfront and the right people will come to you. And all unnecessary drama can be avoided . Truth will always come out eventually 🙌


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OkeyDoke45   Man 48yrs

From the permeated...




Quoting 'Sweetjen7'

Okeydoke do people say no to you politely?
Yeah, they do. I am a polite person and I get politeness back.







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Myhoneypot   Couple Man 41yrs Woman 41yrs

Yeah we're smokers 🤗

It comes down to personal hygiene and respect for others. It's not hard to brush your teeth and use deodorant lol 😂 Saying that we have come across people that don't smoke that still smell like shit and breath that smell like a garbage bin. Keeping some mints in your pocket isn't hard lol. I know if we are with a non smoking couple we respect that and keep it in mind. Please don't label us all a dirty filthy disrespectful smelly pigs. Just remember non smokers can smell just as bad if not worse. 🤗
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ROBJEN   Couple Man 40yrs Woman 28yrs

Lies or embellishments, hmmmmmmm

Very important to us too because it is about trusting those you choose to be with.



Embellishments such as a few years off the age (within reason of course, lol), different location, photo taken with the best makeup job and filters we can get by. The motivation is more likely to be vanity or anonymity in a small tow over intended deceit.



20 year old photos or 20 kilos or outright false information are deal breakers, we would walk away without a second thought. Not because of what the person really was, but because they had shown their tendency to lie at the first opportunity.

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