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Is it me? Is it my profile? Is there hope for me?
July 13 2019
- Posted from rhpmobile
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teamaj2
5 years ago
Chingoes , all is not lost . Please keep up your positive friendly engaging approach . I like your profile . It’s informative- that makes for a change . Sadly RHP has ALOT of single males . My advice is patience and perseverance . As you can see we are a couple. We have found it pays to be patient. Waiting for the right person or people is worthwhile .
We wish you good luck .
ARHP User
5 years ago
Your self summary is actually pretty good.
You like to please and as couple this is one if the things we look for in men.
And you sound like a gentlemen who likes to treat women with respect not a piece of meat so that’s good too but maybe don’t mention old fashioned part?
Remember this is place frequented by swingers, hotwives, bisexuals and an open mind may see “old fashioned” as a threat.
Also, don’t get me wrong but maybe replace last two photos with full body shots?
You already have two face photos, show everyone the rest of you.
And avoid close ups that are bit too close.
You have a nice style, you just need to adjust what you project outside.RHP User
5 years ago
+1 signed up last night.
RHP User
5 years ago
You probably don't really want a male's perspective, plus I am also not the type to generally rate profiles, but being a fellow ginger I thought I would have a look at yours.
Your profile is okay, but just that. Your profile pic is fine, probably put some pics in your public gallery that aren't just your profile pic shot in another room though. Perhaps get a bit creative with it?
Your blurb is fairly bog-standard, but my advice is to omit all the ''I'm not like the other guys, I'm nice and I like to wine and dine'' stuff. I would say that most women (and I would like to hear from some here as to whether this is true) have heard all those lines before, only to be dragged into the bedroom and finger-blasted after a piece of garlic bread.
At the end of the day though, your profile just has to represent you as honestly as it can. Make no claim that will be proven wrong, same applies for the inverse. If your profile is indeed that - it's you in a nutshell, then it just proves that you are like most other blokes on RHP - you're just okay. You're about average. If you are struggling to get any responses on here, I would say that it's because you have to prove you're not just average.
You are right about the ginger thing though - we are considered a bit exotic these days, perhaps focus a bit more on that?Forus1234
5 years ago
You have too many face pics! One is enough. You need to get some provocative ones up, that reveal a little of your bod, but not all, eg a towel covering your private bits, even one with a towel around your waist. Pics that will cater for all people you trying to attract, singles, couples etc etc....
We receive comments on our profile where people like the way our pics don’t reveal everything & leave something for the imagination. The exposed ones & face ones are in our pgs. Your bio is fine! Hope this helps! (Mrs F).RHP User
5 years ago
Some of the best profiles I’ve read are more of a creative narrative...
Your profile isn’t bad, but i don’t think it truly taps into the you...
Like that other filthy keyboard warrior said, drop all the “I’m not like every other guy” crap...you make those statements by your actions, not by trying to convince people by begging....and whilst you may not see that it reads like you are, that’s how I read it whenever I see that kinda stuff...
Same with the “teach me” stuff...you know your experiences, and which ones have worked for you previously, so run with your strengths and use your weaknesses as a starting point of contacting profiles....use your weaknesses as a topic of conversation between your prospective partners....or mention the specifics of what you wish to experience in your profile...again, be creative about it....RHP User
5 years ago
Agree with the previous commenters on more body pics.
You have a great smile.
Your description is ok, but I would add in some of your hobbies or likes so we get a better understanding of your personality.
Unfortunately there are a ton of single males on here and women get inundated (which is why my profile is hidden at the moment).
I cannot keep up and discover messages I don’t remember receiving.
I’m up in Sydney semi regulary. I would have a date with you.
Freaky_Fun
5 years ago
Not sure why people think men or women are going to fall at their feet as soon as they join up.
Then spit the dummy saying they're going to leave after 5 minutes.
MsSuperFoxy
5 years ago
Best being you, write what ever you want on your profile, after all it is what attracts people. People like what they like. Heaps of people would have signed up when you did, so you're not alone on that one. Give the events tab a look over something might interest you. Just remember tho women are not free prostitutes on here. You have to earn that right by being you and respectful towards women. Best of luck.
Ms FoxyRHP User
5 years ago
Your profile is great. Don't change your wording. They are your words and your thoughts and I think it's well written. Probably agree a couple of body shots or even clothed full body shots would enhance your profile, but I'd be surprised if you don't get responses. Rome wasn't built in a day so to speak. Be patient, it will happen
RHP User
5 years ago
Asking other members to rate a Profiles is a bit of a joke, every single rating will be different, we all have different opinions, and i have read a critique of your profile by a member who i think could improve their own profile.
Just write what you think you should write, and clearly stipulate exactly what you are looking for, this would be the first thing that i would be looking at in any profile, just so i know that i am not wasting my time.
Personally, i don't care what others think of mine, but then again i am not here to find anything in particular, just feeling my way around to see what this place is all about, and if/when a time comes where i have decided exactly what i am looking for, i will add that to my own profile.
Enjoy the Forum for what it is, but do not have high expectations, this place, like every other adult forum on the internet is riddled with so many men, some who seem to be very creepy, and some who are here for the wrong reasons.
Most of the solo ladies seem to be very nice from what i have see so far, many of them very amusing and keep me giggling while browsing the Forum.
Have fun, and contribute to the forum as well.RHP User
5 years ago
Don't despair mate
It takes time
I had the same feeling when I first joined RHP
I fiddled around with my profile and managed my pics a bit better.
So far I've been been happy enough to chat with members and make some cool friends.
Just be patient..
windows_spent
5 years ago
Freaky_fun speaks truth.
I know a ginger who lived near abouts you and was even married and got a few bites (actual dates etc). So it’s not where you live or your colouring.
I think RHP is more niche - which is to say, your neighbour and your mum and your boss aren’t likely to be here in the same numbers as tinder. As such, it’ll take time to find people, chat and eventually meet.
One thing to me: your RHP profile made me think “why isn’t he on tinder/bumble/okCupid/POF?” The profile is 100% safe for work and your mum to find - but then, aren’t you perhaps here for something a little more adult? Maybe you aren’t and that’s ok, but it’s the question I had in my mind.RHP User
5 years ago
Less is more when your rockin fire engine red ....just make personality,gsoh and selfless, understated confidence top 3 ....every dickpick roidhead and their gerble have inflated opinions of themselves...the exception must offer a overwhelming uniqueness/opening .
RHP User
5 years ago
Good morning everyone. Can't thank you all enough for your feedback. I will make some amendments to my profile and helpfully chat soon.
Chriscat please feel free to msg me when you are up in Syd again :)RHP User
5 years ago
Hi Chingoes,To expand on what Foxy mentioned, always check out what's happening in events. Regardless how amazing your profile is, the reality is, attending just one event can change your whole RHP experience forever. The way to meet people here, is exactly that, meet them. For instance, attend a meet and greet. Meet just one or two people. Befriend them on RHP, pretty soon your whole experience opens up. You meet their friends and so on and so forth. This "networking" doesn't have to be done in an underhanded way, nor a disrespectful way either.
Also like Foxy and others touched on, RHP is not really any different to a lot of other sites, provided you are respectful and refrain from having sex at the forefront of every message you send, eventually you'll get through to someone, the place is full of average mainstream people. Show some interest in them other than just purely sexual reasons and you'll be surprised at how the picture changes. By the look of it, Chriscat has already hit you up for a date, look at you go!Also perhaps ignore the negativity, and jibes you will get from ignorant people. It is extremely common for single guys to feel exactly like you. You are wondering what you are doing wrong, as the truth is your inbox isn't exactly exploding.
The comment regarding spitting the dummy and falling at your feet is a bit rich coming from a single females keyboard, considering the fact that they are female of any age, size, shape, color or creed guarantees a truckload of messages daily, and that mostly men, and couples are falling at their feet daily. A trifle ignorant when it's considered....I'll have to have a word at the next "event", funny part is, I probably will be...Anyhow,
Good luck and best wishes,ZanyRHP User
5 years ago
Oh chingoes , zany (Dan 😃) dribbles on a bit too much - come catch with us before the meet & greet next sat for a few drinks - we’ll (I’ll🤣) give you some tips 😊
RHP User
5 years ago
Haha - see u live in Sydney - bit of a drive to brissy 🤣🤣
RHP User
5 years ago
Damn I would of loved to meet up if it was here!.
RHP User
5 years ago
Reflect the authentic you ? Or is there something interesting about you that you have forgotten to add?
If not,be happy with what you've got.Go to meet and greats,contribute to the forums and be patient.
Hugs Q
yep_its_me
5 years ago
Be yourself, be honest and things will happen when you least expect it.
I won't say don't be disheartened by negative comments, people have opinions, whats right for one, isn't right for others but the general consensus is be honest.
No we aren't all as you put it filthy keyboard warriors..... and maybe like most have indicated, different pictures and make sure they are recent.
No judgement here, profile looks fine if its you......
Yep_its_me
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